Posted March 20, 2016 So, my buddy might know my secret hobby. What yall think? Should I tell him? He asked to use my PC and of course I let him and seen my sites =/ idk if he seen my profile or not lol. Idk how long he was looking at them. But when I came into the room he exited like nothing and I acted like I wasn't paying attention. Now he gives me this look lol. He is my best friend so.. should I just tell him? Again tell me what yall think. Thanks! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 20, 2016 (edited) Until he ask directly, mum's the word. If he does, your answer depends on how he's likely to react and how well he keeps private things private. If you tell him, will the rest of your crowd know? Will he be saying, "Did you know Manx visits escort boards?" It also depends on if you care what your friends (future girlfriends?) think. My best friend knew, but then he & I mongered together. 😄 (I miss him; he passed away 2 years ago.) Edited March 20, 2016 by Bit Banger 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 20, 2016 1 hour ago, themanxxx said: So, my buddy might know my secret hobby. What yall think? Should I tell him? He asked to use my PC and of course I let him and seen my sites =/ idk if he seen my profile or not lol. Idk how long he was looking at them. But when I came into the room he exited like nothing and I acted like I wasn't paying attention. Now he gives me this look lol. He is my best friend so.. should I just tell him? Again tell me what yall think. Thanks! I think if you are going to leave your profile open or have your browser auto-save user names and passwords (a horrible idea btw) you should not be loaning your computer to a 'friend" who thinks it is OK to snoop into your private info and files. Next time create a separate user account for Mr. Snoopy. Or did you HOPE he would see? But to your immediate question if he wants to know he can ask. Never volunteer the information unsolicited to ANYONE. IMHO 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 21, 2016 I wouldn't say anything. You don't know how much he saw or even understood. if one person knows you have no control over how far it goes. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 21, 2016 (edited) 9 minutes ago, Mustang87 said: ... if one person knows you have no control over how far it goes. ^^ THIS ^^ Because my buddy & I hobbied together (he more than I in the early days), we had mutual assured destruction. There was also the occasional naked pile, with our respective wives. Edited March 21, 2016 by Bit Banger 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 21, 2016 This is and should as much as possible remain a discreet society. It's up to us, especially as booty bragging males, to police ourselves and each other. I wouldn't address it unless asked. I'm equally as secretive on other forums concerning my key waypoints and techniques for various hunting and fishing spots. Loose lips can cause problems IMO. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 21, 2016 Never tell anything about the hobby to anybody... not even to your wife! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 21, 2016 On March 20, 2016 at 2:14 PM, gr8owl said: Next time create a separate user account for Mr. Snoopy. Never volunteer the information unsolicited to ANYONE. IMHO ^^^This^^^ Even though he might be your best friend, sometimes our best friends do not always agree with our lifestyle. Never let anyone use your computer for anything. You never know what they are doing. If you have laptop, put it away. If they ask if they can use your computer, you should already have guest account set up. Call me paranoid, its never a good idea to tell anyone who you really are. Never give anyone anything they can hold over your head for any reason. Best friend or not. If where you, I would close the account, and set up a new one. Just my OP. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 22, 2016 (edited) On 3/20/2016 at 2:15 PM, themanxxx said: So, my buddy might know my secret hobby. What yall think? Should I tell him? He asked to use my PC and of course I let him and seen my sites =/ idk if he seen my profile or not lol. Idk how long he was looking at them. But when I came into the room he exited like nothing and I acted like I wasn't paying attention. Now he gives me this look lol. He is my best friend so.. should I just tell him? Again tell me what yall think. Thanks! Iall think that blindfolding yourself and running around on the interstate at night is a much better idea. Edited March 22, 2016 by Happymon enhanced sarcasm 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 29, 2016 On 3/20/2016 at 0:15 PM, themanxxx said: So, my buddy might know my secret hobby. What yall think? Should I tell him? He asked to use my PC and of course I let him and seen my sites =/ idk if he seen my profile or not lol. Idk how long he was looking at them. But when I came into the room he exited like nothing and I acted like I wasn't paying attention. Now he gives me this look lol. He is my best friend so.. should I just tell him? Again tell me what yall think. Thanks! What type of look did he give you? Was it a seething gaze imbued with a palpable indignation? Was it the condemning stare a preacher gives a teenager who swears? Was it a look of intrigued fascination? Were his eyes laced with a slight simmer of admiration? Honestly; if this rapscallion was browsing through your private information when you weren't around then he's definitely the type of person who will spread your secret. I would suspect he's already told all of your mutual friends about your sexual exploits. I would talk to him about this to stop the fire from spreading further. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 30, 2016 (edited) My attorney once told me: "never let anybody get any shit on you". Especially your "friends". Edited March 30, 2016 by jhooker 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
