Posted June 27, 2012 Ok so why is it that guys can post reviews on girls and we don't post on clients... If a client doesn't like a provider then leave don't stay and then go home a write a bad review on a girl and make her look bad! Just like the clients go off others reviews us providers need to stick together and start reporting bad clients or guys who will be dicks and write bad reviews no matter what... What's everybody's input on this ..... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2012 I thought you guys kept lists and informed each other of bad Johns. I have seen people post "do not see this guy" or "this guy will rob you" posts on CL and Mojo. The problem I see is it becoming a flame war and no one wants that. R/ LVNG 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2012 Is this because a couple of guys said that your pics were old and you gained a lot more weight and they didn't like the way you looked? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2012 Is this because a couple of guys said that your pics were old and you gained a lot more weight and they didn't like the way you looked? If so, then post honest pics and not ones from years ago. Yes the guy has an option to leave but we have busy lives and sometimes make time to see these ladies so we say fuck I'll just do her and leave. Of you're honest up front then the guys won't be writing negative reviews. Ok the other hand, yes I think providers should make their own thing as well but not make it public. Some of these guys need to stay discreet. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2012 Google is our friend.... http://www.nationalblacklist.com/las_vegas.aspx Oh, there were several others 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2012 There are several options for us to report bad clients. National blacklist, providerbuzz.com and verifyhim.com. This should help you out Ashley. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2012 If so, then post honest pics and not ones from years ago. Yes the guy has an option to leave but we have busy lives and sometimes make time to see these ladies so we say fuck I'll just do her and leave. Of you're honest up front then the guys won't be writing negative reviews. Ok the other hand, yes I think providers should make their own thing as well but not make it public. Some of these guys need to stay discreet. I agree with posting honest pics, recent pics, no weird angle pics etc. It sucks when posted pics make someone look around 125 lbs and the girl shows up around 175 lbs, personally I feel cheated, and think twice about spending the money. But who knows if this is really what ashley meant, not saying she is posting flase pics bci have never seen her, I just agree with posting recent pics. That's why you read more than one review to gauge your interest, usually most providers that I have read have one bad review- maybe its an off night, or the two didn't click etc. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2012 Who doesnt agree with the "post honest pic" concept? I would also like to let the providers know that I dont put too much stock into any one review (good or bad) unless it is from someone I trust, based on my personal experiences. Ashley Marie (and other providers), dont worry about one person posting a bad review, be concerned if many people are posting negative reviews. On a side note, do you ladies take an "average" review to be a bad thing? I have posted numerous reviews and if I gave someone an average, I do not mean it in a negative way at all. 19samadams19 raises a good point, the review is one single snapshot of one encounter in which both parties have a part in making it good or bad. I know I have had perfect encounters and it was outside vairiables played a key role in making the moment extra special (the music, how much stamina or energy I had on a particular day, etc....). I am not an overconfident braggard but I have left some encounters feeling that I wasnt at my best and hoped the providers werent rating me on that occasion. Other times I felt like I was a crazy pornstar who fucked like a champ and wished they reported me to the other ladies. R/ LVNG 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2012 Hey guys I don't think that's what she's talking about. A lot of times we get guys who are total douchebags over the phone and email, and sometimes they are nice until they show up. Just like you guys get to tell the good, bad and the ugly. We to want to know those things to. But I do agree with you guys that the thrill of the meet is definitely diminished when providers use fake pics or very old pics. But remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and what doesn't bother one guy, might actually be a disappoint for another. Reviews are not always accurate, they are only the view of that person who saw that provider. Sometimes you might feel misled because the reviewer chose not to discuss body type or whatever and most guys just want to know if the providers pics are real, some don't care about the service. That's why many guys keep seeing girls with lots of bad reviews instead of seeing girls who have good reviews. IMO 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2012 I have taken a couple chances on ladies with less than good reviews. I must admit, overwhelmingly, I should have listened to my larger brain and stayed away. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2012 First off no I'm fine with my review ...I have fantastic ones and 2 ok ones that talked about my weight.... I'm 5'10 curvy but I have a firm body not fat everybody is entitled to their own opinion... The statement I'm trying to make like precious said was to inform other providers if a guy sounds all sweet on the phone he gets there and is a total dick.. Extremely rough trys to rip you off wants bbfs etc etc... All in all a BAD JOHN!!! because in reality most johns act the same way towards a girl... There are just some creeps out there.. That's the statement I was trying to make FYI 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2012 This is not to bash anyone but you clients inform each other and all I'm trying to say is providers need to do the same... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2012 I see some of the guys go for the spinners and that is all they care about. I myself am a big guy 6'3 225. So naturally I enjoy females that I am not double their size. I also don't enjoy females that match or are bigger than me. That is all preference. Something that I all think we can agree on is the service. There is nothing worse than seeing a provider and they're just not into it. If the pictures are a year old so what. Did she change that much. Probably not. When I put pictures of myself out I'm sure to pick the best ones. I'm not gonna have a pic of me crawling out form under a car with a 10day beard and a beer in my hand am I? Like others have said one review of average does nothing to steer me away. Especially with all the other great reviews. I have to say my comfort level with Ashley is incredible and for this reason I have seen her again. To be honest it's the only provider I have ever seen twice. I will go back to her again for this exact reason. As for guys that are creeps. I don't even know how I'd approach that. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2012 Thanks hobby man.. Enjoy seeing you! But I didn't want this post to be about size and all that which it has turned into ..sorry if you guys understood it wrong...just want a section providers can go look at if they are questioning a John that's it... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2012 Ok so why is it that guys can post reviews on girls and we don't post on clients... What's everybody's input on this .....Some of it has to do with which direction the Money flows... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2012 amen ashley, this is still america and you are allowed to say what you want to say in a public forum, as long as its the truth. opinions are like you know whats...everyone is entitiled to them. but i agree with you that a few bad apples can ruin your business without any repercussions, but i guess thats just the nature of the business. you should utilize some of the websites out there that seem to be blowing the whistle on some of the a-hole guys out there, but its much easier for them to get away with it and just disappear. there are still a few of us nice guys out here so keep doing what youre doing and you'll be fine im sure. p.s.- looking forward to seeing you soon! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2012 So it's more about the money flow then our safety....???? Thanks Blackhawks to the real hobbyist who are REAL MEN and make this business worth doing and make it fun for girls like myself! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2012 So it's more about the money flow then our safety....???? Unfortunately, Ashley: it really IS more about money flow than safety....If safety was your primary concern, you would not be in this business, no? That being said, I can see that would be beneficial for the women to get together and have a private "notes" section. Actually, I was under the impression that P-411 had a feature that allowed providers to share notes--does anyone know if this is correct? In the end, though, a bad review is not going to sink you--if you are kind and honest, you will do just great. PS: I would be WAY happier with a provider that showed up 8 years older and 50 pounds heavier than her pictures but had a great personality and showed me a good time, than I would with one who matched her photos PERFECTLY but was not good at what she does:) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2012 So it's more about the money flow then our safety....???? Thanks Blackhawks to the real hobbyist who are REAL MEN and make this business worth doing and make it fun for girls like myself! Travelman and PrcoisOne1 already provided some. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2012 Well everybody has their own opinion but this topic went the wrong way so sorry if people got the wrong idea! We can be in this business and still be concerned about our safety 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2012 There are several options for us to report bad clients. National blacklist, providerbuzz.com and verifyhim.com. This should help you out Ashley.Agree PrecioisO1ne, if it's about safety or a guy spinning his wheels, report him to one of these sitesOk so why is it that guys can post reviews on girls and we don't post on clients... If a client doesn't like a provider then leave don't stay and then go home a write a bad review on a girl and make her look bad!.....I think this is a two-part comment. First, one of the best features of TOB reviews is ladies can rebut a review. It's a slippery-slope b/c ladies can come off as bitchy or whiny if they receive less than a stellar review. But, it's still a nice feature. Secondly, not sure what you mean by doesn't like? If you mean by the lady is not the lady in the pic, than he has every right to leave and write a scathing review as to this is not the lady in the pic. If it's after services have been performed, than it could be his truth that the date didn't go well. Again, ladies have recourse and can rebut their reviews! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2012 (edited) I have no problems with my reviews, I am the girl in the picture and they are accurate Edited July 10, 2012 by Kaduk nothing more need to be said. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2012 (edited) Ok so why is it that guys can post reviews on girls and we don't post on clients... If a client doesn't like a provider then leave don't stay and then go home a write a bad review on a girl and make her look bad! Just like the clients go off others reviews us providers need to stick together and start reporting bad clients or guys who will be dicks and write bad reviews no matter what... What's everybody's input on this There is an Escorts only Board(EOB) on this forum as well. http://www.theotherboard.com/forums/faq.php?faq=vb_faq#faq_escorts_only There are clients out there who understand that a provider that feels safe and makes some money will be a safer and better quality experience for us as well. Edited June 27, 2012 by Kaduk 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2012 Thank u... Didn't know they had one on here appreciate it 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 27, 2012 ASHLEYMARIE2355 said: So it's more about the money flow then our safety....???? Quote Some of it has to do with which direction the Money flows... Your OP stated nothing about safety issues. Any Safety issues should definitely be seen on a providers only site & not observable by any clients. To clarify; -------> which direction the Money flows.. The party who receives compensation for their time will naturally be the one's reviewed in an open forum... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 2, 2012 I do not write a review every time I go out for a few reasons; snowballing if someone else said the same thing I am going to say whats the point; Provider that isn't bad, but isn't OMG amazing. If people that did enjoy you didn't review you maybe it is not totally on the client end. If the ladies are being harassed or hurt that is sad but I do not have any input on that. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 8, 2012 Ashley Marie .... You are one cute, meaty, large Chi chid', Italian woman. I like that!!! Life is a two way street. I think if a client is not a gentleman, an idiot, a thief, or a smelly big belly sloth, why wouldn't it be OK to post that as long as real names are kept confidential? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 8, 2012 Safety should always be the first concern for all! Yes, we do need to look out for one another as best as we can. The client verification is one way, ProviderBuzz, Mr Number, & google are great. In Washington we have a private Providers section on the boards for discussion, warnings, & anything we feel is necessary. They work great. You can also start your own chat room on some sites, form your own for members only. Just remember that there are 3 sides to every story and always consider the source! Just a thought to share. Good Luck & if anyone is in the Springs...I have a couple of #'s for time wasters & a trickster to share:)~ 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 8, 2012 Ashley Marie .... You are one cute, meaty, large Chi chid', Italian woman. I like that!!! Life is a two way street. I think if a client is not a gentleman, an idiot, a thief, or a smelly big belly sloth, why wouldn't it be OK to post that as long as real names are kept confidential? why does having a big belly make you a smelly sloth? are you trying to piss people off? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
