Posted September 4, 2014 So, I have noticed something that happens with some providers. They have no problem with eye contact before the session really gets started, and they have no problem when it's over. But during the main event (hand job, BJ, FS, DATY), they avoid eye contact. I am a decent looking guy, so I don't think it is my hideous face that is causing it. Also, I wouldn't say it is "typical" but it happens frequently enough. I LOVE the eye contact, and I do my best to encourage it. I often just say, "I love looking into your beautiful eyes." (Which has the benefit of being true with every ASP I have met.) But, still disappointed if it doesn't happen. Anyway, thoughts from the collective on why this happens? Also, other suggestions on how to send encouraging signals during the session (beyond the obvious and rather blunt "look me in the eye dammit")? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 5, 2014 I love to look at my partner in his eyes while performing ehhhmmm. .. It's exciting to watch the excitement and enjoyment. I enjoy looking into each others eyes while other activities are going on too. It creates a connection for me, and is sexy as hell. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 5, 2014 Maybe you have lazy eye? Anyways its nice to see how h you matured from you last post. Just keep on posting brother. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 5, 2014 My guess is that these are ladies that you've just met, and eye contact can be a very intimate act that all ladies aren't comfortable engaging in with a guy they just met. Perhaps it'll happen if you go back to see particular ladies for more than the first session. It happens with some of the ladies I choose to see. I enjoy it as well, and it's no coincidence that the ones I return to see after the first session tend to have no issue with eye contact. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 5, 2014 So, I have noticed something that happens with some providers. They have no problem with eye contact before the session really gets started, and they have no problem when it's over. But during the main event (hand job, BJ, FS, DATY), they avoid eye contact. I am a decent looking guy, so I don't think it is my hideous face that is causing it. Also, I wouldn't say it is "typical" but it happens frequently enough. I LOVE the eye contact, and I do my best to encourage it. I often just say, "I love looking into your beautiful eyes." (Which has the benefit of being true with every ASP I have met.) But, still disappointed if it doesn't happen. Anyway, thoughts from the collective on why this happens? Also, other suggestions on how to send encouraging signals during the session (beyond the obvious and rather blunt "look me in the eye dammit")? Escorts are paid to service men. This not something that is considered crossing the line. Its really simple in my eyes. Either they like fucking and sucking or they don't and just do it for the money. Just my op. If a guy wants this kind of reaction he get that else where without paying. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 5, 2014 I think there's two types of up scale esorts. The difference between them is acting skill. Some girls, they are offering you the experience of having sex with them. Others, they are offering you the experience of having sex with the character they are playing. I feel a big difference there. For the second one, the girl needs to be a good actress, and if she is, she can be worth double the first kind. If she can stare you in the eyes the whole time, telling you how amazing you are, and looks fantastic doing it, that's an experience worth paying more for. The problem for me is when one of the girls who isn't adding to the experience by doing such acting, charges as though she is. If you're not gonna add acting to the performance, which to me includes looking in the eyes and at least LFK at some level, then stick to BP pricing. EB/P411 pricing is for girls that can act, and can do it well. Just my opinion. If you can't act well enough to stare a guy in the eyes for 20 minutes for your $XXX rate, find something else to do for work, or stay on Backpage. EB and such are for elites, and if all you do is lay there and look the other way while making moaning sounds, you're a BP girl. Real courtesans look us in the eyes, and real johns know you are acting but appreciate it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 5, 2014 ...I LOVE the eye contact, and I do my best to encourage it. I often just say, "I love looking into your beautiful eyes." (Which has the benefit of being true with every ASP I have met.) But, still disappointed if it doesn't happen.I think this is high on your list whereas others could give a rats ass about. Just let her know that when you have this face .... ... you are looking at her and you want her looking at you! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 5, 2014 I love to look at my partner in his eyes while performing ehhhmmm. .. It's exciting to watch the excitement and enjoyment. I enjoy looking into each others eyes while other activities are going on too. It creates a connection for me, and is sexy as hell. We definitely agree on this. Escorts are paid to service men. This not something that is considered crossing the line. Its really simple in my eyes. Either they like fucking and sucking or they don't and just do it for the money. Just my op. If a guy wants this kind of reaction he get that else where without paying. Not sure I understand what you are saying. If your point is that it is unreasonable for a client to want/expect this from an ASP, then I don't really agree. Either the provider likes to do it/ will do it, or she won't. If she doesn't want to do it, not a huge deal, but it might affect my decision to go back. If she does like the eye contact thing, well that is a huge plus for me and I am all over it. It isn't really about whether I can get it elsewhere (e.g., with a non-ASP) or not. It is about what I like during the session. Each provider gets to decide what she likes or is comfortable with. I get that. But we all have choices to make. And my choices are driven by personal preferences, like every client. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 5, 2014 Maybe you have lazy eye? Anyways its nice to see how h you matured from you last post. Just keep on posting brother. I think this is high on your list whereas others could give a rats ass about. Just let her know that when you have this face .... ... you are looking at her and you want her looking at you! These are excellent points. My normal face may not be all that bad, but my "f*ck me" face is probably straight out of a horror movie. Mystery solved! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 6, 2014 If your point is that it is unreasonable for a client to want/expect this from an ASP, then I don't really agree. I never said that. You see, just like any other job its called quality control. Being able to look men in the eyes while providing service is one them. Now, with that being said, that still does not mean she likes it. There are provides who does this just for the money nothing else. Either the provider likes to do it/ will do it, or she won't. Now that is excatly my point. Although, I will say Denver has several providers who are awesome. If she doesn't want to do it, not a huge deal, but it might affect my decision to go back. If she does like the eye contact thing, well that is a huge plus for me and I am all over it. I feel this is reasonable. It isn't really about whether I can get it elsewhere (e.g., with a non-ASP) or not. It is about what I like during the session. Each provider gets to decide what she likes or is comfortable with. I get that. But we all have choices to make. And my choices are driven by personal preferences, like every client. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 10, 2014 So, I have noticed something that happens with some providers. They have no problem with eye contact before the session really gets started, and they have no problem when it's over. But during the main event (hand job, BJ, FS, DATY), they avoid eye contact. I am a decent looking guy, so I don't think it is my hideous face that is causing it. Also, I wouldn't say it is "typical" but it happens frequently enough. I LOVE the eye contact, and I do my best to encourage it. I often just say, "I love looking into your beautiful eyes." (Which has the benefit of being true with every ASP I have met.) But, still disappointed if it doesn't happen. Anyway, thoughts from the collective on why this happens? Also, other suggestions on how to send encouraging signals during the session (beyond the obvious and rather blunt "look me in the eye dammit")? I've never experienced what you are experiencing. I have always experience full eye (and body) contact. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 10, 2014 Didn't read the responses but there are women in civil life who would not look you in the eye while fucking. If I were a provider.......Looking you in the eye : Add 50 . 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 11, 2014 If I were a provider.......Looking you in the eye : Add 50 . Now you're starting to sound like one of the girls on BP. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 11, 2014 This not something that is considered crossing the line.Its really simple in my eyes. Either they like fucking and sucking or they don't and just do it for the money. Just my op. If a guy wants this kind of reaction he get that else where without paying.I'm thinking; some ASP's just don't want to get it in their Eyes... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 11, 2014 I'm thinking; some ASP's just don't want to get it in their Eyes... Kaduk that was an awesome come back! http://www.dementedporn.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/cumshot%20-%20facials%20-%20cum%20on%20eyes%20-%20cum%20on%20face%20-%20brunette.gif 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 11, 2014 . If I were a provider.......Looking you in the eye : Add 50 . Now you're starting to sound like one of the girls on BP. LOL When you buy a car , they charge extra just for variation as simple as the color. Thinking of (look me in the eye ) as a fetish , I would charge extra. Seriously , I dated a woman who is really into sex , but it was difficult for her to do that during .After , she will not stop looking me in the eye intensely. I am easy on the eye ( I was told ) . May be adding 25 is more reasonable than adding 50. Sooner , men would demand that a provider must cum , no wonder providers develop acting skills. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 11, 2014 LOL When you buy a car , they charge extra just for variation as simple as the color. Thinking of (look me in the eye ) as a fetish , I would charge extra. Seriously , I dated a woman who is really into sex , but it was difficult for her to do that during .After , she will not stop looking me in the eye intensely. I am easy on the eye ( I was told ) . May be adding 25 is more reasonable than adding 50. Sooner , men would demand that a provider must cum , no wonder providers develop acting skills. harpo, I would pay you $25 to look me in the eye, but not $50. Even I have limits. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 11, 2014 Dude, constant eye contact during sex is creepy as fuck. It's nothing to do with whether you're hot or not. Seeing a pair of piercing eyes glaring at me during a muff dive is creepy! Stop it! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 11, 2014 Dude, constant eye contact during sex is creepy as fuck. It's nothing to do with whether you're hot or not. Seeing a pair of piercing eyes glaring at me during a muff dive is creepy! Stop it! Well, CONSTANT eye contact would be weird. My point is about NO eye contact. That is a bummer. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 11, 2014 Giving this some more thought... I have Marilyn Monroe's eye's tattoo'd on my lower back. What if you just flipped me over and rode me that way, would it count? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 11, 2014 harpo, I would pay you $25 to look me in the eye, but not $50. Even I have limits. You may need to see a therapist later . I don't have Bette Davis eyes. Assuming you have a pussy which I doubt it, you sounded like a dick attached to a man and not the other way around. Dude, constant eye contact during sex is creepy as fuck. It's nothing to do with whether you're hot or not. Seeing a pair of piercing eyes glaring at me during a muff dive is creepy! Stop it! Creepy it is. Giving this some more thought... I have Marilyn Monroe's eye's tattoo'd on my lower back. What if you just flipped me over and rode me that way, would it count? There is a porn done with a good taste called Zazel...it is actually classic, done with good taste and available for free. In the first 20 minutes you see a woman with a tiger painted on her ass getting fucked doggy...it is my favorite porn with a great music. watch it and you will thank me. http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=866621404 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 12, 2014 Eyes on eyelids. Problem solved for everyone. Also, check for a bat in the cave. I have a hard time looking at someone that has a booger hanging out when I don't want to tell them. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 12, 2014 There is a porn done with a good taste called Zazel...it is actually classic, done with good taste and available for free. In the first 20 minutes you see a woman with a tiger painted on her ass getting fucked doggy...it is my favorite porn with a great music. watch it and you will thank me. http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=866621404 Eating dinner while watching that was not my best move of the day...WOW!!! On another note. I hope that wasn't lead based paint. Her vagina might fall off. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 12, 2014 Giving this some more thought... I have Marilyn Monroe's eye's tattoo'd on my lower back. What if you just flipped me over and rode me that way, would it count? Feeling dizzy just thinking about it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 12, 2014 Whoa. That would feel like having sex with a Disney character. No can do. By the way, the image of you, mid-DATY, getting stared down by a creepy guy with a loogie dripping out his nose is both sad and funny as hell. Eyes on eyelids. Problem solved for everyone. Also, check for a bat in the cave. I have a hard time looking at someone that has a booger hanging out when I don't want to tell them. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 12, 2014 Dude, constant eye contact during sex is creepy as fuck. It's nothing to do with whether you're hot or not! Yeah, there is a fine line here. Some eye contact is extremely sexy but too much and it gets kinda awkward. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 13, 2014 Constant eyecontact? Creepy! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 14, 2014 I'm in with the constant eye contact is creepy group. Besides, much easier to DT your dick when not having to raise my head to maintain eye contact... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 15, 2014 Yep, those baby blues are the best. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 16, 2014 I prefer that she looks at my one eyed dick. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
