Posted July 6, 2012 i was just chatting the other day and this topic came up, so i'd never considered it before since my atf's have retired before i reached saturation point. but it brings up an interesting question if you ever feel you get to be 'too regular' with someone who you're hopelessly infatuated with. or the reverse: after a while, she just doesn't take you to that place you crave - kinda like the ol' s.o. - lol. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 6, 2012 Easy solution though--just don't call her anymore or at least take some time off. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 6, 2012 I think most of us go through phases. It's also one of the great things about this hobby, variety. A lot will also depend on how a lady makes you feel. Looks can get you there but it takes a little more than that to keep you there. Attitude, performance, feeling appreciated, etc. I never want a provider to grow tired of me either..... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 6, 2012 Do what "the girls" do... Watch some porn, get some new ideas, try some new things... Color your hair, buy a new outfit (ultra sexy of coarse) ect;) Xoxo's always, Shelly 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 8, 2012 i was just chatting the other day and this topic came up, so i'd never considered it before since my atf's have retired before i reached saturation point. but it brings up an interesting question if you ever feel you get to be 'too regular' with someone who you're hopelessly infatuated with. or the reverse: after a while, she just doesn't take you to that place you crave - kinda like the ol' s.o. - lol. I think if I was a hobbyist with provider knowledge, I would see her until that spark was.gone, chances are shes not feeling it if you aren't, so move on for awhile and comeback when you miss her. Shell be glad to see you, no matter the time in between. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 8, 2012 Thats why it is nice to have more then one ATF. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 8, 2012 Mine just recently returned to me after about a year hiatus. I was really happy to see her again. She's hardly ever around any more and she is still very difficult to try to contact. Have wanted to see her again but now can't get a response, just like before. I know she's really busy with school but damn I'd like to see her more often. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 8, 2012 I guess I'm lucky in a sense. My atf is still my atf. 5 years now. I did have one pass away. Yes, I was sad for a long time. I still miss him. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 9, 2012 Think about the OP's question. Isn't too regular like a marriage? Why do we hobby then? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 9, 2012 Well, you know the old saying: show me a beautiful woman, and I'll show you a guy tired of fucking her. Same with hookers. This is why I bang them at most twice. As soon as I've pulled out my dick, I can practically feel the fatigue setting in. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
