READ!

[Leigh5280]

Hello gentlemen, there are labels on our ads. Just click the information icon and it will show you what I am willing to offer. 
 

I would greatly appreciate it if you would take the time to do this, rather than contact me for something that you’re not going to get.
 

Thank you!

[The Divorce Coach ~]

i understand Leigh.

guys, it could all be so simple...
everything you need to know is a simple click away in ad/bio.
i have it informative for ya....idk, would you like it in big chief tablet format?

[Tantis]

Feels like I'm missing something, you're talking about the tags Escort, FBSM, BDSM, etc right?

Half playing dumb half serious. FBSM and TS seem straightforward enough but the rest have a lot of gray area. If I were looking for a provider to dress up as the pink power ranger and sing me happy birthday (not a real request no pms please) what labels help determine that? Alternative = ? Boardgame date maybe 😅 just want to highlight that there can be a lot more to unpack in most of those and neither party wants to be disappointed or offended when meeting.

[mustang]

I clicked on the information icon for both ladies that posted here and I got "fbsm" and "escort"  NOT a lot of information for newbies.  I think I understand why you are getting calls.  I understand WHY you are being so discreet about what you offer, but those descriptions fall short of everything you offer.  Yes, reviews might be helpful but when one reads the complaints about reviews here .........

[The Divorce Coach ~]

3 hours ago, mustang said:

I clicked on the information icon

thats it? if you would have clicked more than that you would have found more info for both ladies.

[mustang]

7 hours ago, Western ~P said:

thats it? if you would have clicked more than that you would have found more info for both ladies.

Have YOU clicked on the information icon?????  I just looked again and found no other information.  Where is the "click" link that will tell us more about the services offered?

[sb1212]

Ok. I'll play dumb (easy for me). After opening the listing for Western P I click on the info icon. There it shows FBSM and escort. I also see links for P411 and Web.  Are THOSE the "more ino" you reference? Big Chief tablet ready to record response....

 

[The Divorce Coach ~]

3 hours ago, mustang said:

Where is the "click" link that will tell us more about the services offered?

i don’t answer questions especially when the answers are already displayed.

[mustang]

4 hours ago, Western ~P said:

i don’t answer questions especially when the answers are already displayed.

I find no other "click" spaces inside the "information icon" on the listings.  Not on your listings OR on any of the 20+ listings on here today. I suspect that IF that is what you want us to "READ" you will likely continue to receive that damn pesky phone calls from gentlemen that were interested in meeting you.  Have a great day, I wish you well.

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

I will make smile faces and rainbows on the Big Chief tablet with color crayons! 

On 1/11/2024 at 5:29 PM, Western ~P said:

i understand Leigh.

guys, it could all be so simple...
everything you need to know is a simple click away in ad/bio.
i have it informative for ya....idk, would you like it in big chief tablet format?

There is incredible powers of observation given to those who can read between the lines. I think everybody on TOB understands.  I don’t understand why you don’t get it, @mustang?!

 

[Leigh5280]

23 hours ago, mustang said:

I clicked on the information icon for both ladies that posted here and I got "fbsm" and "escort"  NOT a lot of information for newbies. 

That says everything. 

[Leigh5280]

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Edited January 13, 2024 by Leigh5280
Mistake post

[Bit Banger]

11 hours ago, Leigh5280 said:

That says everything. 

There are always those who expect ‘more’, not only information, but also of the ladies. 🥴

[Phil-anderer]

I've been here a while, and I didn't even know that.  Thank you.

[The Divorce Coach ~]

On 1/12/2024 at 8:55 AM, sb1212 said:

Ok. I'll play dumb (easy for me). After opening the listing for Western P I click on the info icon. There it shows FBSM and escort. I also see links for P411 and Web.  Are THOSE the "more ino" you reference? Big Chief tablet ready to record response....

 

B I N G O!!!!

gifting you a big chief tablet bc you play well

[sb1212]

Gratefully accepted.....

[Imyrhklbry]

Throwing my common sense out here!! If you are on here ( or other similar websites) and are researching an appointment with any of these fine ladies and cannot  figure it out then you truly shouldn't be on here! 

[sb1212]

If you cant find enough info about a companion by accessing TOB, TOB DM,  TER VIP, P411, Tryst and her website to make you comfortable, then move on....

[The Divorce Coach ~]

reading is power! 

[TheRightStuff]

 

I've had a good look behind the curtain of an uber- successful, highly-coveted provider makin' beaucoup$!

I know what work$ for a provider!

From what I have observed:

(The importance of a professional-looking, well-thought-out website ... can not be overstated!)

Next-level, top-of-food-chain providing is all about grabbing the attention of discerning, $avvy, $treet-$mart mongers! 

Ya think?

And for SSSMs it starts with a provider's website!

(THAT'S WHERE IT ALL BEGIN$!)

He starts to connect the dots from there and subsequently starts the process of evaluating her and determines if she's worth his time and $$$!

Ya think?

For providers who want to attract desirable, highly-coveted client$ ... and have hassle-free, annoying-behavior-free, client engagement and communication: IT ALL CUMS DOWN to UR WEBSITE!

Having to deal with annoying, timewasting clients who bombard a provider with endless texts and emails asking stupid questions ... is a direct function of a provider's website (or lack thereof) and the way she presents and brands herself on that website!

If TTBT: A provider genuinely @ the top of her game is gunna make it relatively easy for prospective clients to make an educated evaluation of her GFE skill set, playbook and GFE companionship and connect the dots on her ... without the inquiring monger being a timewasting, annoying PITA ... by endlessly asking frivolous questions!

(Because she's gunna clearly spell everything out on her website!)

First off: She's gunna have a well-thought-out, user-friendly, easily-navigable website where everything is clearly spelled out .. with a nice layout: an intro page, an etiquette page, a Q & A page, a rates page, a calendar page and a screening page!

(Ya think it might be a good idea to have such pertinent info clearly spelled out ... from the jump?)

Duuh!

A provider genuinely @ the top of her game will also have an extensive photo spread and an enticing teaser video displaying "the goods"!

That's the way a true professional @ the top of her game ... brands herself and cultivates interest in her "product"!

(Suggestive pics and an enticing video in a pair of 5" CFMs ... is an excellent form of advertising and branding and for piquing the prurient interests of prospective client$!)

Ya think?

She will even have brief snippets of reviews from satisfied clients!

(She will even provide you with her TER id # ... so that you can do your homework and due diligence by reading her reviews!)

She might even give herself a (well-deserved) humble brag:

"Read my reviews and you will see why I have so many repeat clients!"

(Discerning, enlightened mongers pickup on such things!)

She's gunna spell everything out for ya!

Like I said: A provider genuinely @ the top of her game is gunna answer many probing questions on her website ... and make it seamless and relatively easy for prospective clients to evaluate her!

(A well-thought-out website will answer many obvious questions and solve many problems because it will attract higher-caliber, discerning clients who do their due diligence and pride themselves on connecting the dots; it will obviate the need for prospective clients to send endless, annoying, timewasting  texts and emails repeatedly asking stupid questions!)

Like I've said: I've had a look behind the curtain!

THIS ... IS the MODUS OPERANDI of a $UCCESSFUL PROVIDER @ the TOP of HER GAME!

 

 

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

On 5/28/2024 at 8:11 PM, TheRightStuff said:

 

I've had a good look behind the curtain of an uber- successful, highly-coveted provider makin' beaucoup$!

I know what work$ for a provider!

From what I have observed:

(The importance of a professional-looking, well-thought-out website ... can not be overstated!)

Next-level, top-of-food-chain providing is all about grabbing the attention of discerning, $avvy, $treet-$mart mongers! 

Ya think?

And for SSSMs it starts with a provider's website!

(THAT'S WHERE IT ALL BEGIN$!)

He starts to connect the dots from there and subsequently starts the process of evaluating her and determines if she's worth his time and $$$!

Ya think?

For providers who want to attract desirable, highly-coveted client$ ... and have hassle-free, annoying-behavior-free, client engagement and communication: IT ALL CUMS DOWN to UR WEBSITE!

Having to deal with annoying, timewasting clients who bombard a provider with endless texts and emails asking stupid questions ... is a direct function of a provider's website (or lack thereof) and the way she presents and brands herself on that website!

If TTBT: A provider genuinely @ the top of her game is gunna make it relatively easy for prospective clients to make an educated evaluation of her GFE skill set, playbook and GFE companionship and connect the dots on her ... without the inquiring monger being a timewasting, annoying PITA ... by endlessly asking frivolous questions!

(Because she's gunna clearly spell everything out on her website!)

First off: She's gunna have a well-thought-out, user-friendly, easily-navigable website where everything is clearly spelled out .. with a nice layout: an intro page, an etiquette page, a Q & A page, a rates page, a calendar page and a screening page!

(Ya think it might be a good idea to have such pertinent info clearly spelled out ... from the jump?)

Duuh!

A provider genuinely @ the top of her game will also have an extensive photo spread and an enticing teaser video displaying "the goods"!

That's the way a true professional @ the top of her game ... brands herself and cultivates interest in her "product"!

(Suggestive pics and an enticing video in a pair of 5" CFMs ... is an excellent form of advertising and branding and for piquing the prurient interests of prospective client$!)

Ya think?

She will even have brief snippets of reviews from satisfied clients!

(She will even provide you with her TER id # ... so that you can do your homework and due diligence by reading her reviews!)

She might even give herself a (well-deserved) humble brag:

"Read my reviews and you will see why I have so many repeat clients!"

(Discerning, enlightened mongers pickup on such things!)

She's gunna spell everything out for ya!

Like I said: A provider genuinely @ the top of her game is gunna answer many probing questions on her website ... and make it seamless and relatively easy for prospective clients to evaluate her!

(A well-thought-out website will answer many obvious questions and solve many problems because it will attract higher-caliber, discerning clients who do their due diligence and pride themselves on connecting the dots; it will obviate the need for prospective clients to send endless, annoying, timewasting  texts and emails repeatedly asking stupid questions!)

Like I've said: I've had a look behind the curtain!

THIS ... IS the MODUS OPERANDI of a $UCCESSFUL PROVIDER @ t Flavor the TOP of HER GAME!

 

 

Or you can just google her TOB handl/name, email, phone number. Unless you are fearless? For the ads (my rule of thumb) I would like to see at least three months be able to pull up 3 months of advertising as well as activity on social media as well as a presents on a forum. With all of that present I would be inclined Will come forward  to contact Companion if I was in the Admires shoes.:As far as Video Chat and or  private videos that are made by me.? I don’t always get the request. Hey,  if you’ll pay a small fee? I am sure any of the ladies would be happy to give you a video chat or a private video of themselves. I did a lot of videos during Covid back in 20.’ Not so much anymore but once in a while, I’ll get that request. It’s always my pleasure to show you what I look like on video and in pictures. If you do contact and need  me you need further reference  to prove that I am who I say I am. I seem to hand out pictures of myself that are already posted here on TOB and other platforms that I ask I am actively advertising on.  I hope that my information you find helpful as well as relevant to this topic. 

[Leigh5280]

On 5/28/2024 at 8:11 PM, TheRightStuff said:

 

I've had a good look behind the curtain of an uber- successful, highly-coveted provider makin' beaucoup$!

I know what work$ for a provider!

From what I have observed:

(The importance of a professional-looking, well-thought-out website ... can not be overstated!)

Next-level, top-of-food-chain providing is all about grabbing the attention of discerning, $avvy, $treet-$mart mongers! 

Ya think?

And for SSSMs it starts with a provider's website!

(THAT'S WHERE IT ALL BEGIN$!)

He starts to connect the dots from there and subsequently starts the process of evaluating her and determines if she's worth his time and $$$!

Ya think?

For providers who want to attract desirable, highly-coveted client$ ... and have hassle-free, annoying-behavior-free, client engagement and communication: IT ALL CUMS DOWN to UR WEBSITE!

Having to deal with annoying, timewasting clients who bombard a provider with endless texts and emails asking stupid questions ... is a direct function of a provider's website (or lack thereof) and the way she presents and brands herself on that website!

If TTBT: A provider genuinely @ the top of her game is gunna make it relatively easy for prospective clients to make an educated evaluation of her GFE skill set, playbook and GFE companionship and connect the dots on her ... without the inquiring monger being a timewasting, annoying PITA ... by endlessly asking frivolous questions!

(Because she's gunna clearly spell everything out on her website!)

First off: She's gunna have a well-thought-out, user-friendly, easily-navigable website where everything is clearly spelled out .. with a nice layout: an intro page, an etiquette page, a Q & A page, a rates page, a calendar page and a screening page!

(Ya think it might be a good idea to have such pertinent info clearly spelled out ... from the jump?)

Duuh!

A provider genuinely @ the top of her game will also have an extensive photo spread and an enticing teaser video displaying "the goods"!

That's the way a true professional @ the top of her game ... brands herself and cultivates interest in her "product"!

(Suggestive pics and an enticing video in a pair of 5" CFMs ... is an excellent form of advertising and branding and for piquing the prurient interests of prospective client$!)

Ya think?

She will even have brief snippets of reviews from satisfied clients!

(She will even provide you with her TER id # ... so that you can do your homework and due diligence by reading her reviews!)

She might even give herself a (well-deserved) humble brag:

"Read my reviews and you will see why I have so many repeat clients!"

(Discerning, enlightened mongers pickup on such things!)

She's gunna spell everything out for ya!

Like I said: A provider genuinely @ the top of her game is gunna answer many probing questions on her website ... and make it seamless and relatively easy for prospective clients to evaluate her!

(A well-thought-out website will answer many obvious questions and solve many problems because it will attract higher-caliber, discerning clients who do their due diligence and pride themselves on connecting the dots; it will obviate the need for prospective clients to send endless, annoying, timewasting  texts and emails repeatedly asking stupid questions!)

Like I've said: I've had a look behind the curtain!

THIS ... IS the MODUS OPERANDI of a $UCCESSFUL PROVIDER @ the TOP of HER GAME!

 

 

What me thinks, is you’re a dumbass. I’ve been doing this for 10 years, have had a website, didn’t say I had a lack of quality clients, and have stayed at the top of my game despite the odds. 
I don’t understand how you remain so stupid to my request; to simply read what service I offer. If you think FBSMASSGE could have the same offerings as someone advertising as an escort, then you’re clown, and that explains your idiotic advice and opinions on being a successful provider. 

[Leigh5280]

On 1/11/2024 at 9:36 PM, mustang said:

I clicked on the information icon for both ladies that posted here and I got "fbsm" and "escort"  NOT a lot of information for newbies.  I think I understand why you are getting calls.  I understand WHY you are being so discreet about what you offer, but those descriptions fall short of everything you offer.  Yes, reviews might be helpful but when one reads the complaints about reviews here .........

If a potential suitor hasn’t taken the time to know the difference between fbsm and escort services, then I don’t want to know him. 
Full body sensual massage doesn’t fall short of what I offer either. The acronym of title should be understood. And if someone needs a description of something self explanatory, then they’re stupid, and I don’t want to know them either. 

[Guest]

10 hours ago, Leigh5280 said:

What me thinks, is you’re a dumbass. I’ve been doing this for 10 years, have had a website, didn’t say I had a lack of quality clients, and have stayed at the top of my game despite the odds. 
I don’t understand how you remain so stupid to my request; to simply read what service I offer. If you think FBSMASSGE could have the same offerings as someone advertising as an escort, then you’re clown, and that explains your idiotic advice and opinions on being a successful provider. 

1 hour ago, Leigh5280 said:

 

Dumbass is just one of the many labels TRS can be addressed as. He's a total wet turd! Adds nothing to dialogue or meaningful conversations on TOB. He's just a bored out of work teacher who didn't attain his Masters or PHD to move up on the academic food chain. Also has clear symptoms of a couple mental diagnoses with his over worded grandiose responses!  Clearly doesn't keep under the guidelines of Occam's fucking Razor! In laymen's terms, something just ain't right with that crack! 

[TheRightStuff]

42 minutes ago, Leigh5280 said:

What me thinks, is you’re a dumbass. I’ve been doing this for 10 years, have had a website, didn’t say I had a lack of quality clients, and have stayed at the top of my game despite the odds. 
I don’t understand how you remain so stupid to my request; to simply read what service I offer. If you think FBSMASSGE could have the same offerings as someone advertising as an escort, then you’re clown, and that explains your idiotic advice and opinions on being a successful provider. 

 

Au contraire mon amie!

I know the game!

I know, very well, of what I speak!

With all due respect, I'm gunna tell ya straight up: If you are encountering problematic clients (NCNSs, troublemakers, bargain hunters, time wasters, tire kickers, stupid-question askers ...YOU ARE DOING SOMETHING (VERY) WRONG!

(You are not effectively communicating with prospective clients!)

And, to effectively communicate with prospective clients ... you need a well-thought-out website where everything is clearly spelled out with an intro page, a Q & A page, a screening page and an etiquette page ... that unequivocally answers all questions!

(There's no two ways around it!)

Cuz, like I've said: I've rendezvoused with My ATF 78x ... I've had a reeeal good look behind the curtain!

(I know the modus operandi of an elite provider!)

I had a front-row seat and witnessed firsthand the meteoric rise of a provider who started out from ground zero!

She started out with a middling K-Girl agency!

She hardly spoke any English! ("I sorry Gary ... I know my English not so much"!)

I saw her go from THAT ... to makin' a 1/4 mil a year with a fully-booked schedule of HNW client$!

She rocketed to the top of the (highly-competitive)  NY Metro escort scene ... in just 5 short years!

THAT, Ain't Easy 2 Do!

(Cuz, you're competing against moonlighting, NYC models and actresses!)

And, she essentially started from NOTHING!

She was left to her own devices!

(She even lost her cute Korean accent ... and her English got real good!)

She started to speak like a local!

During pillow talk she was most  intrigued by "American idiomatic expressions"!

Huh ...Whaa?

"You must to teach me!"

(Ya gotta luv it!)  

She became (made herself) a highly-coveted, must-see, GFE Bucket-List Babe ... amongst the discerning cognoscenti!

And, her website (and reviews) had a helluva lot to do with it!

There can be no doubt that her website was highly instrumental in presenting herself and her brand and attracting the "right" (highly-coveted) clients!

(Granted, she may have come from humble beginning in The Hermit Kingdom ... but she, did get, a lucky roll of the genetic dice!)

THAT'S 4 SURE!

And she parlayed it!

She was enterprising and business-savvy; she knew she had "The Goods"; she knew how to put herself out there and market herself!

She knew how to Promote Her GFE Brand!

And, her website is, unquestionably, what helped do it! 

(How else better?)

IT'S CALLED ADVERTISING!

A well-thought-out website is, by far, the most-effective venue for a provider to introduce her brand to prospective clients!

No?

(Dimwitted, ineffectual, bottom-feeding , time-wasting, less-desirable mongers ... don't pick up on such things!)

That's on them!

My ATF's website was so on point at attracting the "right", highly-coveted clients (i.e., respectable, well-heeled gent$) ... that she rarely (if ever) had NCNSs!

With her marketing-savvy, business model perfected on her website and the clients that she procured with it... it was problem-free smooth sailing 99.999% of the time!

In her daily providing routine ... troublemakers were virtually nonexistent!

Annoying PITA mongers were nonexistent, too!

Problematic, time-wasting clients are few and far between when a provider has a fully-booked schedule of HNW, play-by-the-rules regulars!

GET REAL!

Like I've said: I rendezvoused with her 78x and subsequently witnessed firsthand her rather-inspiring, rags-to-riches, American, success story!

It was impressive!

From a ("my English no so much') culturally-shocked ingenue ... starting out with a middling, K-Girl agency, to branding herself a Highly-Coveted, Bucket-List-Babe makin' beaucoup buck$ .. on the radar of the mongering cognoscenti!)

SHE DID IT!

She was a Master of Her (GFE) Craft!

(She was a refugee from the law of averages!)

And, I WAS THERE for THE WHOLE JOURNEY!

I SAW IT ALL!

It was most gratifying to see it happen in real time!

Sweet-natured, companionable and authentic: It could not have happened to a more-deserving person!

(I could write a book about it!)

Entitled:

"My English not so much: a K-Girl's Journey to GFE Superstardom!"

I KNOW of WHAT I SPEAK!

 

 

ps

I wish you well!

Best of luck in your future providing endeavors!

 

 

[Leigh5280]

11 minutes ago, TheRightStuff said:

 

Au contraire mon amie!

I know the game!

I know, very well, of what I speak!

With all due respect, I'm gunna tell ya straight up: If you are encountering problematic clients (NCNSs, troublemakers, bargain hunters, time wasters, tire kickers, stupid-question askers ...YOU ARE DOING SOMETHING (VERY) WRONG!

(You are not effectively communicating with prospective clients!)

And, to effectively communicate with prospective clients ... you need a well-thought-out website where everything is clearly spelled out with an intro page, a Q & A page, a screening page and an etiquette page ... that unequivocally answers all questions!

(There's no two ways around it!)

Cuz, like I've said: I've rendezvoused with My ATF 78x ... I've had a reeeal good look behind the curtain!

(I know the modus operandi of an elite provider!)

I had a front-row seat and witnessed firsthand the meteoric rise of a provider who started out from ground zero!

She started out with a middling K-Girl agency!

She hardly spoke any English! ("I sorry Gary ... I know my English not so much"!)

I saw her go from THAT ... to makin' a 1/4 mil a year with a fully-booked schedule of HNW client$!

She rocketed to the top of the (highly-competitive)  NY Metro escort scene ... in just 5 short years!

THAT, Ain't Easy 2 Do!

(Cuz, you're competing against moonlighting, NYC models and actresses!)

And, she essentially started from NOTHING!

She was left to her own devices!

(She even lost her cute Korean accent ... and her English got real good!)

She started to speak like a local!

During pillow talk she was most  intrigued by "American idiomatic expressions"!

Huh ...Whaa?

"You must to teach me!"

(Ya gotta luv it!)  

She became (made herself) a highly-coveted, must-see, GFE Bucket-List Babe ... amongst the discerning cognoscenti!

And, her website (and reviews) had a helluva lot to do with it!

There can be no doubt that her website was highly instrumental in presenting herself and her brand and attracting the "right" (highly-coveted) clients!

(Granted, she may have come from humble beginning in The Hermit Kingdom ... but she, did get, a lucky roll of the genetic dice!)

THAT'S 4 SURE!

And she parlayed it!

She was enterprising and business-savvy; she knew she had "The Goods"; she knew how to put herself out there and market herself!

She knew how to Promote Her GFE Brand!

And, her website is, unquestionably, what helped do it! 

(How else better?)

IT'S CALLED ADVERTISING!

A well-thought-out website is, by far, the most-effective venue for a provider to introduce her brand to prospective clients!

No?

(Dimwitted, ineffectual, bottom-feeding , time-wasting, less-desirable mongers ... don't pick up on such things!)

That's on them!

My ATF's website was so on point at attracting the "right", highly-coveted clients (i.e., respectable, well-heeled gent$) ... that she rarely (if ever) had NCNSs!

With her marketing-savvy, business model perfected on her website and the clients that she procured with it... it was problem-free smooth sailing 99.999% of the time!

In her daily providing routine ... troublemakers were virtually nonexistent!

Annoying PITA mongers were nonexistent, too!

Problematic, time-wasting clients are few and far between when a provider has a fully-booked schedule of HNW, play-by-the-rules regulars!

GET REAL!

Like I've said: I rendezvoused with her 78x and subsequently witnessed firsthand her rather-inspiring, rags-to-riches, American, success story!

It was impressive!

From a ("my English no so much') culturally-shocked ingenue ... starting out with a middling, K-Girl agency, to branding herself a Highly-Coveted, Bucket-List-Babe makin' beaucoup buck$ .. on the radar of the mongering cognoscenti!)

SHE DID IT!

She was a Master of Her (GFE) Craft!

(She was a refugee from the law of averages!)

And, I WAS THERE for THE WHOLE JOURNEY!

I SAW IT ALL!

It was most gratifying to see it happen in real time!

Sweet-natured, companionable and authentic: It could not have happened to a more-deserving person!

(I could write a book about it!)

Entitled:

"My English not so much: a K-Girl's Journey to GFE Superstardom!"

I KNOW of WHAT I SPEAK!

 

 

ps

I wish you well!

Best of luck in your future providing endeavors!

 

 

You fkn idiot. I didn’t say I had problematic clients. And I’m not even gonna bother reading through the rest of your garbage. You’re obviously too much of a dunce to grasp the subject of which I posted, and I feel really sorry for whoever has to provide for you. 

[The Divorce Coach ~]

On 6/8/2024 at 8:22 PM, Leigh5280 said:

You fkn idiot. I didn’t say I had problematic clients. And I’m not even gonna bother reading through the rest of your garbage. You’re obviously too much of a dunce to grasp the subject of which I posted, and I feel really sorry for whoever has to provide for you. 

idk who trs is. i have him on ignore. i only knew bc you quoted. other than that i have no desire to read any of his commentary. i have never had a desire.
but here’s some advice for him and the others who refuse to READ….im sure their comprehension issues can be cured with reading more. ijs, its a simple fix.

 

[GG Gomez]

On 6/8/2024 at 8:03 PM, TheRightStuff said:

 

Au contraire mon amie!

I know the game!

I know, very well, of what I speak!

With all due respect, I'm gunna tell ya straight up: If you are encountering problematic clients (NCNSs, troublemakers, bargain hunters, time wasters, tire kickers, stupid-question askers ...YOU ARE DOING SOMETHING (VERY) WRONG!

(You are not effectively communicating with prospective clients!)

And, to effectively communicate with prospective clients ... you need a well-thought-out website where everything is clearly spelled out with an intro page, a Q & A page, a screening page and an etiquette page ... that unequivocally answers all questions!

(There's no two ways around it!)

Cuz, like I've said: I've rendezvoused with My ATF 78x ... I've had a reeeal good look behind the curtain!

(I know the modus operandi of an elite provider!)

I had a front-row seat and witnessed firsthand the meteoric rise of a provider who started out from ground zero!

She started out with a middling K-Girl agency!

She hardly spoke any English! ("I sorry Gary ... I know my English not so much"!)

I saw her go from THAT ... to makin' a 1/4 mil a year with a fully-booked schedule of HNW client$!

She rocketed to the top of the (highly-competitive)  NY Metro escort scene ... in just 5 short years!

THAT, Ain't Easy 2 Do!

(Cuz, you're competing against moonlighting, NYC models and actresses!)

And, she essentially started from NOTHING!

She was left to her own devices!

(She even lost her cute Korean accent ... and her English got real good!)

She started to speak like a local!

During pillow talk she was most  intrigued by "American idiomatic expressions"!

Huh ...Whaa?

"You must to teach me!"

(Ya gotta luv it!)  

She became (made herself) a highly-coveted, must-see, GFE Bucket-List Babe ... amongst the discerning cognoscenti!

And, her website (and reviews) had a helluva lot to do with it!

There can be no doubt that her website was highly instrumental in presenting herself and her brand and attracting the "right" (highly-coveted) clients!

(Granted, she may have come from humble beginning in The Hermit Kingdom ... but she, did get, a lucky roll of the genetic dice!)

THAT'S 4 SURE!

And she parlayed it!

She was enterprising and business-savvy; she knew she had "The Goods"; she knew how to put herself out there and market herself!

She knew how to Promote Her GFE Brand!

And, her website is, unquestionably, what helped do it! 

(How else better?)

IT'S CALLED ADVERTISING!

A well-thought-out website is, by far, the most-effective venue for a provider to introduce her brand to prospective clients!

No?

(Dimwitted, ineffectual, bottom-feeding , time-wasting, less-desirable mongers ... don't pick up on such things!)

That's on them!

My ATF's website was so on point at attracting the "right", highly-coveted clients (i.e., respectable, well-heeled gent$) ... that she rarely (if ever) had NCNSs!

With her marketing-savvy, business model perfected on her website and the clients that she procured with it... it was problem-free smooth sailing 99.999% of the time!

In her daily providing routine ... troublemakers were virtually nonexistent!

Annoying PITA mongers were nonexistent, too!

Problematic, time-wasting clients are few and far between when a provider has a fully-booked schedule of HNW, play-by-the-rules regulars!

GET REAL!

Like I've said: I rendezvoused with her 78x and subsequently witnessed firsthand her rather-inspiring, rags-to-riches, American, success story!

It was impressive!

From a ("my English no so much') culturally-shocked ingenue ... starting out with a middling, K-Girl agency, to branding herself a Highly-Coveted, Bucket-List-Babe makin' beaucoup buck$ .. on the radar of the mongering cognoscenti!)

SHE DID IT!

She was a Master of Her (GFE) Craft!

(She was a refugee from the law of averages!)

And, I WAS THERE for THE WHOLE JOURNEY!

I SAW IT ALL!

It was most gratifying to see it happen in real time!

Sweet-natured, companionable and authentic: It could not have happened to a more-deserving person!

(I could write a book about it!)

Entitled:

"My English not so much: a K-Girl's Journey to GFE Superstardom!"

I KNOW of WHAT I SPEAK!

 

 

ps

I wish you well!

Best of luck in your future providing endeavors!

 

 

I m just curious about the beginning here,  if we have dip sticks, time wasters and no shows it is our fault for trying to do our best? These turds are what is ruining it for everyone.  I wish people would just grow up.  I don’t want to spend a lot of time, effort or money on a complicated site to make things more complicated.    That would be like me stopping you mid performance 100 times to ask a question, hey time out let me look at my phone, look at the clock.  You would not like that right? So at the end of the day if a person is a turd they are a turd and if they are amazing they are amazing.  It is a shame as always but there will always be these issues because people are people…… unfortunately only a select few of us can be awesome

[TheRightStuff]

13 hours ago, GG Gomez said:

I m just curious about the beginning here,  if we have dip sticks, time wasters and no shows it is our fault for trying to do our best? These turds are what is ruining it for everyone.  I wish people would just grow up.  I don’t want to spend a lot of time, effort or money on a complicated site to make things more complicated.    That would be like me stopping you mid performance 100 times to ask a question, hey time out let me look at my phone, look at the clock.  You would not like that right? So at the end of the day if a person is a turd they are a turd and if they are amazing they are amazing.  It is a shame as always but there will always be these issues because people are people…… unfortunately only a select few of us can be awesome

 

The name of the game is to procure high-caliber, highly-coveted clients!

Ya think?

Procuring high-caliber clients comes down to cultivating your image with branding, marketing and advertising!

There is a way to effectively do this!

There is a way to tip the scales (of attracting high-caliber clients) in your favor!

As I have previously stated: A well-thought-out website with an intro page, an etiquette page, a rates page, a screening page, a Q & A page, a snippet-of-reviews page, a photospread and a video ... can go a surprising looong way in branding yourself and piquing the interest of high-caliber clients!

Cuz, discerning gents intuitively know that a provider who possesses the wherewithal to have such a website is attempting to brand herself! 

To a discerning monger .... IT'S a BIG TELL!

A savvy, street-smart monger intuitively knows a provider who has a professional-looking website, reviews on TER and operates out of a high-end hotel is ..... @ The Top of Her Game!

(And, it will be reflected in her service!)

THE CALIBER of CLIENT a PROVIDER ATTRACTS is a DIRECT REFLECTION of HER BUSINESS MODEL and BRAND! 

(A provider is 100% responsible for the image of herself she puts out there!)

IT'S ALL about IMAGE!

A provider who has no website has poor branding and marketing skills!

And, because of her poor branding and marketing skills she attracts  "dip sticks", "time wasters", "no shows" and "turds"!

As a consequence, she attracts low-information, undesirable mongers who inhabit the shallow end of the hobby pool!

(NOTHING EXISTS in a VACUUM!)

There is a direct cause and effect!

I can assure you if you heed the advice I have proffered ... the number of "dip sticks,  time wasters and no shows" and "turds" ... will be greatly reduced!

Allow me to state the obvious:

The higher-caliber of clients you attract (and procure) ... the less headaches, drama, and bulls##t you will endure!

 

 

 

ps

In creating such a website you might not have to "spend a lot of time, effort or money" ... as you might think! 

 

 

psii

"unfortunately only a select few of us can be awesome."

AMEN!

 

[GG Gomez]

12 hours ago, TheRightStuff said:

 

The name of the game is to procure high-caliber, highly-coveted clients!

Ya think?

Procuring high-caliber clients comes down to cultivating your image with branding, marketing and advertising!

There is a way to effectively do this!

There is a way to tip the scales (of attracting high-caliber clients) in your favor!

As I have previously stated: A well-thought-out website with an intro page, an etiquette page, a rates page, a screening page, a Q & A page, a snippet-of-reviews page, a photospread and a video ... can go a surprising looong way in branding yourself and piquing the interest of high-caliber clients!

Cuz, discerning gents intuitively know that a provider who possesses the wherewithal to have such a website is attempting to brand herself! 

To a discerning monger .... IT'S a BIG TELL!

A savvy, street-smart monger intuitively knows a provider who has a professional-looking website, reviews on TER and operates out of a high-end hotel is ..... @ The Top of Her Game!

(And, it will be reflected in her service!)

THE CALIBER of CLIENT a PROVIDER ATTRACTS is a DIRECT REFLECTION of HER BUSINESS MODEL and BRAND! 

(A provider is 100% responsible for the image of herself she puts out there!)

IT'S ALL about IMAGE!

A provider who has no website has poor branding and marketing skills!

And, because of her poor branding and marketing skills she attracts  "dip sticks", "time wasters", "no shows" and "turds"!

As a consequence, she attracts low-information, undesirable mongers who inhabit the shallow end of the hobby pool!

(NOTHING EXISTS in a VACUUM!)

There is a direct cause and effect!

I can assure you if you heed the advice I have proffered ... the number of "dip sticks,  time wasters and no shows" and "turds" ... will be greatly reduced!

Allow me to state the obvious:

The higher-caliber of clients you attract (and procure) ... the less headaches, drama, and bulls##t you will endure!

 

 

 

ps

In creating such a website you might not have to "spend a lot of time, effort or money" ... as you might think! 

 

 

psii

"unfortunately only a select few of us can be awesome."

AMEN!

 

I completely and totally disagree.  I do agree it is 1 of about 100 factors you are not considering.   My friend who has done all of the things you mentioned gets the same responses I do.  The branding for “High Caliber” clients can get you a few extra clients. When it comes to a “Business Model” there are also 100 different approaches.  When it comes to the “Level of Exposure” ladies have differentnt comfort levels.  I rather keep my 5 very regular friends that have 50 new ones per month.  So there is a lot more to consider.  But about that first thing.  No mater your business model, no matter if you say you require XYZ.  The clowns and trolls will always be there. 

Edited June 15, 2024 by GG Gomez
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