Posted June 5, 2013 In another thread one of the FS providers listed "pushing boundaries" as a major pet peeve. Got me to wondering if the FBSM providers have the same problem. After all, there you are, two naked people, body parts flailing about, seems like "wanting a little more" would be natural. So, I'm curious oif this is a problem for the FBSM gals. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 5, 2013 Wanting more cost more. Like I WANT a Porshe but I can only afford a Ford Focus. An Yes I can and will say I need a Porshe. Lilithia 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 8, 2013 If you let your hand slide down to caress a leg, you will soon know what her boundaries are. As for whether it's a "problem," I imagine it is. One FC provider clearly states "not an escort" but she still joked that the boundaries were still pushed quite often. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 8, 2013 Pushing boundaries too much is surly a recipe for an electrifying experience... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 8, 2013 just pay up for f/s, quit playing games. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 8, 2013 I can see why it's a pet peeve. WTF is the matter with these assholes who are always trying to get more than advertised? If the ad says "FBSM", you are NOT getting laid. If you want to get laid, don't call an FBSM girl. It's that simple. Pricks who always push the envelope are the reason these gals often have their guard up. Stop thinking you're the only one that will get the extra "mileage". 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 8, 2013 I have seen several FBSM providers that will offer additional services after the initial consultation if she likes you. This is a true example of YMMV. I do not expect anything more than what is advertised. The provider usually brings up the subject in conversation if it is her idea. Not very often but once in a while..... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 8, 2013 Why choose a FBSM provider if you want FS? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 9, 2013 The provider usually brings up the subject in conversation if it is her idea. Exactly. Let it be HER idea. Being pushy and forceful NEVER works. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 9, 2013 Why choose a FBSM provider if you want FS? Sometimes you do not really choose it. You just kind of stumble across something interesting. If the service is offered for the same price, heck, why not have it included? The most uninhibited escort I have met advertises in the FBSM section. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 9, 2013 Exactly. Let it be HER idea. Being pushy and forceful NEVER works. In the AMP situation, you make it known that it's YOUR idea so she knows you are not LE. I'll grant you that the OP was probably not referring to AMPs. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 9, 2013 I'm with Destiny. Before you push ANYONE'S boundaries, you should practice reciting the phrase : "Don't taze me, bro!" Pushing boundaries too much is surly a recipe for an electrifying experience... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 9, 2013 In the AMP situation, you make it known that it's YOUR idea so she knows you are not LE. I'll grant you that the OP was probably not referring to AMPs. +1. However, I think the term "pushing boundaries" in this context probably refers to men who won't take no for an answer. Whether at an AMP or private FBSM provider, go ahead and ask for more if you want. But if she declines, leave it be. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 9, 2013 +1. However, I think the term "pushing boundaries" in this context probably refers to men who won't take no for an answer. Whether at an AMP or private FBSM provider, go ahead and ask for more if you want. But if she declines, leave it be. Agreed. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 10, 2013 What he said. And what constitutes FS? Some of the best head I've got were from FBSM girls. It's a fine line. IMO, if seems to be having a good time on both sides, don't hurt to ask (for additional fee), but don't try to force or be overly pushy. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 10, 2013 From personal experience...yes guys always try to push these boundaries. A lot of the time its innocent (harmless suggestion or question), other times it can be down right rude, mean, intrusive, annoying, disrespectful, scary & WRONG! I have had a handful of guys several, I have met & others I haven't, call me repeatedly over the years to check if I "switched over yet" or if "I'm full service yet". That's rude & annoying! As I have told them all I will never offer FS....if still in doubt READ MY WEBSITE THATS WHAT ITS FOR! Don't call me once a year or once moth to check! Its been over 4 years!! It can be scary when a guy decides to take matter into his own hands, literally. If I say no, then it means no! Being really rough...grabbing & grouping me is NOT going to turn into hot passionate sex!!! It might get you hurt, & will get you permanently ignored. But the MOST PATHETIC ONES OF ALL are the ones who think they can use reviews to change my service options.....LMFAO. This type of loser is the lowest form of scum. It can even become hurtful when someone you thought you new had fooled you only to discover he is this exact type of low scum! This particular incident actually happened to me twice....once about a year ago & one more recently... I was seeing the guy for years...total gentleman....no complaints.... kept coming back...so I thought he enjoyed what I had to offer. One day he contacted me for an appointment through p411...I noticed he was a reviewer for the first time & wondered why he never wrote me a review....surely (I thought) it must have been a mistake....after all (I thought) he was a really nice guy! So I asked him through email about it & his reply was if I came and saw him alone (I had offered a 2-girl) that night he would write me a great review. So off I went to see him...after brief hellos he brings up the review thing apologizing for never writing me a review....asking if I had read his reviews boasting about what a great review writer he was! The conversation went straight from reviews to this... Him: So how has the change been? Me: Huh? What change? Him: Switching over to FS Me: I've never done FS Him: Oh I thought you told me you started doing it, did you stop again? STOP AGAIN WTF??? I understood what he meant no FS no review! Are you kidding me keep your review looser! I was polite & continued the FBSM, but inside I was completely turned off! I will NEVER see him or the other sick losers who play this sick game! Like Seeking~P said if you want FS see a FS provider! I am a grown woman who KNOWS CLEARLY what I want & don't want to do! Well that's my 2 cents hopefully it stays up cuz it seems like someone is hatin on me like usual & deleting anything & everything I post! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 10, 2013 I consider FBSM a colossal waste of time. What's the point of getting a tepid oily rub down from some middle aged woman? Sure, sometimes a really hot girl realizes she can make more money just by yanking guys' cranks. Other than that, spend the extra $, get the real thing, and I'm sure she'll slap some baby oil on your hide if needed. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 10, 2013 I consider FBSM a colossal waste of time. What's the point of getting a tepid oily rub down from some middle aged woman? Sure, sometimes a really hot girl realizes she can make more money just by yanking guys' cranks. Other than that, spend the extra $, get the real thing, and I'm sure she'll slap some baby oil on your hide if needed. There is definitely a valid market for FBSM. Some guys don't want FS, for various reasons. I'm one of them. I won't spell out the many reasons -- don't want to hijack the thread -- but FBSM is definitely preferred for me. Busty Scorpio's post is right on target -- some assholes seem to just want to "conquer" a lady, and will all kinds of manipulation to do so. It really pisses me off, because they're behavior dampens the experience for the next guy (me). 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 10, 2013 ahh enlightened self-interest 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 10, 2013 There is no sport in trying to get a provider to bend the rules, that's just lecherous. Now, getting a 'straight' therapist to blush, smile, and have some fun, that IS sport. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 10, 2013 There is definitely a valid market for FBSM. Some guys don't want FS, for various reasons. I'm one of them. I won't spell out the many reasons -- don't want to hijack the thread -- but FBSM is definitely preferred for me. Busty Scorpio's post is right on target -- some assholes seem to just want to "conquer" a lady, and will all kinds of manipulation to do so. It really pisses me off, because they're behavior dampens the experience for the next guy (me). +1 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 10, 2013 Well, I guess I should have been more specific. I was interested in hearing from the FBSM providers, and I supposed their answers would have been something like "yes, its common" or "rarely, most guys respect my boundaries" And from the guys, "yeah, I always try" or, "No, its just, or only, what I want" Always interesting how a thread goes. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 10, 2013 Always interesting how a thread goes. ... usually in the trash first from which it occasionally emerges into something interesting. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 11, 2013 There is no sport in trying to get a provider to bend the rules, The ony real question is: is she willing to bend the rules with YOU 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 11, 2013 The ony real question is: is she willing to bend the rules with YOU Bingo 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 11, 2013 To put it another way: If you hear the phrase "I usually don't do this", you know exactly what she usually does. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
