Posted April 29, 2014 Does anyone have any tales of how either they, or someone they know was busted by their significant other for dabbling in the hobby? Did they somehow talk their way out of it? What were the repercussions? What security tricks does everyone have to keep this sordid little secret a secret? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 29, 2014 What security tricks does everyone have In my case, honesty works best. No messes to clean up later that way. That's just me. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 29, 2014 Slipped, fell and my penis landed inside of her. It happens. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 29, 2014 It was like a country western song. Lost my house, lost my truck, lost my dog. It was a bad time. Good hunting dogs are hard to find. There aren't any security tips. There is always something that could trip you up. If you can't do the time, don't do the crime. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 29, 2014 I know a good divorce lawyer 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 29, 2014 Does anyone have any tales of how either they, or someone they know was busted by their significant other for dabbling in the hobby? Did they somehow talk their way out of it? What were the repercussions? What security tricks does everyone have to keep this sordid little secret a secret? OK, one too many of the everyone lies, blah, blah posts. Believe it or not, I have only frequented escorts when I was either in NO relationship or in one where it was understood to be happening from the start and deemed mutually acceptable. So there has never been a "sordid secret" to keep. I do not consider seeing escorts in the absence of cheating/lying to an SO to be in any way sordid. If you do perhaps you should consider stopping. I only keep discretion at high level because of professional life. And no I don't lie about anything - not in a very long time. Usually in trouble for being too direct and honest - go figure. OK, rant over, back to regular programming. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 29, 2014 Check older posts. There have been several where the john got caught or outed by a provider and they did not end well. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 4, 2014 Busted for what? I was wearing a condom, so, technically...I never touched her 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 5, 2014 your 'guiltypleasures' handle may explain your curiosity, so here goes... all was well until I booked a session on BP with a lady who turned out to be very familiar in a SO way. a good time was had and even tipped 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 5, 2014 Once a wife called me on my cell phone wanting to know why my number was on his phone. I calmly told her"Lady, he had to have had a wrong number" It pays to ad lib when the hobby is concerned. But I really don't want to talk to your wife , and I would think you would take better care of my number. But obviously this shit does happen. And I can't say I blame the wife for being pissed. I would be to if the tables were turned. :cool: 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 5, 2014 Once a wife called me on my cell phone wanting to know why my number was on his phone. I calmly told her"Lady, he had to have had a wrong number" It pays to ad lib when the hobby is concerned. But I really don't want to talk to your wife , and I would think you would take better care of my number. But obviously this shit does happen. And I can't say I blame the wife for being pissed. I would be to if the tables were turned. :cool: You are a saint, Ms. UaBriain. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 6, 2014 Well just so happens that I do have a story. One of my guys dogs got into the trash dug out a condom and sat right in front of his wife with the condom in his mouth talk about busted lol. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 6, 2014 Agree wholeheartedly with Destiny. Honesty and openness always is the best. You are either forgiven or run off. If you don't want to take that chance, give it up. The stress of hiding it is not healthy. If everyone was honest and open, there would be no need for all the threads about kelp, my SO found out...What do I do now? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 8, 2014 Check older posts. There have been several where the john got caught or outed by a provider and they did not end well. +1 They also get outed if they choose to see another provider, when they where told not too. lol I didnt know you can boss around men who have no entailment to you. Honesty is best. I only date men who are secure with me escorting. And can handle me in more ways than one. lol;) So, I will never run into this problem. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites