Posted August 17, 2016 6 hours ago, mj76 said: I've never fallen for a provider. For me the whole point of the hobby is so that does not happen. I'll never seek out another relationship. It's just too much damn work. +1 In my eyes this is why the hobby is here and why I got started in the first place. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2016 (edited) I truly believe that you guys are missing the point. You, therefore, have my permission to like the ladies you are having sex with. Indeed, life is too short to have sex with ladies you do not care about. Respect them. Treat them kindly. I have one in particular I care about deeply. This does not mean you own them. Or are bound to them. Or have a right to involve yourselves into their lives more than they desire. In fact, it may be obvious they do NOT want your involvement. But it is OK to care for them, and care about what happens to them. You CAN care deeply about your ATFs, and still maintain those respectful boundaries. I have been away from mine far too long. Time to call. Edited August 17, 2016 by Laplace spelling 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2016 Obviously, there's not just one way to pursue the hobby. I've had a very long term relationship with an escort and we were musing that we wondered if either of us could get as excited about our time together if there wasn't a clear financial transaction involved? The hobby is a fringe activity that is frowned upon by society at large. Fringe activities are going to attract a highly variable and unconventional crowd. This is especially true of the girls generally and the guys who are around for awhile. It's not great dating turf. Sure, shit happens, but for every one that works, 15 get played out here in truly entertaining ways. And the story is generally the same one of three or four main ones.. This is not always "Well People Anonymous. I think a straight (this is the beat definition of straight; ie not a guy in the life) guy trying to date a hooker is a very challenging proposition. "Hi honey how was your day?" In In your case perhaps "play date," You want to feel cared about and romantic. Guys in here for that seem to me to get boundaries crossed up all the time , so welcome to the world. Happy on Garth, but watch your top knot. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2016 Do it at least once. Remember to wear kevlar and jump before the train wreck. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2016 3 hours ago, Laci French-2940 said: Do it at least once. Remember to wear kevlar and jump before the train wreck. Yes, it's true. You are a good woman. Then again, you may be the Antichrist. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 17, 2016 8 minutes ago, Juanmotai said: Yes, it's true. You are a good woman. Then again, you may be the Antichrist. I just might be *devilish laughter* 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 18, 2016 I don't want the cow, I just want the milk. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 19, 2016 On 8/9/2016 at 4:43 PM, Badboy said: As I have mentioned several times in several threads, my biggest problem in this sport is to keep from falling in love, since I seem to "click" with several of my ATFs. Actually had my feelings hurt once (wahh, boo hoo). Came across this the other day, and I think it is a good thing to keep in mind. Haven't we beaten this subject to death people? Not the ATF, just the topic... The Wise Old Owl There are old hobbyists, And bold hobbyists, But no old, bold hobbyists... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
