Posted July 28, 2015 For a while, I could not understand for the life of me why hobbyist would continuously ask me for FS or GFE when I make it very clear that I would not. I wondered if they were going bargain shopping and just why someone would think they could change my mind. Last night the answer hit me like a ton of bricks as I was looking through reviews. Some fbsm providers DO give choices! WTF? If that's what they do, shouldn't the ad be listed under something else?? This annoys the shit out of me. No wonder my friends have concerns. SMH. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 31, 2015 I'd be confused too, if all I had seen was the EB Ad... to be fair 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 31, 2015 We think you will be so overcome by our good looks and magnificent schvonstooka that you will simply have to abandon your policy and go FS. For me it happens all the time (when I'm asleep and dreaming, that is). 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 1, 2015 LOL: You still have not learned that men are idiots? You are posting on a hobby website and are surprised that they hit on you? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 1, 2015 You still have not learned that men are idiots? Ding Ding Ding! We have a winner! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 1, 2015 LOL: You still have not learned that men are idiots? You are posting on a hobby website and are surprised that they hit on you? I give them the benefit of the doubt, but they're quickly losing ground. But really, here's the thing; I don't bullshit around when men inquire about what I will and will not do, yet I have had regulars ask me for something that they answer to! I guess just smh, smile, and be flattered? That'll work for now. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 1, 2015 I give them the benefit of the doubt, but they're quickly losing ground. But really, here's the thing; I don't bullshit around when men inquire about what I will and will not do, yet I have had regulars ask me for something that they answer to! I guess just smh, smile, and be flattered? That'll work for now. The same reason guys whistle at a girl in the street... The same reason guys try to catch the eye of a girl who is sitting with her husband... The same reason guys talk to girls half their age... ... because it works in porn. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 2, 2015 I've screwed plenty of working girls who started out fbsm. A little charm and a few extra Jacksons go a long way. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 2, 2015 I've screwed plenty of working girls who started out fbsm. A little charm and a few extra Jacksons go a long way. this could be worth price of admission 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 2, 2015 I will concede as stated elsewhere that men are idiots (little head in charge by the time they get there after all), but when a lady advertises on a board that has "escort" in the name, and places said ad in the nebulous "body rub" section by definition somewhere between all out full service and simple massage, gives NO clarification in ad itself, and it is bad form to ask on phone what a lady will do ........ what the hell else are us idiots supposed to do other than ask when we get there? Just sit back and hope for best? Not tying to be jerk, just ...... really?? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 3, 2015 I'd be confused too, if all I had seen was the EB Ad... to be fair I agree, I read her EB and EP ads and there was nothing about FBSM only. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 3, 2015 I agree, I read her EB and EP ads and there was nothing about FBSM only. I see. Thanks fellas for pointing that out. I'll clearly clarify FBSM only. I'm still learning the ropes, so all of the advice that I've received from this board has been super helpful (from providers and hobbyist) and much appreciated. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 3, 2015 I wondered if they were going bargain shopping... Some fbsm providers DO give choices! I guess just smh, smile, and be flattered? That'll work for now. Yeah, just say "no" in a nice manner. Can't speak for others, but when I see a FBSM provider, and if I do ask if anything else on the menu, not bargain hunting: will "tip" accordingly for additional services. If I'm asking for an upgrade, generally, it's been a mediocre session and the upgrades (for me DATY and or BJ; stripper slide), might lift it out of the "average" rating and maybe get me to come back again. If have had great sessions and come back repeated times, then I go into 2Big mode: "charm" and $$ and "idiot" mode ("Man! She is great! I wonder what it would be like to..."). Because, yes, some FBSM ladies to offer options at times. If barely average session or worse, not asking for anything and never coming back: not going to get any more money from me, treat as a lesson learned. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 3, 2015 Even if you put FBSM only, guys will still ask. I've had FS with legit CMTs that advertises "strictly therapeutic" with "draping required". For whatever reason, at any given time, we all decide to cross that line we've drawn for ourselves. And as long as there is a chance of that happening, guys will still ask for more than what you're offering. But don't get so annoyed. It just means that you're a desirable woman and all you have to say is "no" in a polite non-confronting way and guys will back down. As for regulars, they're just hoping that as you get to know each other, you might loosen up the boundaries a bit. That also happens often. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 3, 2015 As for regulars, they're just hoping that as you get to know each other, you might loosen up the boundaries a bit. That also happens often. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 5, 2015 Smarten up and treat your puzzy like a bank account instead as some holy wafer. If guys wanna pay you for fs smarten up and take the money. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 5, 2015 Smarten up and treat your puzzy like a bank account instead as some holy wafer. If guys wanna pay you for fs smarten up and take the money. My moral compass says NO. I'm not judging, just personally not for me. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 6, 2015 My moral compass I'm pretty sure 2Big doesn't have one of these... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
