Posted July 19, 2015 It seems to be a fairly frequent occurrence for me that providers don't respond to emails even though they post an email account in their ad. I am polite and often include a normal picture to give the impression I am real. For me, making initial contact by email is preferred and more convenient. It seems that if they are not going to regularly respond to emails then they shouldn't post it - similar to saying "No texts" or "Text is OK." Any others experience this? Providers, do you selectively decide who to respond to by email? Actually, for me - texting is even preferred to email. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 20, 2015 It seems to be a fairly frequent occurrence for me that providers don't respond to emails even though they post an email account in their ad. I am polite and often include a normal picture to give the impression I am real. For me, making initial contact by email is preferred and more convenient. It seems that if they are not going to regularly respond to emails then they shouldn't post it - similar to saying "No texts" or "Text is OK." Any others experience this? Providers, do you selectively decide who to respond to by email? Actually, for me - texting is even preferred to email. We've all probably experienced this. Unfortunately, they don't "owe" us any response. I suspect there are two reasons they are not responding. 1) They are too busy 2) They don't want to see you. Either way, it's time to move on to another escort. Good Luck! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 20, 2015 It is polite to respond even if you are busy. It takes a whole ten seconds to type "sorry I am booked" or something of that nature. But politeness is kind of fading away nowadays, so who knows. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 20, 2015 I have e-mailed four providers in five years. Two responded. The sample size is small, but I suspect that 30% - 50% response rate is about accurate. I would bet that a lot of accounts are long forgotten or canceled in many cases. Good luck. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 20, 2015 It is polite to respond even if you are busy. It takes a whole ten seconds to type "sorry I am booked" or something of that nature. But politeness is kind of fading away nowadays, so who knows. ^^^^This^^^^ Perhaps a provider blacklisted you, now none of the girls will respond to you. You need to ask yourself a few things and think about few things here. Did you have a argument with a provider? Did you ask any questions you should not have asked like Rates or services? BTW for lots of reasons if you send picture of yourself, most providers won't respond. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 20, 2015 I dont think i would say you got blacklisted. Maybe the girls dont respond if they are busy, how many people dont rsvp to weddings and or partys??? I would not take it personally. Just move on 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 20, 2015 I dont think i would say you got blacklisted. Maybe the girls dont respond if they are busy, how many people dont rsvp to weddings and or partys??? I would not take it personally. Just move on Their are providers who will blacklist a potential client, for asking inappropriate questions. I am not saying he did this. But since he only has 1 posting on TOB maybe he a newbie and doesn't know any better. Crazy B is right, move on. It does only take 10 seconds to respond, and say not interested, or I am already booked out. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 20, 2015 Their are providers who will blacklist a potential client, for asking inappropriate questions. I am not saying he did this. But since he only has 1 posting on TOB maybe he a newbie and doesn't know any better. Crazy B is right, move on. It does only take 10 seconds to respond, and say not interested, or I am already booked out. Maybe his badge is showing in the photo he sends. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 20, 2015 Maybe his badge is showing in the photo he sends. Thanks, I just spit out my rootbeer! I dont think i would say you got blacklisted. Maybe the girls dont respond if they are busy, how many people dont rsvp to weddings and or partys??? I would not take it personally. Just move on It seems to be a fairly frequent occurrence for me that providers don't respond to emails even though they post an email account in their ad. I am polite and often include a normal picture to give the impression I am real. For me, making initial contact by email is preferred and more convenient. It seems that if they are not going to regularly respond to emails then they shouldn't post it - similar to saying "No texts" or "Text is OK." Any others experience this? Providers, do you selectively decide who to respond to by email? Actually, for me - texting is even preferred to email. I personally prefer email over text. If I'm busy, I leave the email as *unread* to remind me to go back and respond. If a text comes through and I didn't respond or write something down, the chances of me forgetting to respond are much higher. Now if you've emailed me on a Friday evening...I typically won't respond until Sunday or Monday depending on the email. Some Ladies like to disconnect over the weekend. Some Ladies are currently away on Vacation so getting ahold of them takes a while. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 20, 2015 In my opinion - The ladies will answer the emails when they turn a certain phone on or check a certain email. If the ladies are doing this part time then they have a much more limited schedule. Hard part about many sites is you can not see when the last log in was. Another thing to consider just like anything else - when you first start it is so exciting and fun but as you evolve the excitement fades and answering emails and texts are not as fun and becomes work unless someone strikes their fancy. This is just my opinion and not based upon provable facts. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 20, 2015 It seems to be a fairly frequent occurrence for me that providers don't respond to emails even though they post an email account in their ad. I am polite and often include a normal picture to give the impression I am real. For me, making initial contact by email is preferred and more convenient.... Actually, for me - texting is even preferred to email.I hate to state the obvious, but many ladies will have their phone, email, P411, website info in an ad, but state initial contact should be made by __________ (phone, email, P411, website etc). I understand your preference on how you like to go about it, but find out how the lady likes initial contact made and go from there. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 20, 2015 If you want to get a provider to respond, put "Appointment" as the first word in the subject. They tend to disregard all others. This is frustrating for me as well. Recently I sent references to a provider. (S.S.) She responded, "great, I will get back in touch with you". Never heard from her for several weeks. I really wanted to see her so I contacted her again asking why no response? "Thanks for reaching out the second time, when do you want to meet?" I asked for the general location so I could figure out the best time to avoid traffic. She never responded. I forgot to put "Appointment" in the subject. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2015 I try to note on all the sites that I advertise that email is NOT the best way to communicate with me and that I really prefer text over any other form of communication. I still list my email address; however, I state it may be days or weeks before I respond. I simply don't check emails that often and when I do - unfortunately, I waste significant time weeding out the bullshit spam, get-rich-quick, or phony FBI scams that always seem to take over my inbox LOL xoxo 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2015 I prefer text or e-mail as opposed to phone calls, as a phone call may come at time when I am with mixed company. If it takes a bit to respond, I may be driving. It may be helpful to include details in your message, when you would like to meet, name/hobby name, references, when it is/is not ok to reply etc. Good luck! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 22, 2015 I have e-mailed four providers in five years. Two responded. The sample size is small, but I suspect that 30% - 50% response rate is about accurate. I would bet that a lot of accounts are long forgotten or canceled in many cases. I would bet the response rate is a LOT lower than 30-50%... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 22, 2015 I would bet the response rate is a LOT lower than 30-50%... Yeah, the sample size was ridiculously low, and those were well-reviewed ladies. Even at that, the response was just half. Add in the flakes and it admittedly goes way down. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
