Posted June 10, 2014 I guess I am still new to this. But I have to ask this question before seeing more of you. The question bugs me and keeps me from enjoying DATY which I love so much. So how do you prepare yourself between sessions? Do you do anything at all/skip it when you are busy?? When did the last guy leave and is that his dried body fluid on your you know what? I can't ask you face to face like how clean you are? STD checked? I think these are legitimate questions and have to be answered so I am bringing them up here. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 23, 2014 get em' early. I shudder at the thought of going down on someone after some dudes dick has been hanging around that area. So I always try to book early morning appts. It is not fail safe, perhaps her boyfriend just left 5 minutes before I got there, but they are usually showered and fresh, so being first one of the day increases your odds of being "first" that day. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 23, 2014 Not that these aren't legit questions, but your tone is a little offensive. Still, here's a bit of demystification for you: I can only speak for myself, but this is how I do it. I don't ever see more than one client per day, which is part of why my rates are so high. If you're interested in seeing someone who is low volume, remember that if you get sticker shock upon seeing her rates. I use condoms with everyone, and my understanding is that most providers do. So from that angle you shouldn't need to worry about fluids. I get tested every 3-6 months. DATY is a pretty low risk for STI transmission, though it is possible. Saran wrap, dental dams, or a cut-up glove or condom all make good barriers if that is a concern for you. Since I only see one client per day, I don't always clean up right after a session. But I usually do clean up first if I'm going to have a sexy time with someone else. I also think most providers probably allow time for clean up between sessions, if they see multiple people in one day. But again, I can only speak for myself and don't know what others do. Now, just relax and try to have some fun. If you're too worried about these types of things, or have that much distrust of those in this business, I would suggest a new hobby. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 23, 2014 get em' early. I shudder at the thought of going down on someone after some dudes dick has been hanging around that area. So I always try to book early morning appts. It is not fail safe, perhaps her boyfriend just left 5 minutes before I got there, but they are usually showered and fresh, so being first one of the day increases your odds of being "first" that day. Yes those fresh as the morning dew appointments are nice. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 24, 2014 Asked a fave lady to not shower down there for a least two days. Arriving at our destination she stuck her hand down her pants, smelled her finger and said.....eeeeeeewwwwwww!!.....is this what you want? Smiling she then gave her finger to me, I took a whiff.....whew! Hilarious, the look on her face was priceless 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 24, 2014 I guess I am still new to this. But I have to ask this question before seeing more of you. The question bugs me and keeps me from enjoying DATY which I love so much. So how do you prepare yourself between sessions? Do you do anything at all/skip it when you are busy?? When did the last guy leave and is that his dried body fluid on your you know what? I can't ask you face to face like how clean you are? STD checked? I think these are legitimate questions and have to be answered so I am bringing them up here. Really? Did you think about this post before you wrote it? First of all, it's a bit intrusive. Second, do you really think anyone will answer honestly, if the answer is anything but "I douche and shower after every appointment"?? What NOT to expect as a reply: "I see 10 johns a day. I'm so busy, I just wipe quickly with a dirty sponge, that usually clears out most of the stray pubic hairs" If you're that worried about it, just try to be sure you are her first appointment of the day. Or just don't go down on her. Sheesh. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 24, 2014 Not that these aren't legit questions, but your tone is a little offensive. Still, here's a bit of demystification for you: I can only speak for myself, but this is how I do it. I don't ever see more than one client per day, which is part of why my rates are so high. If you're interested in seeing someone who is low volume, remember that if you get sticker shock upon seeing her rates. I use condoms with everyone, and my understanding is that most providers do. So from that angle you shouldn't need to worry about fluids. I get tested every 3-6 months. DATY is a pretty low risk for STI transmission, though it is possible. Saran wrap, dental dams, or a cut-up glove or condom all make good barriers if that is a concern for you. Since I only see one client per day, I don't always clean up right after a session. But I usually do clean up first if I'm going to have a sexy time with someone else. I also think most providers probably allow time for clean up between sessions, if they see multiple people in one day. But again, I can only speak for myself and don't know what others do. Now, just relax and try to have some fun. If you're too worried about these types of things, or have that much distrust of those in this business, I would suggest a new hobby. I really think Ms. Karlyle has answered everything in this excellent post. As for DATY, reserve that for your SO if you are freaked out. If you think about it too much, the whole endeavor has its gross factor. Stamp collecting has much less risk, but the upside is that licking is involved. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 24, 2014 Thanks all for sharing your thoughts. Especially Ms. Karlyle for your demystification post. If our intentions were not for intrusive act, then I wouldn't have raised intrusive questions. Like Ms. Karlyle, some of the ladies I have seen are proud of their hygiene, one of them invited me to have shower with her, it was a wonderful experience. Others gave me hints on the phone, like "I am freshening up for you", "I'll take a shower before you show up". These words put me at ease. Hey I am still new to this so if I offended someone, please excuse me. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 24, 2014 Some of these responses honestly had me laughing! Too many to quote!!! I'm all about showering between clients. It has more to do about being paranoid of being unclean and so forth. I also expect the same of my clients. I understand some may visit me after work so let me know and you can gladly shower. Nothing worse than going down on either party and having to hold your breath!! I am about mutual respect! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 25, 2014 Love Kitten's response - she nails it (figuratively, of course) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 25, 2014 perhaps P411 should institute a 'Good Housekeeping Seal of Approval' for the truly paranoid. Otherwise Pitbull's observation on stamp collecting may better suit the OP's concerns hobby-wise. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 26, 2014 asked a fave lady to not shower down there for a least two days. Arriving at our destination she stuck her hand down her pants, smelled her finger and said.....eeeeeeewwwwwww!!.....is this what you want? :eek: Smiling she then gave her finger to me, i took a whiff.....whew! hilarious, the look on her face was priceless lol lol lol 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2014 Wait, what? You mean it isn't exactly like this? http://www.cc.com/video-clips/192fx5/inside-amy-schumer-sex-prep Now, I'm confused... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2014 There has been a lot of misinformation regarding covers for oral sex performed on a woman. I would like to shed some lite on the subject. The cover is called a Sheer Glyde Dam. It is a sheet of latex. The proper way to use it is the giver puts it on his/her tongue, allows it to hand off the tongue, and goes downtown. The tongue finds the receiver's clit and stimulates it. Wandering around the vulva is not a good idea, because the dam will move around too much. Trying to cover the woman's vulva with the dam doesn't work very well. She won't feel much sensation. Placing the dam on the giver's tongue works much better. Dams can be purchased at sensuality shops or online. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2014 If you think that your favorite girl does a 360 degree cleaning job after each customer, you're sorely mistaken. Sure, they might do a quick cleaning of their snatch, but that's probably about it. My advice: Try to be her first customer, this way the chances are low that you're banging a puzzy that smells of condoms and stale lube. Alternatively, schedule an extra half hour and have her shower/take a bath. Have body lotion, deodorant, etc. at the ready. I'm an absolute stickler when it comes to personal hygiene and won't go near a woman who isn't in tip top shape in this regard. This includes but isn't limited to: 1. Being freshly waxed. No ugly stubble. 2. Nails (toe and finger) neatly trimmed. 3. Hair absolutely clean 4. Clothes fresh 5. No cheap perfume/deodorant I remember an absolutely horrifying experience I once had with an at that time "highly regarded" escort from Canada, who had a "high end website" (featuring various pictures of her draped around a baby grand, etc.). I was living in DC, and we had arranged to meet up for dinner at her hotel. I was to chaperone her around DC - no sex was planned as she wasn't really my type. After dinner we go up to her room - and it's an absolute mess: Empty bottles of wine, rumpled bed sheets, waste basket stuffed to the gills with tissues and god knows what....I immediately hightailed it out of there and never contacted her again. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 28, 2014 If you visit women who use hotels rather than a private incall, they are definitely seeing more than one client per day. Cost wise that is only sensible. I found that I prefer one client per day, if that, so I can give them my undivided attention. I made the mistake early on in seeing multiple clients a day, imo the area is never quite as fresh because the latex smell can linger within, so you have to scrub and scrub and scrub.... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 28, 2014 I'm an absolute stickler when it comes to personal hygiene and won't go near a woman who isn't in tip top shape in this regard. This includes but isn't limited to: 1. Being freshly waxed. No ugly stubble. 2. Nails (toe and finger) neatly trimmed. 3. Hair absolutely clean 4. Clothes fresh 5. No cheap perfume/deodorant C'mon 2Big, seriously? You've posted about trolling for freebies with civilians on Backpage/Craigslist, if I recall. I am thinking that you're not going to meet these standards in that venue. I've gone on some of these "casual encounters" and the usual situation is pretty trashy. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 28, 2014 Yoga Meditation scented candles practicing mindfulness consulting spirits burning sage seeking wisdom from the oracle of Delphi Chanting in front a photo of Dali Lama and the most important thing is how to figure out that you fuckingr money is not counterfeit 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
