Posted March 13, 2013 At times over the past several weeks, there have been well over 100 ladies on the Colorado escort board. Usually over 250 on P411. And backpage......yikes! So I'm curious....what is the strategy, or if spontaneous what is the trigger, that ends up with you selecting one provider over another? What is your primary motivator for selecting one provider over another? Do you usually go back to the ladies who provide good service? Do you look for a body type/facial type? Do you look for a specific service? I've been doing some self analysis, and I find I am influenced by appearance and popular culture....via the movies. One of my favorites is "Desperado" with Antonio Banderas and Salma Hayek. I drag the dvd out 3 or 4 times a year to watch. Looking back, I find I have visited a specific provider within a few weeks of having viewed that film....or other Salma Hayek films. A viewing of a Reese Witherspoon movie late last year led to contacting an entirely new ptovider. Yet another provider gets visits from me after viewing a Milla Jovovich in "The Fifth Element" (another favorite)...even though Milla is a redhead and the provider is blond....something about body structure and the way she moves and talks strikes a chord. I just hope I don't wear out my Milla and Salma surrogates before the dvds wear out. So, anyone else want to share their selection process? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 13, 2013 My selection process for choosing providers is fairly simple, which is much the same as my mental capacity. I pretty much just look at the pictures on different advertising sites until I find a lady who appeals to me. Then I check her donation amount, general location and reviews. Then I check my wallet. If everything adds up I send a request. If you would have asked me a year ago I would have described my sexual ideal right down to her toe nail polish. Come to find out (no pun intended) what I really dig is the whole variety thang. If I had to pick a trigger or the single most important motivator I would say a great smile. Even in pictures with the face partially obscure you can tell if the lady is smiling or not. Hell, maybe I’m just into teeth. Probably because I have so few of my own. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 13, 2013 I don't really have any strategies since it's rare for me to be able to pre-book. If I'm able to pre-book I will sometimes look for specific services, body types and even TOB ladies that I wanted to meet because of their posts. I looked through my reviews and don't see any patterns so I really have no idea how I choose. Since most of my appointments are same day or last minute I usually check EB or P411 ads to see who might be working during the time I am looking for and in an area of town that will be close to me at that time so often I'm kinda limited on selection which might be good or I might get stuck in seeing a certain type. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 13, 2013 If I find myself coming back to the profile of a particular provider repeatedly (and there will be more than one) then I figure I should pull the trigger. I will have already considered cost and various other factors. Like anything else though, sometimes it is best to just change the way you go about it. I like to think that I learn from my experiences although I have my doubts sometimes.... In terms of objective factors I definitely focus on body type, smile, and the warmth that the woman seems to convey when she describes herself. Location is a big one for me since I am not in the Denver area. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 13, 2013 1. Pictures- Do I find you attractive? 2. Price- I do not care how attractive you are, if you are past my price point, I keep looking. The prices some guys are willing to pay is crazy. 3. Reviews- Based on reviews, I will consider booking if you offer the services I like. Personality trumps all. 4. Location 5. Board presence. Do you have a pleasing personality? Persimmonous dispositions get crossed off the list. There are people I will never book with based on their board presence. Pleasing personalities go to the top of the list. 6. Changing names frequently is a hugh red flag. You ladies have a difficult job dealing with all sorts of men. I expect to have a reasonably pleasant time in your company. I am past the variety mode. Do not get me wrong, I like variety. If I hit it off with a provider, I will see her over and over again. I like the comfort of knowing someone and looking forward to seeing them again and again. Pictures, personality, and price in that order pretty much sum it up. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 14, 2013 Pictures and location will get me to call, but personality will get me to call again. I have only called a handful of providers more than once. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 14, 2013 For me selection is a simple process. 1. Reviews (multiple reviews stating the menu items Iam looking for with attitude etc) 2. Price (my expectations for 1 and 2 need to be met equally before proceeding further) 4. Personality on the Board (not a deal killer if they are not on the Board but a definite plus) 3. Pics 4. Availability I do not hobby much in Colorado yet. I spend lots of time in Southern Ca. And see 2 providers fairly exclusively as they meet my needs and we are comfortable together. Going to start more in Colorado as one of my ATFs in Ca. is going to retire :-( The ones I've seen in Denver have been great even if UTR (harder to research). Still looking for an ATF in Co. Once I meet someone I really like I become a repeat customer. Will try variety once in awhile when the mood strikes... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 14, 2013 The prettier the girl, the more money she can ask for. That said, the majority of girls who flog their snatch - I wouldn't put a finger on them, even if they paid me. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 14, 2013 mine's got only 2 steps. 1. check the piggy bank 2. text from my cell phone contact list 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 14, 2013 The prettier the girl, the more money she can ask for. That said, the majority of girls who flog their snatch - I wouldn't put a finger on them, even if they paid me. Could you please elaborate? I mean, it is obvious that while the rest of us are paying way too much to bang toothless, bearded hags; syphilitic hoes; and Lizzie Borden wannabees.....you are paying pennies on the dollar for supermodels to beg for it up the kiester. The thread subject is "how do you go about selecting your ASP." You have no reviews, so no one can see the fruits of your labor. I'm calling bullshit. Until you present a viable strategy here for acquiring this "wunder-pussy" you think you're getting....well I think you'll just have to accept that no one is taking you seriously. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 14, 2013 hey grits, maybe being '2 big' in some department or other is all it takes - leaving us skinny caucasians to scramble for the provider crumbs that fall off the proverbial table 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 14, 2013 (edited) My criteria: 1) Budget - Is she w/in my preferred budget range? Other criteria may stretch this range. I've found that both above market and below market are often TGTBT. 2) Location - Is she w/in my preferred travel range/time? Again, other criteria may alter my range. 3) Web Presence - Does she have a website? Is it quality? Does it clearly indicate services, rates, pictures, personality? Does she participate in any discussion boards or chat rooms? 4) Reviews - What is her review track record? An NCNS represents a risk - downgrade. Reviews by known individuals - upgrade. ALL Fantastic - ??? 5) Services - As a general rule, I'm looking for GFE/FS. On occassion I might seek PSE level services, with a slight increase in budget. Sometimes even 3G/FS, but at a reduction in budget. I have usually left FBSM sessions wanting more. 6) Personality - Am I likely to mesh with this individual on a personal level? Sometimes the phone call will cancel previous expectations. 7) Have I met this individual in person? There are several social groups that hold private gatherings. ( Specifics of these groups are NOT to be discussed on TOB.) In the Denver market participation is a requirement for my business. This requirement is more difficult when I'm travelling, so I am more likely to be a repeat customer in those markets. 8) Personal recommendation? A personal recommendation from a YL I've previously engaged or a fella I've chatted with enough to understand his tastes may on occassion override #7. It's been several years since I've invoked this. Availability? If a YL has met the above criteria and I've elected to see her, then I will often work to find a mutually opportune time rather than trying to force an encouter into my schedule. This may even entail passing on a window of opportunity by not booking with someone else. Edited March 14, 2013 by Bit Banger Added Services criteria 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 15, 2013 There are several things that help me decide,sense of humor, price, location, recommendations,looks, personally the ones I get along with best are the ladies with the good sense of humor. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 15, 2013 Based on reviews, and (if any) postings on this board, I try to choose girls who want to make some money while having a little fun. That's it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
