Posted August 8, 2016 I just have a quick rant or it may even come off as a question. If you are asked to give a reference for a gentleman that has booked with you but, has not written a review like he said he would.Could you take that reference back? PLEASE BE Nice 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 8, 2016 22 minutes ago, SabrinaLynn said: I just have a quick rant or it may even come off as a question. If you are asked to give a reference for a gentleman that has booked with you but, has not written a review like he said he would.Could you take that reference back? PLEASE BE Nice I believe you can withdraw a reference at any time. However i would suggest taking the high road - if he was otherwise a good client let it go. Just my opinion for what worth. Plus it can take a while for a review to post. Especially if he has not posted reviews before or fails to fill in all the blanks. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 8, 2016 References are not to be given because he wrote a review, it is because he was a good guy, clean, etc or bad, disgusting...you get the gist. It lets us ladies know he is legit and safe NOT that he writes reviews. When we start being particular because he didn't keep his word over something that trivial, then references become worthless...us ladies are already having issues with the validity of references, we don't need to add to it. If you want guys to keep his word about writing a review, you might consider giving him an incentive(like a discount on 2nd appt) to return once he has written one. It makes them more inclined to follow a request then just asking for one. Hope this helps! Xoxo, Samantha Sheppard 9 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 8, 2016 (edited) 7 minutes ago, SultryKitten said: References are not to be given because he wrote a review, it is because he was a good guy, clean, etc or bad, disgusting...you get the gist. It lets us ladies know he is legit and safe NOT that he writes reviews. When we start being particular because he didn't keep his word over something that trivial, then references become worthless...us ladies are already having issues with the validity of references, we don't need to add to it. If you want guys to keep his word about writing a review, you might consider giving him an incentive(like a discount on 2nd appt) to return once he has written one. It makes them more inclined to follow a request then just asking for one. Hope this helps! Xoxo, Samantha Sheppard This^^^^^^ Just saved me 10 minutes to compose. Edited August 8, 2016 by Happymon 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 9, 2016 Um, NO! What Samantha said. Plus let's stress the fact that reviews are not posted immediately. The reviews need to be approved and since the mods work on a volunteer basis, patience is required. I saw a brand new guy, it took 2 weeks for it to go through. Just wait it out. If you try to take back a reference for something out of his control, that's going to come back and bite you in the ass. Now, let me clarify. Even if you do not get a review from the guy, don't make it harder for others. Others will not trust your references if you only give them because you got a review. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 9, 2016 Also keep in mind that his review may have been rejected. Of course he could PM her and let her know that, but just sayin. Also, I recently tried to put up a review for someone but she doesn't use her name or phone in her ads so TOB wouldn't let me. When I texted her to get permission to use one of those she never answered me even though I sent it 3 times. Not saying you screwed up Sabrina, just looking at all the angles. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 9, 2016 Thanks guys for all the help. . 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 9, 2016 The girl contacting you is wanting to know if the gentleman is safe, I am quite sure she didn't ask if he wrote a review for you. Don't be petty. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 9, 2016 18 minutes ago, Wendy Whitney said: The girl contacting you is wanting to know if the gentleman is safe, I am quite sure she didn't ask if he wrote a review for you. Don't be petty. This 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 9, 2016 2 hours ago, Wendy Whitney said: The girl contacting you is wanting to know if the gentleman is safe, I am quite sure she didn't ask if he wrote a review for you. Don't be petty. Well obviously I didn't understand the concept of a reference..So what bite my head off!! But you telling someone to not be petty IS PETTY!! I was asking a serious question.Nobody even asked me for a reference,AGAIN IT WAS A QUESTION!! You did not know my intentions and didn't seem to care.Just thought it was appropriate to chim in with the "retards".. This post was obviously over with when I thanked my fellow HELPERS!! -1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 9, 2016 8 minutes ago, SabrinaLynn said: And Ms.Nikki little girl you just keep on and on I really wish Society would put you in your place. Your nothing but a shit starter. Keep on wishing.😂😂 You used to be an escort, you have posted many times on TOB, just under different names. I'm not sure how after all these years, you don't understand how reference works. But to each there own. Weather he writes you a review or not doesn't make a difference. Reference check is to verify that the gentleman is legit and safe to see. Unless of course he has a history of giving false reviews. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 9, 2016 1 hour ago, Nikki Holiday said: Keep on wishing.😂😂 You used to be an escort, you have posted many times on TOB, just under different names. I'm not sure how after all these years, you don't understand how reference works. But to each there own. Weather he writes you a review or not doesn't make a difference. Reference check is to verify that the gentleman is legit and safe to see. Unless of course he has a history of giving false reviews. If you reread the comments you would see that an explanation has already been giving of a reference. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 10, 2016 ...nevermind Danielle is walking away from the keyboard LOL 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 10, 2016 1 hour ago, Nikki Holiday said: Keep on wishing.😂😂 You used to be an escort, you have posted many times on TOB, just under different names. I'm not sure how after all these years, you don't understand how reference works. But to each there own. Weather he writes you a review or not doesn't make a difference. Reference check is to verify that the gentleman is legit and safe to see. Unless of course he has a history of giving false reviews. 1 hour ago, SabrinaLynn said: And your voicing your opinion WHHHHY?? If you reread the comments you would see that an explanation has already been giving of a reference. And as far as society..I'm PRETTY sure you are looking over your shoulder EVERYWHERE you go must be a shame..You little lady have no ideal really who your talking to everytime you put your smart little two sense in somewhere.. I have a tip for both of you, grow up. click.................. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
