Posted June 12, 2013 You're the sub. What level do you like to take it to? Just trying to broaden my horizon. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 12, 2013 While a sub and restrained I've endured cock and ball torture, tickle torture and post-orgasm torture. Not sure how much more broad I can get. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 12, 2013 Oh lets see... Some light bondage, foot worship, hot wax, light CBT, nipple torture. A Violet Wand is fun too. Plus whatever kink you can come up with I would be happy to be your first Sub, Destiny! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 13, 2013 While a sub and restrained I've endured cock and ball torture, tickle torture and post-orgasm torture. Not sure how much more broad I can get. Instead of having one broad tickle you, you could get two broads to do it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 14, 2013 You already know Destiny Destiny may know, but the rest of us don't. So quit teasing the readership here and do tell Bobfire. As for my foray into some light dom, I've been asked to do some ball torture. I did it, and it was quite satisfactory for my client. But I kinda like the little guys, and hate to torture them. I've also had been involved in tieing up my client and then having my way with him. And I've been tied up at my clients request, while he had fun playing with a vibrator on me. Enjoyable as hell for me. So thats my story. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 18, 2013 The whole turn on in BDSM is relinquishing control, trusting your partner and leaving the rest to his/her imagination.. Use of "safe" words to stop whatever or wherever you happen to be ensures that physical boundaries and limitations (pain thresholds as an example) are respected. Now, I'm certain that others would suggest "ground rules", but I think some of the allure to the lifestyle is lost through what I would perceive as little more than a scripted session. If a participant is interested in boundaries or certain aspects of BDSM.. there are specialists.. I'm just sayin'.. I'll be the canvas on which you could ply your art Destiny!! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 20, 2013 You missed something. YOU'RE the sub.Want a spanking Jez? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 24, 2013 Instead of having one broad tickle you, you could get two broads to do it. Oh, I have. Wild time. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 2, 2013 I've been involved in the lifestyle since before I was legal, and am pretty open-minded. Short of drawing blood or risking permanent injury, I will consider most things. Being cuffed, hogtied, slapped, choked, called names, clothespins on nipples & lady parts, rough sex while tied up, made to do humiliating things. Done it all & more. Love it:D Once a safe word is given & hard limits have been discussed, I go wherever the Dom takes me. I really enjoy the pain & humiliation aspects of BDSM. IDK why, I just do. I quit trying to figure it out years ago. LOL I switch (Domme/sub), so I'm able to enjoy both sides. The occasions when I'm the sub are wonderfully exciting & I seek them out. Unfortunately, my presence is requested more often for my domination services. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 2, 2013 hey Rani, all very informative. being a switch, will you not dish out a punishment you aren't willing to take? lol 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 3, 2013 Of course not I do things to people quite often that I would NEVER want done to me. Perfect example? Brown shower, force-fed into someone's mouth. I have no interest in sampling any excrement. But, I'm happy to give this to the person who does want it. On the flip side, many new things I suggest clients try are things I have experienced as a sub and truly enjoyed. Gently pushing boundaries is necessary for submissive growth in BDSM, IMO. Not the hard limits, but the soft limits. You learn about yourself when you move beyond your comfort level, especially when it comes to D/s. I fulfill sexual fantasies, it's what I do. Sometimes, mine & the client's specific fantasies overlap. But, not always. In those cases, the happiness I get from helping people explore their sexuality is what makes it enjoyable for me. I simply take the experiences for what they are. A real, visceral connection & exchange of power between consenting adults. An awesome way to make a living, and perfect for me! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
