Posted November 10, 2019 So an out of town provider contacted one of my references about getting a reference, my reference then proceeded to go off on me in a text message. I am like WTF, you don't own me.....the visiting provider said this is a common occurrence in Denver. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 10, 2019 I’ve heard of this before but I don’t know how common it is. I would suspect it is more common with younger, less established ladies, but I’ve never run into this situation. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 10, 2019 2 hours ago, Mr.Pink said: So an out of town provider contacted one of my references about getting a reference, my reference then proceeded to go off on me in a text message. I am like WTF, you don't own me.....the visiting provider said this is a common occurrence in Denver. References are supposed to make your hobby safer......what ever happened to that . 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 10, 2019 2 hours ago, Mr.Pink said: So an out of town provider contacted one of my references about getting a reference, my reference then proceeded to go off on me in a text message. I am like WTF, you don't own me.....the visiting provider said this is a common occurrence in Denver. Was the reference your ATF? " She treats me like dirt, and I like it. " 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 11, 2019 5 hours ago, pfunk said: Was the reference your ATF? " She treats me like dirt, and I like it. " 😂😂😂 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 11, 2019 It's not a Denver thing or any other city's , Can happen any where I have found Denver ladies are very helpful when asking for a reference 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 11, 2019 I prefer that if you are going to use me as a reference.... You let me know! This rarely ever happens! However my reason being... I once got a phone call, many years ago. Asking for a reference. Chatted for about 10 minutes. When I saw that person again. I asked how it went. He stated he NEVER given my nAme for a reference! It spooked me pretty good! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 11, 2019 23 hours ago, Mr.Pink said: So an out of town provider contacted one of my references about getting a reference, my reference then proceeded to go off on me in a text message. I am like WTF, you don't own me.....the visiting provider said this is a common occurrence in Denver. It's probably just you - you are such a hot, studly, catch that she doesn't want to share with anyone else. Take it as a compliment. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites