Posted March 25 On 3/17/2024 at 6:51 PM, Western ~P said: one thing i don't do is come in and save drunk clients in any qwerty/keyboard communications. if i had a roommate who calls up escorts while drunk, i'd help out my roommate and tell him right now may not be a good time to hobby. sober up and then contact and escort. ya know the saying, friends don't let friends drive drunk....and the saying is the same as, friends don't let friends hobby while drunk! being a provider yourself as i am, you should know anything can wrong seeing a new drunk client. however, if i showed up and a client was inebriated, i damn sure would have taken his money that hes given to me for my time (getting dressed, gas etc etc) and i would have left bc he has in fact wasted my time. i don't have sessions with drunk guys. i like the gents that i meet to be level headed and aware of my presence and what intimacy is currently going on. i don't want him later when he becomes sober to look at his statement or whatever and think back and decide to dispute/reverse any electronic charges bc he doesn't remember how the session went...again anything can go wrong when seeing a drunk guy. don't get me wrong, there are some bad apples on STG's, twitter, here (TOB) and other hobby websites. let's not single out STG's. and as i said earlier, IT'S HIS FAULT IF HE'S BEEN SCREWED!!! there are plenty pro providers as myself who don't like to be put in situations bc of a drunk guy. i disconnect myself from anyone during any business exchanges if they're drunk. I do not have control over the actions of others. Yes, giving advice, is always an option. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 25 On 3/17/2024 at 5:33 PM, Elle Blake said: Maybe the answers in the question skip the games. Point taken. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 26 On 3/14/2024 at 4:20 AM, Western ~P said: ill bet him being screwed is his fault and not the websites fault. not trying to sound mean but 7 out of 10? i cant see this mistake being made that many times if he’s doing thorough screening, READING and research. imo sounds like addicts, thieves and gold diggers is what attracts his eye. It's never a websites' fault, though SKG has a reputation for a higher instance of scam ads (not as bad as like listcrawler). Victim blaming doesn't really help though. To me, it sounds like he wants to play on the low end of the rate scale which is where you tend to run into more of the scams and too-good-to-be-trues. Reviews can be helpful, but not a cure-all. More than one lady with great reviews has said "fuck it" and kept a deposit or run down to her car to "put the money in her purse" never to be seen again. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 27 2 hours ago, brunodtc said: it sounds like he wants to play on the low end of the rate scale anybody that regurgitates the same thing 10 + times likes it and he likes the low end of things. he is getting exactly what he likes paying for ...being screwed. now, there has been a time or two that i allowed myself to be exploited and i liked it. but i wasn't so stupid that i didnt know what was going on, i just played along but i was very much aware. (spank me!) 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 27 3 hours ago, Western ~P said: . (spank me!) Is it extra? Not really my thing, but if it makes it a better time for you I'll give it a shot. We both should be having a good time, ya know? 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 27 I admit my ignorance when it comes to the provider side of the hobby. So I might be wrong about this, but do different sites have different criteria to place ads? From what I understand, TOB has many requirements to place ads here. If a site had little to no criteria to post ads I could see more unprofessional providers posting ads there. While there might be bad apples on all sites, i could see a site having more then others if they have little or no standards. I am not saying STG is like this, I'm speaking generally. A little off topic regarding drunk clients. I understand and agree with a ASP not wanting to continue an appointment with an inebreated client. And I think it's fair that they should be paid for their time and effort. (Especially if they made a trip to the clients residence) But what I don't condone is if the ASP takes posessions. Reading the thread that was mentioned and that is not okay. Maybe if the client has no money he might offer something in exchange for the ASP's trouble, but taking something without his knowledge is theft. I remember the first time I hobbied it was an Outcall at my place. Due to a misunderstanding I did not have enough cash to cover the YL's rate. Unknown to me she took a large glass egg that belonged to my parents. You would not believe what I went through to get that thing back! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 27 16 hours ago, brunodtc said: Is it extra? Not really my thing, but if it makes it a better time for you I'll give it a shot. We both should be having a good time, ya know? of course i’d have to advocate for myself. so, spanks would have to be included @no upcharge ofc 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 28 4 hours ago, Western ~P said: of course i’d have to advocate for myself. so, spanks would have to be included @no upcharge ofc Baby girl. A proper spanking, administered by an experienced, mature DOM, is an experience relished by both. Such a pleasure!! 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted March 29 On 3/27/2024 at 0:27 PM, TML93 said: I admit my ignorance when it comes to the provider side of the hobby. So I might be wrong about this, but do different sites have different criteria to place ads? From what I understand, TOB has many requirements to place ads here. If a site had little to no criteria to post ads I could see more unprofessional providers posting ads there. While there might be bad apples on all sites, i could see a site having more then others if they have little or no standards. I am not saying STG is like this, I'm speaking generally. i have had to send in valid/proof of identity twice. years ago and again after fosta-sesta. iirc you cannot just register and post an ad. you have to get verified first. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 1 On 3/29/2024 at 0:26 PM, Western ~P said: i have had to send in valid/proof of identity twice. years ago and again after fosta-sesta. iirc you cannot just register and post an ad. you have to get verified first. Me also and they had me take several document pictures. I am still not approved on STG and my EM is just floating. In other words not officially approved and no response from those powers that are in charge lol it is fine. 😎 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 1 3 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said: Me also and they had me take several document pictures. I am still not approved on STG and my EM is just floating. In other words not officially approved and no response from those powers that are in charge lol it is fine. 😎 believe it or not there’s a waiting list to get on board 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 1 10 hours ago, Western ~P said: believe it or not there’s a waiting list to get on board I am on EM but it’s a floating ad I mean I’m not able to update my rates or add a no picture I do have my new website on there and that’s all that they’re allowing for me to update. 😞 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 1 On 3/27/2024 at 0:27 PM, TML93 said: I admit my ignorance when it comes to the provider side of the hobby. So I might be wrong about this, but do different sites have different criteria to place ads? From what I understand, TOB has many requirements to place ads here. If a site had little to no criteria to post ads I could see more unprofessional providers posting ads there. While there might be bad apples on all sites, I could see a site having more then others if they have little or no standards. I am not saying STG Asorry I cut you off a little bit, do you know what’s interesting each side is done a little bit different each platform with how you post your ads or how you communicate in general. I don’t want Tryst I’m not allowed to use the word “sensual” so I am Kali S Reiki on Tryst. We learn as we go with how to navigate. It all is fine with me . Even the less known sights.:I like the opportunity to use and check all the websites out. In doing so you can find what works best for each of us as Companions. I like to ask Admires which website did they find me? It helps to know. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 1 I gladly post on Skip The Games. I have been on List Crawler (maybe the equivalent of BP or Craigslist back in the day). I may post again. I love STG, they screen us, but maybe they only have so much power. List crawler from below that, you never know when a good person is looking at those sites. Some men don't know about multiple sites to search. I utilize whatever is at Mt fingertips. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
