Posted January 29, 2013 I've seen the (YMMV) on some reviews but I've had different experiences with several reviewed ladies compared to their reviews. I read the reviews expecting one thing and get more (lucky me). So much so, a "strict" FBSM (according to reviews), asked if I'd mind if she went and grabbed a condom for us. I guess I've seen lots of complaints of ladies withholding services to the "detriment" of the client, but do you also upgrade new clients' services on a whim? Are menus normally flexible or steadfast? Mind you it was a first or second meeting with these ladies and they did not request (nor were they promised) anything additional in return. No apologies for being vague on the ladies, I don't want to put anyone on blast. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 I've seen the (YMMV) on some reviews but I've had different experiences with several reviewed ladies compared to their reviews. I read the reviews expecting one thing and get more (lucky me). So much so, a "strict" FBSM (according to reviews), asked if I'd mind if she went and grabbed a condom for us. I guess I've seen lots of complaints of ladies withholding services to the "detriment" of the client, but do you also upgrade new clients' services on a whim? Are menus normally flexible or steadfast? Mind you it was a first or second meeting with these ladies and they did not request (nor were they promised) anything additional in return. No apologies for being vague on the ladies, I don't want to put anyone on blast. No need to apologies anyway, posting names would have got you dinged for shilling and the post deleted. http://www.theotherboard.com/forums/faq.php?faq=vb_faq#faq_post_rules 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 It seems that some menus are flexible and others probably are not. It just depends on the lady. I think YMMV applies to most appointments so I try to be on my best behavior and sometimes I get pleasantly surprised. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 you're such a velvet hammer with the noob's there boink and i love it when folks refer to it as a 'menu' like it's chineese takeout 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 Short and concise. Add: in the case of FBSM, some ladies advertise both escort and FBSM. Some are at times thinking of transitioning to FS, so, tentative steps with a client or two, for example. So, see mj76's explanation. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 Bottom line, lady's choice. If they're flexible (open minded) and they like what they see, you might very well have a 'better time' than the last guy. I think most of those who've been around a while have experienced it to some degree. I most always put the YMMV caveat in my reviews, unless it's a more mechanical experience with little to no emotional output from the provider. Most noteworthy experience was many years ago with a girl who advertised FBSM, but before I could say 'boo' we were tumbling into GFE. Discovered later she was a veteran of escort status, but was trying to become more FBSM. It wasn't working. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 For me, because obviously I cannot speak for the other ladies here, there is never a "menu". Every encounter that I have is a your mileage may vary situation. Yes, I treat some guys better than others. Yes, I do more with some guys than I do with others. It really boils down to compatibility and individuality. For example: I do not and will not lick balls that are covered in hair. Balls that are saved and clean? I will worship them until the sun goes down. Another example: guys that have bad attitudes and entitlement issues or arrogance, I generally do not like this type of behavior and therefore it is much harder for me to let go. Thus causing me to have a lackluster attitude. If a guys area down below has any kind of sores or rashes I am absolutely not touching him down there, which obviously is different from a guy that does not have any of the symptoms down there. I might like to deep French kiss with one guy because he meets all of my hygiene standards and he is a great kisser, while I absolutely will not do it with another that has plaque buildup in between his teeth and Dragon breath. So, hopefully this answers your question. And, considering you have been so lucky, I would assume that the girls really liked you, so, good for you! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 30, 2013 If the girl likes you, you're reasonably good looking, in good shape, with good hygiene - of course you're gonna get more compared to some fat fuck with a gut the size of a Michelin tire. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 31, 2013 If the girl likes you, you're reasonably good looking, in good shape, with good hygiene - of course you're gonna get more compared to some fat fuck with a gut the size of a Michelin tire. I don't care if you have 2 Michelin tires, it's ok with me as long as you are clean, and free of foul odors. Also as Destiny mentioned, a pleasant, fun attitude helps add to the enjoyment. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 31, 2013 ... I most always put the YMMV caveat in my reviews, unless it's a more mechanical experience with little to no emotional output from the provider. ... I shared this practice in the past, reminding review readers that situations were mostly YMMV. But fellas started complaining about always reading YMMV, yada yada yada, ... Besides, I assume it's YMMV every time I walk in the door; that's just the way it is. Some days our personalities don't click, some days she's had a hard day and can't really get into our time together, some days I've had a hard day and can't really get into our time together, and some days the foo bird flies. Even so, I try to do whatever I can to improve my MPG by being clean & respectful. So these days I leave "YMMV" out of my reviews; if a NGOTB (new guy on the block) hasn't figured it out yet, he's not likely to listen. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 31, 2013 You're absolutely right. YMMV should always be a given for any review written. To what degree can be another story and think that's what the OP is referring to. It's a gut feeling, mostly starting from the time the door opens. For example with Brooke of yesterday fame, somehow from her open and giving personality, you just got a vibe she'd be the same with most anyone who walked through the door, of course with good attitude and hygiene being a given. Others, you'd just get the feeling that the opposite was true, like they just weren't into what they were doing no matter who walked through the door. I think YMMV is a useful tool for reviews, but whoever's writing it has to be somewhat reflective and objective instead of being caught up in the moment or afterglow. That's why I think reviews are best when written a few days after the encounter. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 31, 2013 ... That's why I think reviews are best when written a few days after the encounter. My usual practice to improve objectivity is a delay of 5-7 days. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 5, 2013 For me, because obviously I cannot speak for the other ladies here, there is never a "menu". Every encounter that I have is a your mileage may vary situation. Yes, I treat some guys better than others. Yes, I do more with some guys than I do with others. It really boils down to compatibility and individuality. For example: I do not and will not lick balls that are covered in hair. Balls that are saved and clean? I will worship them until the sun goes down. Another example: guys that have bad attitudes and entitlement issues or arrogance, I generally do not like this type of behavior and therefore it is much harder for me to let go. Thus causing me to have a lackluster attitude. If a guys area down below has any kind of sores or rashes I am absolutely not touching him down there, which obviously is different from a guy that does not have any of the symptoms down there. I might like to deep French kiss with one guy because he meets all of my hygiene standards and he is a great kisser, while I absolutely will not do it with another that has plaque buildup in between his teeth and Dragon breath. So, hopefully this answers your question. And, considering you have been so lucky, I would assume that the girls really liked you, so, good for you! +1 So well said Destiny! You rock!! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 5, 2013 I've seen the (YMMV) on some reviews but I've had different experiences with several reviewed ladies compared to their reviews. I read the reviews expecting one thing and get more (lucky me). So much so, a "strict" FBSM (according to reviews), asked if I'd mind if she went and grabbed a condom for us. I guess I've seen lots of complaints of ladies withholding services to the "detriment" of the client, but do you also upgrade new clients' services on a whim? Are menus normally flexible or steadfast? It seems like a lot of girls offering FBSM or "body rubs" are open to the possibility of more, IF they feel comfortable with the person and are in the right mood. That gives them flexibility. If they advertised as escorts and refused to perform certain activities they might be accused of ripping people off in a bad review . . . but if they are advertising as FBSM and the client gets more than expected he is more likely to become a regular. These upgrades don't seem to be too uncommon from what I've heard, but if a lady is advertising as FBSM it doesn't seem cool to specifically post in a review that you got escort level services. Some girls don't want to feel obligated to do certain things with every client, and they are more likely to post in body rubs than as escorts. If they post as escorts there will always be that expectation. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 5, 2013 FBSM is the ultimate YMMY situation. I have gotten everything from just a HJ with no touching to a session with everything but FS. I have also gotten BBBJ with CIM from more than one provider who asked that I not mention it in a review because they don't want to put it out there that they offer that service. That way guys whose mileage varies aren't angry about it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 6, 2013 It's always fun when you get more than advertised!! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
