Posted December 20, 2020 On 12/15/2020 at 11:08 AM, ilovewomen said: For booking, you require 2 references. With your rant to start this thread, it is apparent that you don’t give references. Thats a double standard. You’re not a very friendly person, are you? Did you not read the end? Lol I said I do references. This lady reached out to me! I was never rude to her. She was rude to me! I clearly am reference friendly if girls are reaching out to me and I’m responding 🤦🏼♀️ I said nothing wrong. Reading comprehension is key. It was just a vent. And ladies should ALWAYS be safe even when getting references. That’s all I said. I was never rude to the lady. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2020 On 12/15/2020 at 11:10 AM, The Naughty Professor said: “Peas and cues”..... 😂😂 Yeah 😂😂😂 I used talk to text 🤦🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️ 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2020 On 12/15/2020 at 1:13 PM, sb1212 said: OP - You're young (and very beautiful!) and new here. Hopefully you picked up a couple hints: 1. Providers here generally take care of each other. 2. Nobody likes to be scolded or told what to do, especially by someone who doesnt practice what they preach. I am fairly certain that your post did not have the intended effect. Better luck next time.... Yeah, I was scolded by a provider asking me for a reference. And if I wasn’t reference friendly as people are stating then I wouldn’t have responded to her. I’m always polite to providers who reach out for a reference. The lady was rude to me and she’s not the first. I said nothing wrong. It was just early in the a.m. and she pissed me off. I’m trying to help her and she gets rude. I was also trying to say which, I worded it wrong, for the ladies to be safe even when getting a reference. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2020 On 12/15/2020 at 7:26 PM, Phil-anderer said: I've apparently seen you before (2018) - you must have had a different name then? You do look familiar. If you reviewed me then we have met. Thank you for saying this though because it goes back to what I was trying to say, which came out wrong.. How am I supposed to remember someone I seen almost 3 years ago and vouch for them... Now if the lady can see you reviewed me then that should be enough. I can’t give references for people I don’t remember, that’s all I was trying to say. Id hate to vouch for someone and something bad happens to them all bc of my terrible memory. I said nothing wrong, just worded it wrong. Im not understanding people’s reading comprehension here 🤷🏼♀️ It really wasn’t that serious, just more of an awareness to be careful and don’t be rude when you’re asking a reference from another provider. I’m never rude to any of the ladies. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2020 On 12/16/2020 at 11:56 AM, Vassago said: Naughty Professor is poking fun at you, darling. The expression is P’s and Q’s. It’s an old English saying meaning mind your manners or mind your language. See, who says I don’t do nice things for people? 😂 what can I say , talk to text 🤷🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️😂 it never writes what I want it to say 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2020 On 12/17/2020 at 7:10 PM, lustybustygina said: I love to give refes just ask and I hop right on it .. and I have found the Co ladies are just as easy to get a refes from ,, But don't burn yourself I’m never rude to ladies. She was rude to me. I clearly give references if I’m responding to a lady reaching out for a reference. No response would mean I don’t do them. It wasnt that serious. It was just early in the morning and she’s not the first to be rude to me. Like why reach out to a provider for help and then get rude with her? You’d be ok with that? And I never was rude back. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2020 On 12/18/2020 at 1:41 PM, Leena_rose said: I answer reference requests because that's just what you do to help fellow providers. Yes this hobby comes with risks, but I believe it'd be even more risky if we don't help each other. We are all busy, but taking a few mins out of your day to help someone is always worth it. I wouldn't say anyone "knows all" or can completely verify that person is okay to see, but it's nice to have community. Most of my responses aren't Yes/No I always try to give some details of what to expect, because I'd appreciate the same. I also never said I don’t help lol no one read that part I guess. And I also can’t vouch for someone who I don’t remember 🤷🏼♀️ So there was no need for her to be rude to me when all I was doing was helping a fellow provider just like you do. I responded to her politely. I’m always polite to ladies who reach out for references. This lady in particular pissed me off is all. I still was not rude to her. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2020 How am I not reference friendly but am responding to rude providers (not all are rude) to help them 😂 I DID say don’t reach out for a reference and get rude with the provider you’re asking it from. That’s common curtesy! That is not the same as telling someone what/how they should run their business. And I clearly do references for those who couldn’t read 🤦🏼♀️ 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2020 I am strongly in favor of this thread, and any other thread, that allows us to look at Joanna's back end this many times. So nice! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 20, 2020 “Choose to stand beside her, when she is most surrounded.” - The Seventeen Tenets; Author, unknown. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 21, 2020 That thread was (mildly) entertaining. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 21, 2020 1 hour ago, briscorp1 said: That thread was (mildly) entertaining. .... so now... the rippin' and the tearin'.... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 21, 2020 1 hour ago, briscorp1 said: That thread was (mildly) entertaining. Venting threads are quite entertaining 😎 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 21, 2020 20 hours ago, briscorp1 said: That thread was (mildly) entertaining. It was entertaining to see everyone get their panties in a bunch bc they didn’t know how to read 😂 I was ctfu 🤣 even more so the men 😂 Picking everyone’s wedgies out for a fee would be even more entertaining Where’s a wedgie gif when you need one 😂 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 22, 2020 On 12/20/2020 at 1:45 PM, Joanna Jaxxx said: If you reviewed me then we have met. Thank you for saying this though because it goes back to what I was trying to say, which came out wrong.. How am I supposed to remember someone I seen almost 3 years ago and vouch for them... Now if the lady can see you reviewed me then that should be enough. I can’t give references for people I don’t remember, that’s all I was trying to say. Id hate to vouch for someone and something bad happens to them all bc of my terrible memory. I said nothing wrong, just worded it wrong. Im not understanding people’s reading comprehension here 🤷🏼♀️ It really wasn’t that serious, just more of an awareness to be careful and don’t be rude when you’re asking a reference from another provider. I’m never rude to any of the ladies. What was your previous name? I am totally blanking. You were great, by the way, when I saw you. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted December 27, 2020 Just I don’t have the energy to become argumentative with people. I got in some trouble few years back for giving a reference without talking to the client about requesting a reference first. Seriously, that’s what happened! So, please contact me first guys to let me know my name is being used for a reference. Also if it has been a long time??? Please remind me of the time we met also please. I just wish to make sure I am very accurate with my reference to the ladies and yes I love to go into a bit of detail at time. It all aids with comfort I believe. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
