Posted January 25, 2014 My "friend" video tapes the session without my permission. That's not right. I've always wondered how often guys try this. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 25, 2014 Biting (even "gently") or sucking REALLY HARD on sensitive places (because they saw it in some porno obviously smh): nipples, any part of my vagina ESPECIALLY my clit (o_o)! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 25, 2014 Related to the hobby... 1. Being asked questions during DATY. 2. Phone calls or texts during session. I stopped seeing my ATF soon after she started doing that. 3. Different strokes for different folks - I do not like "fast" blowjobs. Sometimes less is more, slower is better. 4. I've had a couple of sessions where my partner does ALL the talking. The sex was great but, my god, after the 2nd visit I couldn't take any more. She was also one of those who'd ask my questions while my mouth was full. 5. Upsell - I've only experienced that from visiting pros. 6. Trash talk about clients and other providers Here's what I think I've done to kill the mood... 1. Assume they can take it all. I'm hung and, in the heat of the moment, sometimes forget my manners. 2. Make a tactless comment. That can change the mood like a lightswitch. 3. CIM when it's not allowed (only in my private life, NEVER in the hobby) 4. Biting. In my defense, it was a very small and gentle nip which I thought it was appropriate for the mood. I was mistaken. 5. Not talking enough. I don't have the gift of gab and I notice it changes the mood sometimes. 6. Overstay my time - only did that once in the early days. 7. Ask for DATO (for me) on the first session. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 26, 2014 All time favorite - true story - was being told "stop ... not tonight. I'm too tired to pretend you are someone else." Ahhhh, the first marriage was a treat! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 26, 2014 I dated a woman a long time ago who was expert in timing her sinister remarks. Here I was , inside her and she said : May be it is time to date other people . All time favorite - true story - was being told "stop ... not tonight. I'm too tired to pretend you are someone else." Ahhhh, the first marriage was a treat! You and me are good candidates for the first prize . 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 27, 2014 A former SO had a big dog that could push the bedroom door open, jump on the bed and stick his cold wet nose right where the action was when I was in Mish. SO thought that it was cute somehow. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 31, 2014 Uttering the exclamation: "Oh shit!", closely followed by a yawn as mood kills. Tending to animals in a session is up there on the list too. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 4, 2014 That's not right. I've always wondered how often guys try this. Have you heard about remembrance and black-mailing stuff? who know you might be posted on myex. :-) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 4, 2014 Related to the hobby... 1. Being asked questions during DATY. 2. Phone calls or texts during session. I stopped seeing my ATF soon after she started doing that. 3. Different strokes for different folks - I do not like "fast" blowjobs. Sometimes less is more, slower is better. 4. I've had a couple of sessions where my partner does ALL the talking. The sex was great but, my god, after the 2nd visit I couldn't take any more. She was also one of those who'd ask my questions while my mouth was full. 5. Upsell - I've only experienced that from visiting pros. 6. Trash talk about clients and other providers Here's what I think I've done to kill the mood... 1. Assume they can take it all. I'm hung and, in the heat of the moment, sometimes forget my manners. 2. Make a tactless comment. That can change the mood like a lightswitch. 3. CIM when it's not allowed (only in my private life, NEVER in the hobby) 4. Biting. In my defense, it was a very small and gentle nip which I thought it was appropriate for the mood. I was mistaken. 5. Not talking enough. I don't have the gift of gab and I notice it changes the mood sometimes. 6. Overstay my time - only did that once in the early days. 7. Ask for DATO (for me) on the first session. I prefer #1 and #3, a little of #4 I hate when a phone is constantly going off, or the WORST someone knocks on the door who was not invited to participate. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 9, 2014 I hate it when a woman rushes my love making. If I'm with her, I'm giving her my best and love eye contact, dirty talking and following my directions, and tell me when you orgasm. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 11, 2014 Getting farted on or queefed on my face. Not that getting queefed on is that terrible. Its just hilarious makes me laugh. Could be a mood killer. And no lie these both have happened to me. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 14, 2014 Slobber, kiss like a wide mouth bass, bite my clit ( I will return the favor on your dick) and does not understand a one syllable word "NO". Also please do not try the do the deed and then ask for forgiveness. Just be a respectable gentleman and ask if you think there is a chance a lady might not go for what you have in mind. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted February 16, 2014 - Complaining about your boss/boyfriend/bff/family/neighbor - Understand the meaning of a single word: discreet.....don't blow up my cell phone afterwards, don't count the donation in front of me, don't text me next week with your availability. - Body art that was photoshopped-out in your ad. - Body piercings that weren't disclosed in your ad. - Not telling me about Aunt Flo before I arrive at the incall. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
