Posted January 9, 2015 I met with a provider some time back who "sexted" the few days leading up to the date. I REALLY liked it. Why don't more of you ladies do this? Not talking pics (that would be nice lol) just sexy texts. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 9, 2015 please see every thread that mentions the words 'hobby phone'... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 11, 2015 If I have never met you before then I will do my best to watch the grey area. Sometimes there is a slip but that just means you caught me at the right moment with the right comment. However, if you are someone I've seen before: game on! No pics (thats why there is Twitter/P411/Website/EB) but banter and innuendos may occur. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 11, 2015 From girl friend or SO, sure, could be hot. From mistress or provider - yeah, just put a full confession in writing why don't you? Very bad idea. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 12, 2015 I met with a provider some time back who "sexted" the few days leading up to the date. I REALLY liked it. Why don't more of you ladies do this? Not talking pics (that would be nice lol) just sexy texts. I agree with you. So many times when I'm making an appointment with a provider, I feel like I could be making an appointment to take my car in for service. I'm not talking about sexting with every John making an inquiry. But once a guy has been checked out and books an appointment, a little something in the pre-appointment communication that gets his motor running, or a little something to extend the afterglow of the appointment once I walk out the door, is very much appreciated. In such a personal service as being an escort, when what your selling is the GFE fantasy, I'm surprised how many providers don't get the power of little something suggestive, or else don't take bother to take the time. This is the advantage of seeing a low-volume or more mature provider, i.e. over 30, as a little pre- and post-visit communication is more likely to happen. For all the time a provider spends getting ready for an appointment, taking the time to send a little something is time well spent. My ATF likes photo shoots, so getting a sexy pic before our appointment really gets my motor running. For those who need a more concrete example, here's what she texted me the hour before our last meeting: "I am beyond excited for you to be inside me." And after I left her place after 2 hours and was driving home, she texted: "Thank you. Yum!" Now how long do you think this took her? You don't think this makes an impression on a guy?? It seems like a no-brainer in a competitive service industry that spending two minutes pre- and/or post-appointment with a guy you would like to call you again is well worth it. Maybe the problem is too many providers are "no-brainers" 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 12, 2015 From girl friend or SO, sure, could be hot. From mistress or provider - yeah, just put a full confession in writing why don't you? Very bad idea. This is why we have hobby phones and emails, so we can communicate safely. I know you know this, so what's the issue here? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 12, 2015 I'm not talking about sexting with every John making an inquiry. But once a guy has been checked out and books an appointment, a little something in the pre-appointment communication that gets his motor running, or a little something to extend the afterglow of the appointment once I walk out the door, is very much appreciated. <snip> Maybe the problem is too many providers are "no-brainers" Since 99% of the guys see a girl once, and never return, what's the point? If a guy sees a girl a second time, I could understand her making the effort (which I have experienced on return visits.) But otherwise, no. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 12, 2015 This is why we have hobby phones and emails' date=' so we can communicate safely. I know you know this, so what's the issue here?[/quote'] Well the original question was why more ladies don't ...... so back to the written confession thing. Sorry, could have been clearer. But for guys the same applies. Whoever you are trying to hide communications from will never ever happen across your phone. Even if you wreck or have a heart attack etc. on way home from your appointment. Is that the theory? Shit happens, nothing is fool proof. So I do not think it is a great idea for either party involved in what after all is an illegal activity and one that can lead to major domestic and family issues as well. And none of your visited providers could ever get busted right? Let alone while you are there? But by all means, do whatever. Just an opinion. Since you are not happy with it - no charge. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 12, 2015 Since 99% of the guys see a girl once, and never return, what's the point? I imagine, pfunk is exaggerating a bit, but is the one-and-done ratio really that high? (I know, kind of veering off topic.) But, I think this would be among the top reasons for ladies not getting spicy with messages to people they don't know. Are most TOB'ers in the 99 or 1% 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 12, 2015 I imagine, pfunk is exaggerating a bit, but is the one-and-done ratio really that high? (I know, kind of veering off topic.) But, I think this would be among the top reasons for ladies not getting spicy with messages to people they don't know. Are most TOB'ers in the 99 or 1% Great question and related to why providers don't bother with enticing pre and post-visit messages. If most guys only saw a lady once, regardless of the experience. no point for the provider to do anything special. Just do well enough to get a "fantastic" review? I love seeing providers many times. Usually everything gets even better,with additional visits as the first visit is just getting to know one another. Someone needs to start a poll. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 12, 2015 I should have been more clear, I was talking a repeat client, and she asked if she could. Just a thought, if a lady don't do it, it doesn't mean I don't want to see her. It does "get my motor runnin" so to speak! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 24, 2015 solicitation simple as that 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
