Am I jerk if I don't perform DATY?

[Guest]

Just now, Badboy said:

This has got to be a new record: newbie posts his first rant, and within 24 hours already has a negative five reputation rating and has gotten into an argument with just about everybody in his endless follow-up rants.

Let's get back to the OP's question:  "Am I a jerk if I don't perform DATY?"

Nah, you're just a jerk in general.

Yep!   No need to figure out what brings him to jerkdom!  He is already there. :-)

[petey-9950]

Lol love it 

[gr8owl]

Holy crap, I stay away for only a couple days and you all let super turd Gandalf or his twin come back for a visit!?!?  Oh well, livens things up a bit I guess long as no body takes his spoiled bait seriously.  For OP - you never have to lick a glory hole, and I think that may be perfect for you. Or a really nice blow up babe. But if you really believe half of what you said I feel sorry for your dark depressing life.

[2Big]

On 1.3.2016 at 7:12 PM, 41SM said:

the notion that I could be putting my mouth in a location that was recently occupied by multiple penises is quite oft putting.

The fact that her mouth and tongue may have just cleaned out a guy's shitter before giving you head apparently doesn't bother you as much. Go figure.

[pejo]

2 hours ago, 2Big said:

The fact that her mouth and tongue may have just cleaned out a guy's shitter before giving you head apparently doesn't bother you as much. Go figure.

God I love those girls.

[Guest]

Or swallowed a man's load then smooooooooooch!!!!! 

 

Blow jobs are always better when the mouth is already lubed. ......

[Guest]

10 minutes ago, SpiceInCo said:

Or swallowed a man's load then smooooooooooch!!!!! 

Snowballs!   Mmmmmmmm!

[Guest]

On 3/2/2016 at 2:31 AM, Studman said:

 

1 hour ago, Laplace said:

Snowballs!   Mmmmmmmm!

 

But it's another man's snowball.  There could be rocks in there!  Or even worse with the average age of hobbiests... A kidney stone!  

Are crunchy snowballs appealing?

The quote feature sucks on a mobile device!

[Guest]

On March 1, 2016 at 3:00 PM, 41SM said:

Is a client required to get the woman off during a session? Is there a tacit agreement between client and provider that the ultimate goal of a session is mutual satisfaction and that every party should ascend to a equally high apex of sexual pleasure? 

No your not. Why are you booking providers who want pleasure in return? Stop booking these girls. 

A client is paying for the opportunity to receive pleasure, not give it. 

Thats just it. Every escort is different. Some girls will want, expect, pleasure. 

but those of us who don't give a shit about a woman getting an orgasm during a paid encounter shouldn't be maligned 

While I agree with you on that part. They shouldn't get emotionally maligned. Although it doesn't help you if your not picking the right girls. 

In the hobby a man is paying for the right to access your pussy;

Not all providers offer pussy. 

not to be your sex slave.

Id like to point out your wrong. 

 

[Guest]

2 hours ago, SpiceInCo said:

Or swallowed a man's load then smooooooooooch!!!!! 

Blow jobs are always better when the mouth is already lubed. ......

[Hvnaball2]

Up to minus 7 and counting! This is brutal (and deserved)! 

Edited March 3, 2016 by Hvnaball2
Just wanted to add on, okay

[BadBoy]

Did somebody forget to tell the OP that a couple of the ladies have WonderWoman Super Decoder rings and have worked backwards from his profile and associated URLs and have already figured out who he actually is and have now blackballed and blacklisted him for all time?  Last thing he needs to worry about now is whether the lady wants a little pleasure, he won't be able to book an UBER ride.

Newbies be warned, you better be nice and polite to the ladies!  Don't think that just because 2Big gets away with it, you can.  The ladies know him personally and rumor has it that he is actually a gentle and considerate, some would even say, sweet, visitor.

[Guest]

54 minutes ago, Hvnaball2 said:

Up to minus 7 and counting! This is brutal (and deserved)! 

Apparently there is a limit on negative reputation.  I tried to get your counter up, but TOB refused me!

[Guest]

38 minutes ago, Badboy said:

Did somebody forget to tell the OP that a couple of the ladies have WonderWoman Super Decoder rings and have worked backwards from his profile and associated URLs and have already figured out who he actually is and have now blackballed and blacklisted him for all time?  Last thing he needs to worry about now is whether the lady wants a little pleasure, he won't be able to book an UBER ride.

Hopefully this guy didn't give out his real name and state id. Because if he did. YOUR FUCKED DUDE. lol 

The escorts already know exactly who this guy is. The girls will call each other. They will give off notes as to which client said NO DATY. They will want to know who he is. Then they will match his name with this user user namer on TOB. 

Game over  

[Guest]

28 minutes ago, Nikki Holiday said:

Hopefully this guy didn't give out his real name and state id. Because if he did. YOUR FUCKED DUDE. lol 

The escorts already know exactly who this guy is. The girls will call each other. They will give off notes as to which client said NO DATY. They will want to know who he is. Then they will match his name with this user user namer on TOB. 

Game over  

The man who is afraid of a latent pubic hair, but is OK with latent sperm, latent butt hairs, latent animal residue, latent you name it, but you filthy uncleansed ladies may leave the last guys pubes in your lady parts!  He has definitely got his priorities in order!

[Guest]

Sorry, it has been a rough day and that may have been the beer talking.

[Jez UaBriain]

She-it. I am running out of popcorn........

[petey-9950]

Me to Jez,. Is the OP even around anymore ?

[SHE]

speaking only for myself here...daty has never been my "thing".  when i was young, there was never a place we could get naked for that long, and then along came mr. hitachi.  sort of ruined it for me.   i am much more of a giver.  i realize that some guys get much pleasure from giving themselves, so it is rare that i will just deny someone, but i have. 

women are just too different for someone to know how to please all of us.  hell, iono if i could even tell someone how to eat my pussy.  the minute i like it, i will want you to do something different.  lol  so even the outside chance that a guy will just know how to bring you to an O that way, is slim.  if they are any good, then it will take me from 0-60 in a few minutes and a anything you do after that is just frustration for me anyway.  lol  the last thing you want to do is have a lady pissed because she wants to fuck and you are still having dinner.

as a mature provider, i often see gents who have difficulties when it comes to fucking.  in those cases, then i put all that bullshit aside and concentrate on making his favorite thing, mine too. (at least for an hour).  lol

[41SM]

You can browbeat the messenger but everyone knows that my musings are true.  There's been a cornucopia of ad hominem attacks levied at me, and a lot of haughty online posturing in this thread, but no one has addressed my arguments because all of the lads and lasses on this site know my words are imbued with wisdom. I'm completely flummoxed by some men's need to romanticize this hobby and to convince themselves that the ladies see them as anything more than a red-blooded ATM machine. None of the young female entrepreneurs on this site are here by choice; they didn't grow up aspiring to suck geriatric cock for a living. Getting rammed in the ass by a  sweaty, morbidly obese, AARP member who's as hairy as Chewbacca isn't how they truly want to spend their Friday nights. They're here because economic and vocational opportunity is rapidly shrinking in America.  A myriad of factors (globalization, corporate avarice, automation, technological advances, college tuition costs increasing astronomically, etc) have made America less meritocratic and made it more difficult to make ends meet. These women are here so they can feed their children, pay their rent, support elderly parents, maintain a decent quality of life, etc. They aren't here to make buddies with men 30 years their senior. They don't give a fuck about your post-coitus political pontifications, your business trip to San Diego or your sob stories about how your wife no longer enjoys sucking your dick. It's quite strange that so many of you dudes have to deceive yourself into thinking these encounters are anything more than a transaction that's purely physical in nature.

Some of the ladies here are also engaging in self-deception campaigns. The overwhelming majority of the clients here really don't give a shit if you get yours. None of these men are shedding tears as they drive home in their SUVs because they weren't able to give you multiple orgasms. They're cordial and affable during their appointments but at the end of the day they're solely there to get off. I'm sure some of the older boys her love talking to beautiful young ladies, since it reminds them of their glory days back at the old frat house, but these gentle grandpas are anomalies.    

The women are here for money. The men are here for pussy. This is a simple, undeniable truth. The hobby is no less a beautiful endeavor if we acknowledge the veracity of my claims. The women here are noble professionals, their work keeps many feeble marriages from falling apart and they help many men experience passion that they can't find outside of the hobby. There are a lot of men with virtuous hearts and benevolent souls that would never have the chance to melt into a gorgeous women if not for the hobby. They weren't blessed with Clooney like charisma, or Brad Pitt looks, which inhibits them from sleeping with ravishing girls in the "real world" but in this hobby they have a chance to live their boyhood dreams. They can be made to feel like an adonis instead of sexual leper. They can know what it feels like to receive compassion, instead of cruelty and a crippling ambivalence, from a stunning woman. The women here should ride their clients with pride. They are helping ensure that many kids don't have to grow up in fractured homes and giving passion and love in world that's growing more and more callous. 

The men here are also noble heroes; the economic contributions they make to these ladies helps them live a better life than the one they would be forced live if they had to do demeaning and soul slaying minimum wage jobs. The men here help mothers provide for children who have been abandoned by their biological fathers. The men here help young girls get through college and attain upward mobility. I know a woman who became an escort after the death of her husband. He left her with two kids but not a dime or life insurance or much savings. Hobbyist are the sole reason she was able to stay in here home and provide as a single mother. The men here should fuck with valor and pride; in many ways they are guardian angels helping women who are in the midst of a harsh financial struggle. This is a beautiful business that spawns a lot of good. Just don't be a fool and say it's anything more than business.  

[pejo]

By the way, the forum has this handy little feature called "ignore user." Just hover over the person's name, to the left of their post (it's right above "Welcome Me" if you are talking about a newbie). A little menu opens up (on a PC anyway), and at the bottom you will see "Ignore User" as an option. Click and you're done.

It has improved my forum experience immensely.

[Jez UaBriain]

nOBLE HEROES? oH PLEASE, that is stretching it too far. I was starting to kind of like your  willingness to throw your self out here . But jaysus, noble heroes is way too much  of a inflated view. What you guys are is a great group of gentlemen who are not getting sex as often as you would like. We ladies, fill that void. I always look at it this way, if I get to have a nut myself, then I got lucky. However, I don't expect it.But I do know for a fact that sex is a whole lot more fun  when two people are participating. Instead one person doing it all while the other lays there like a dead man.

[BadBoy]

2 hours ago, pejo said:

By the way, the forum has this handy little feature called "ignore user." Just hover over the person's name, to the left of their post (it's right above "Welcome Me" if you are talking about a newbie). A little menu opens up (on a PC anyway), and at the bottom you will see "Ignore User" as an option. Click and you're done.

It has improved my forum experience immensely.

Is there a little button that can "Make user vanish from the face of the Earth?"  That would be handy!

[Milos Vesely]

I only do DATY on Asian hookers.   Not American Asians, but the sex slave types from China or Korea. They are very clean, no bad smell or taste.

[gr8owl]

13 minutes ago, Milos Vesely said:

I only do DATY on Asian hookers.   Not American Asians, but the sex slave types from China or Korea. They are very clean, no bad smell or taste.

A professional grade troll-off! How sad.

[Guest]

Hey not all of us rely on the hobby to pay our bills,  some of us have actual jobs, I'm in nursing, but I like sexy time and boom I like play money.  So yes, dumb shit, I do like to enjoy myself.  

 

This twat waffle is really a side show moron.  

[Guest]

16 minutes ago, SpiceInCo said:

Hey not all of us rely on the hobby to pay our bills,  some of us have actual jobs, I'm in nursing, but I like sexy time and boom I like play money.  So yes, dumb shit, I do like to enjoy myself.  

 

This twat waffle is really a side show moron.  

Lol!  "Twat waffle"

My lexicon grows!  Thank you so much!

 

[Guest]

5 hours ago, 41SM said:

You can browbeat the messenger but everyone knows that my musings are true.  There's been a cornucopia of ad hominem attacks levied at me, and a lot of haughty online posturing in this thread, but no one has addressed my arguments because all of the lads and lasses on this site know my words are imbued with wisdom. I'm completely flummoxed by some men's need to romanticize this hobby and to convince themselves that the ladies see them as anything more than a red-blooded ATM machine. None of the young female entrepreneurs on this site are here by choice; they didn't grow up aspiring to suck geriatric cock for a living. Getting rammed in the ass by a  sweaty, morbidly obese, AARP member who's as hairy as Chewbacca isn't how they truly want to spend their Friday nights. They're here because economic and vocational opportunity is rapidly shrinking in America.  A myriad of factors (globalization, corporate avarice, automation, technological advances, college tuition costs increasing astronomically, etc) have made America less meritocratic and made it more difficult to make ends meet. These women are here so they can feed their children, pay their rent, support elderly parents, maintain a decent quality of life, etc. They aren't here to make buddies with men 30 years their senior. They don't give a fuck about your post-coitus political pontifications, your business trip to San Diego or your sob stories about how your wife no longer enjoys sucking your dick. It's quite strange that so many of you dudes have to deceive yourself into thinking these encounters are anything more than a transaction that's purely physical in nature.

Some of the ladies here are also engaging in self-deception campaigns. The overwhelming majority of the clients here really don't give a shit if you get yours. None of these men are shedding tears as they drive home in their SUVs because they weren't able to give you multiple orgasms. They're cordial and affable during their appointments but at the end of the day they're solely there to get off. I'm sure some of the older boys her love talking to beautiful young ladies, since it reminds them of their glory days back at the old frat house, but these gentle grandpas are anomalies.    

The women are here for money. The men are here for pussy. This is a simple, undeniable truth. The hobby is no less a beautiful endeavor if we acknowledge the veracity of my claims. The women here are noble professionals, their work keeps many feeble marriages from falling apart and they help many men experience passion that they can't find outside of the hobby. There are a lot of men with virtuous hearts and benevolent souls that would never have the chance to melt into a gorgeous women if not for the hobby. They weren't blessed with Clooney like charisma, or Brad Pitt looks, which inhibits them from sleeping with ravishing girls in the "real world" but in this hobby they have a chance to live their boyhood dreams. They can be made to feel like an adonis instead of sexual leper. They can know what it feels like to receive compassion, instead of cruelty and a crippling ambivalence, from a stunning woman. The women here should ride their clients with pride. They are helping ensure that many kids don't have to grow up in fractured homes and giving passion and love in world that's growing more and more callous. 

The men here are also noble heroes; the economic contributions they make to these ladies helps them live a better life than the one they would be forced live if they had to do demeaning and soul slaying minimum wage jobs. The men here help mothers provide for children who have been abandoned by their biological fathers. The men here help young girls get through college and attain upward mobility. I know a woman who became an escort after the death of her husband. He left her with two kids but not a dime or life insurance or much savings. Hobbyist are the sole reason she was able to stay in here home and provide as a single mother. The men here should fuck with valor and pride; in many ways they are guardian angels helping women who are in the midst of a harsh financial struggle. This is a beautiful business that spawns a lot of good. Just don't be a fool and say it's anything more than business.  

41SM should go have a beer with inadifferentvoice, and they can discuss the issues that occur in the hobby. I think they could each help the other person, solve their dilemma.

Maybe a few beers

[sparkey600]

On 3/1/2016 at 3:34 PM, 41SM said:

This is a fascinating post. You think that when an individual schedules an appointment in this industry that he is paying for "the lovely lady's time" not for the opportunity to get off? So if you went to an appointment with a provider and no sexual intercourse occurred you wouldn't feel as though you had been bamboozled? You wouldn't feel like some type of rapscallion con had occurred? You wouldn't immediately race to your computer to write that the woman was a "rip off" and that extreme duplicity had occurred? If you paid a provider $400 for an hour of time and she spent the hour telling you knock knock jokes, offering opinions about the forthcoming NHL playoffs, reciting Shakespeare sonnets and complaining about unruly neighbors who vociferously fornicate like rhinos in heat at 3:00 AM you wouldn't be the least bit disappointed? You really think that "consulting adult activities" are not an implicit part of the contract? Every man here isn't paying for the right to converse with a lady; he's paying for a twatriffic time spent with a tight twat. If you doubt this assertion then I think you are an extremely anomalous fellow in the hobby. Sorry ladies, but none of the men here care about your wit or intellect. They will say they do, to maintain a gentlemanly facade, but at the end of the day no one is here to make friends. 

You know, it's supposed to be fun for all parties involved. If you have so many hang ups that you don't want to give some pleasure to the lady you are with (and are a taker only) maybe you should give up this "hobby" and take up stamp collecting or possibly pool. There's no unwanted contact in either of these hobbies.

[sparkey600]

3 hours ago, gr8owl said:

A professional grade troll-off! How sad.

And I got dissed earlier for saying newbies were bad.

Huh...........