Posted June 23, 2014 It kind of depends on the compliment. Most of the garden variety ones that I suspect are told to every client I am rather likely to disbelieve. On the other hand, if I've visited a particular provider multiple times and it feels as if the compliment is genuinely heartfelt, it's deeply appreciated. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 23, 2014 Like most of the other responders, it depends on the compliment. I have been told before that a certain part of my anatomy is big. I know better than that. If I have to choose I would prefer no compliments. It is enough that this old, balding fat guy is with a beautiful woman who acts somewhat interested and is willing to allow me to pay to be with her. That is compliment enough for me. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 23, 2014 I don't get stuck on stupid. Compliments in this business are fake so they don't mean anything to me it goes in one ear and out the other. Doing my job is all that matters to me and when a client leaves and is satisfied that is all the compliments I need. Lilithia 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 23, 2014 Any honest complement is appreciate but I prefer the lower key complement. Learning and using my name is one of the biggest complements. It tells me that you might see me as an individual and not using some nick-name you give everyone you meet. You made the effort to remember my name, and that in itself is a complement. I know I don't have the body of a greek god, I'm not going to show you the best time of your life, but I would still like to be remembered. I don't want to think I will be forgotten ten minutes later. I don't want to feel as if my worth is measured by the cash in my pocket. Something as simple as "good luck on your job interview, I will be thinking positive thoughts" or "I will often retell that joke" means a lot more than the standard complement. Thanks for asking. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 24, 2014 I totally did not expect to hear some of these things. LOL Of course, I would think you would be turned off if I saId, "oh my gosh, you are the most beautiful man I have ever seen". That is not really believable. However, I may say, "you are a really, really great kisser" or "you have the prettiest brown eyes". I don't say anything I don't mean. As I have spoke to a few women friends over the past few days, I think I may get why some men have a hard time accepting compliments as being genuine. And, I think it has a lot to do with how women and men are turned on. Men may get super excited about a 25 year old, hot brunette, with perky c's and a tight rear. So they think that if they are not Brad Pitt, we can not possibly think they are "hot". I get turned on by the guy who is average looking, maybe only 5'7", but acts totally into me, and can deliver multiple orgasms. More mental for women. This is not new news though. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 24, 2014 WOW! Thanks for posting this question, Holly Love! I too, was surprised by some of the responses. I'm also very sincere with the compliments I give. And I don't just throw them around. But where I struggle is wanting to correct someone on really bad form or technique. I'm sorry, but chewing on my **** is NOT ok and nor does it feel good. So what's my proper response? A) Slap them upside the head to get them to stop Pretend to finish quickly to save my poor kitty from damage C) "How about less teeth and a little more tongue?" I wanted to opt for A but I went for B. ... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 24, 2014 Well, I used to be relatively handsome, back a zillion years ago when I was younger, so if any escort were to give me an appearance compliment, it would just make me feel young again, which is precisely why I am visiting them in the first place, so feel free and be sure to act sincere. On the other hand, so far this is strictly a theoretical discussion on my part, guessing how I would react if it were to ever happen.... (I have gotten quite a few compliments on oral skills, does that count?) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 25, 2014 No one who chews on Justina's **** deserves any compliment, that is for sure. A lady last week said, "You're a good lover, honey." I did not believe her, but it was nice to hear. Part of the fantasy I guess. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 25, 2014 An obviously phony compliment is annoying to me. A compliment that I can believe is nice. Of course, I will have my doubts about any compliment from an escort but as has been said this is fantasy and I want mine to be good. More seriously, if a simple compliment makes me feel real real good it is a signal that I am missing something in my life and I am glad to be able to see that. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 25, 2014 all this concern for sincerity/believability/honesty is laughable. have you ever considered that a lady offers up compliments to convince herself that spending the next 60 minutes with our sorry azz's just might be remotely bearable? to profess intent/knowledge of another human being's mindset is usually wrong if not arrogant. The whole provider/client transaction is a fantasy. Enjoy it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 25, 2014 My "WTF" top 10 compliments received.. <comedy font on> ..mostly 10) "I can't believe our time is up, you're so good and got me off like 3 times" (after 30 minutes of a 1 hr engagement). 9) "I really like [that car] you drove up in" 8) "You can jiggy like a black guy" (there's an old joke about this) 7) "Your cash is greener than anyone else that I've ever seen" 6) "You made me cum 5 times.. with 6 you get egg rolls for free" 5) "I don't want to give you a reference to her, because I want to keep you for myself" 4) "When I'm with you, time moves slow" 3) "I wish everyone had a tongue like yours" 2) "Your house is so nice.. when I google it, what county do I look under?" 1) "You jiggy like Boink, I'll give you a refund if you fix my reviews" 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 25, 2014 My "WTF" top 10 compliments received.. <comedy font on> ..mostly 10) "I can't believe our time is up, you're so good and got me off like 3 times" (after 30 minutes of a 1 hr engagement). 9) "I really like [that car] you drove up in" 8) "You can jiggy like a black guy" (there's an old joke about this) 7) "Your cash is greener than anyone else that I've ever seen" 6) "You made me cum 5 times.. with 6 you get egg rolls for free" 5) "I don't want to give you a reference to her, because I want to keep you for myself" 4) "When I'm with you, time moves slow" 3) "I wish everyone had a tongue like yours" 2) "Your house is so nice.. when I google it, what county do I look under?" 1) "You jiggy like Boink, I'll give you a refund if you fix my reviews" And of course, "I should be paying YOU!" 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 25, 2014 This is a perfect response! This goes beyond the physical aspect of the person you are spending time with. Time and time again, I get guys who say, I am kind of on the hefty side or I am not very good looking. I choose to judge a person on what is in their hearts and minds. Spending time getting to know someone a bit I think shows that you are interested in what the person thinks. I know I have a really hard time saying, "Hi, I'm Melissa let's get naked". I want to know what turn them on or off, it makes the whole session much better. If the guy smells good, I will tell him. If he has pretty eyes, I tell him. I will not tell him that he is a god in bed. I will however tell him that I had a nice time. Floor Flusher is correct in saying that the best compliment is spending time and remembering them. I find this to be a compliment to me as well when I have a repeat visit. Any honest complement is appreciate but I prefer the lower key complement. Learning and using my name is one of the biggest complements. It tells me that you might see me as an individual and not using some nick-name you give everyone you meet. You made the effort to remember my name, and that in itself is a complement. I know I don't have the body of a greek god, I'm not going to show you the best time of your life, but I would still like to be remembered. I don't want to think I will be forgotten ten minutes later. I don't want to feel as if my worth is measured by the cash in my pocket. Something as simple as "good luck on your job interview, I will be thinking positive thoughts" or "I will often retell that joke" means a lot more than the standard complement. Thanks for asking. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 25, 2014 This is a perfect response! This goes beyond the physical aspect of the person you are spending time with. Time and time again, I get guys who say, I am kind of on the hefty side or I am not very good looking. I choose to judge a person on what is in their hearts and minds. Spending time getting to know someone a bit I think shows that you are interested in what the person thinks. I know I have a really hard time saying, "Hi, I'm Melissa let's get naked". I want to know what turn them on or off, it makes the whole session much better. If the guy smells good, I will tell him. If he has pretty eyes, I tell him. I will not tell him that he is a god in bed. I will however tell him that I had a nice time. Floor Flusher is correct in saying that the best compliment is spending time and remembering them. I find this to be a compliment to me as well when I have a repeat visit. Being remembered...I have to agree that is indeed a compliment. I suspect that most guys remember everything about the escorts they see, but the escorts forget the guys as soon as they walk out the door. I could be wrong, but that's my suspicion. And that's why I think that references are a dicey proposition. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
