calls from the wife/girlfriend

[mgiadarling]

seriously fellas! please clean up after yourself! women know! they always know!!! delete delete delete please. I'm so tired of playing dumb with your women. that is all

[chickenfri303]

thank you for the good housekeeping lesson!

[mgiadarling]

apologies if I sound like a bitch. I just get frustrated with dealing with things like this. it's much too often... and I don't know what I'm supposed to say/do

[Guest]

This is a very good topic. I wish guys where not like this.

A client contacted me. His screening cleared, our schedules didn't mesh at time. He booked and appointment for the next day. Little did I know his girlfriend had spy wear on his cell phone. She showed up at my incall first thing in the morning before his 3ock. Then of course he never showed up. lol  

[mgiadarling]

exactly!!!! how am I supposed to handle your jealous wife?! I just wish the guys would get better at covering their tracks!!!

[chickenfri303]

I totally agree this is a very good topic - we all want to be safe that is the number one rule here!

Gia - you do not sound like a "B" at all - it is everyone's responsibility to take care of there business.

 

 

[Mustang87]

If you are using your regular cell phone to book this could happen.  All the more reason for a hobby phone that no one knows anything about.

[mgiadarling]

I use google voice. it's free and it helps me differentiate between work calls and normal everyday stuff

[Guest]

apologies if I sound like a bitch. I just get frustrated with dealing with things like this. it's much too often... and I don't know what I'm supposed to say/do

You don't sound like Bitch to me at all. This is important. This can happen if the wife finds the hobby phone too. Im not sure how guy could 100% hide us. One thing is true, mgiadarling has very point, girlfriends and wives always know. I have to agree this. I think some just except it for one reason or another. 

[Guest]

... and I don't know what I'm supposed to say/do

You could say you're with State Farm Insurance...and wearing khakis.

[mgiadarling]

 

You don't sound like Bitch to me at all. This is important. This can happen if the wife finds the hobby phone too. Im not sure how guy could 100% hide us. One thing is true, mgiadarling has very point, girlfriends and wives always know. I have to agree this. I think some just except it for one reason or another. 

women just know when their man is going somewhere else. we always will know

[mgiadarling]

You could say you're with State Farm Insurance...and wearing khakis.

except I don't sound like jake!!!!

[Wendy Whitney]

A thought... when you are wrapping up the session and giving them a hug good-bye, remind them to delete your correspondence (text message, phone number, etc).

[Guest]

They make password locked phones for a reason... :-D

[Guest]

exactly!!!! how am I supposed to handle your jealous wife?! I just wish the guys would get better at covering their tracks!!!

The client(s) should cover their tracks, I agree. If not, they'll not be doing this very much longer. No provider should be put in that position with an SO. Have you been hanging up or have you engaged in a conversation? Geez, that has to be awkward for everyone involved...then the John has some 'splainin' to do to the SO!!

[mgiadarling]

The client(s) should cover their tracks, I agree. If not, they'll not be doing this very much longer. No provider should be put in that position with an SO. Have you been hanging up or have you engaged in a conversation? Geez, that has to be awkward for everyone involved...then the John has some 'splainin' to do to the SO!!

i just say something llike idk who you or he is! Maybe you should ask him

[pejo]

Gentlemen: use the "Burner" phone app, if you don't want to have to explain a second phone. (Pro tip: It's HARD as FUCK to explain a second phone. Yes you can hide it, but sometimes you need it close to you and, well, it's a time bomb waiting to go off, really.) 

Delete everything after every session (texts, phone history) on said app. I actually uninstall the app when I have periods of hobby inactivity. Then reinstall it when I need it.

Edited November 6, 2015 by pejo

[Wannabebad]

They make password locked phones for a reason... :-D

amen to that. My shits locked up tighter then a virgin with a chastity belt. Plus if you try like 5 times to get in and fail it self destructs. Been at least two times I've had to restore my phone because my drunk ass couldn't remember my password correctly with all the special characters, numbers and capital letters. Thank god for instant lock and fingerprints for passwords now. 

[Wannabebad]

A thought... when you are wrapping up the session and giving them a hug good-bye, remind them to delete your correspondence (text message, phone number, etc).

 

Just a reminder to the ladies. We would or at least I would like for you to delete my info as well. Had more then a couple of ladies text me 2 or 3 months after out tryst trying to entice me with specials meaning they kept my stuff. 

[mgiadarling]

I never keep a clients data. And especially don't call asking for a return visit. Shit sounds desperate

[Guest]

A thought... when you are wrapping up the session and giving them a hug good-bye, remind them to delete your correspondence (text message, phone number, etc).

I never remember to this. Great Idea!

[BadBoy]

Actually, it is not that the wives and girlfriends "know."  The truth is that they suspect every unknown phone number to be a girlfriend or escort.  Once in every 100,000 times, they are actually right.  The rest of the time it is Jake..... Jake..... from state farm.

Additional point: Any married (or "committed") guy stupid enough to use his main cell phone to book appointments after watching what happened to Tiger Woods really should be kept on a leash, he could hurt himself and would be a danger to the public if left loose.

[gr8owl]

apologies if I sound like a bitch. I just get frustrated with dealing with things like this. it's much too often... and I don't know what I'm supposed to say/do

Not at all - quite the opposite, But you do seem a bit concerned over what is NOT your responsibility! It is not your job to cover for a guy who is too much of a dumb ass to cover his tracks.  Don't have SO issues at moment, but if I did I would not expect you/other ladies to cover for my sorry ass.

"Sorry, I think you have the wrong number", "click" should suffice.

[mgiadarling]

Not at all - quite the opposite, But you do seem a bit concerned over what is NOT your responsibility! It is not your job to cover for a guy who is too much of a dumb ass to cover his tracks.  Don't have SO issues at moment, but if I did I would not expect you/other ladies to cover for my sorry ass.

"Sorry, I think you have the wrong number", "click" should suffice.

I just don't want to be the reason for issues, even if he's the idiot. Idk ...

 

[Wannabebad]

I just don't want to be the reason for issues, even if he's the idiot. Idk ...

 

Honey, may I call you honey? Anyway...you are in no way, shape or form the reason for any issues a client has in his personal relationships. If a man is seeking out a provider in the first place and in a supposed committed relationship then there are already major issues going on. You didn't seduce the guy into throwing his promises to his SO to the curb. Whatever is going on there was already happening before you showed up. Don't be so hard on yourself. I believe the answer of "sorry wrong number" that was mentioned earlier is a good one. 

[mgiadarling]

Honey, may I call you honey? Anyway...you are in no way, shape or form the reason for any issues a client has in his personal relationships. If a man is seeking out a provider in the first place and in a supposed committed relationship then there are already major issues going on. You didn't seduce the guy into throwing his promises to his SO to the curb. Whatever is going on there was already happening before you showed up. Don't be so hard on yourself. I believe the answer of "sorry wrong number" that was mentioned earlier is a good one. 

yes you may. I guess maybe I'm taking on more responsibility than I should be. I just hate to see another woman hurt because of me. I hate people being hurt in general

 

[quzi]

It's probably more of a pain in the ass but having a non-smartphone burner phone is better than having your smartphone have some kind of spying app installed by your jealous wife/girlfriend or some investigator.

[Erin_CO]

Sometimes it's funny when the wife calls during an appointment LOL

[Bit Banger]

I've had that happen. Fortunately, she was out of town. 

[Wannabebad]

It's probably more of a pain in the ass but having a non-smartphone burner phone is better than having your smartphone have some kind of spying app installed by your jealous wife/girlfriend or some investigator.

Thats why you get an iPhone. It's impossible to put a spying app on the iPhone and hide it UNLESS it's jailbroken. All the spyware apps are aimed at the android and Windows phones. Unbroken iPhone with a software lock on it is just about bulletproof.