brunodtc

Clients shouldn't respond to a thread about educating clients?

Ok, "references" which serve an identical purpose for the pedants out there.

When a lady has a ToB account, I've never had an issue getting verified by just sharing my oks. P411 works just like that too. It's when they don't have either that things get complicated. OP sounds like she's encouraging guys to get a couple of OKs on their account, and that's not bad advice.

A wild night with Western P: Dear EM, So there I was right, up to my elbows in luscious pillowy-firm breasts, enjoying some mood lighting an ambience when suddenly Dobby appeared in a blinding flash of light. A flick of his wand and the next thing I know we're riding space whales between galaxies. We set down on a beautiful green planet that looks strangely like Northern Scotland. We were greeted by a group of women in red, led by Audrey Astor. Never one to miss an opportunity to satisfy a client, Western P invited them to join in a sultry voice. As the activities commenced, I inadvertently pinched Audrey's nipple. I apologized, and asked for her number, at which point she summoned arcane magic and shouted "No digits!" before banishing us back to earth. With the hour over, I left slight confused, so I rate it 3 stars. -Bruno *please note, I've never meet Western P nor Audrey, but I did just binge watch the Harry Potter movie series as well as Ahsoka while down with the flu this week.

As am I.

EM won't let you read reviews until you post one, which is why it's so useless of a site for clients. That sort of set up actively encourages fake reviews. I wouldn't encourage any client to use that site.

I think TRS there has forgotten providers are people, not pictures and descriptions. You'll never be able to reason a person out of a position they didn't reason themselves into. There's no place for calling anyone "bottom feeding backpage refugees". That level of disrespect is wild. One day, he'll learn how easy it is to get a few bots to boost reviews on TER, but until then, he'll never hear a word about it.

I mean, that works both ways, right? If I want your service I have to meet your rules. If you want my business, you have to meet my rules. In this particular case, our rules don't match, and we wouldn't meet. I'd just wish you well and move on to the next provider. I wouldn't ask you to break your rules, and I'd hope you wouldn't ask me to break mine. I have no complaints about that. If I increased my rules to require the provider send me her ID before we meet, I'd likely never meet another provider again, right? That's just how it works. The more rules each of us have, the fewer people we're going to see. It's up to us to decide on where we set that line. I do reserve the right to worry about my own safety. If that bothers you, it'll just have to be like that. I'm not going to be sorry for it. I do hope you have a great day and that your business picks up.

I have some of my own personal rules around screening. Stuff I can't give out - real name, links to any of my socials, or a pic of my face. What that does for me is prevents someone from outing me, which would destroy my career, or blackmailing me. Those are risks whether it's the provider, or someone who stole the provider's phone. I won't negotiate on those rules. I am happy to provide references & P411. If that doesn't work, no problem, have a nice day. I won't ask a provider to break her rules, she shouldn't ask me to break mine. We should just wish each other well and move on. There are too many Jacks and Jills out there to be hung up one any specific one.

Morally, 100%. I can't seem to find any info on whether Colorado recognizes rape by deception (which is what this would be). She should at least reach out to The Blue Bench for help navigating safe reporting.

I feel like the love wouldn't be equal

I'm a hairy dude. Trying to keep up with shaving/waxing is just too much, and looks really weird in comparison to the rest. Luckily, I don't have a hairy back! So I keep it trimmed, not super long (least it become a shitting through a strainer situation). But a wax or shave is kind of out of the question for me. On a lady, I like some hair. Tidy, not like the wild, unkempt homeless beard look of the 70s, but I'm really over the Barbie look.

Is it extra? Not really my thing, but if it makes it a better time for you I'll give it a shot. We both should be having a good time, ya know?

bored and ignored is a whole porn genre. maybe that's what she's going for lol

It's never a websites' fault, though SKG has a reputation for a higher instance of scam ads (not as bad as like listcrawler). Victim blaming doesn't really help though. To me, it sounds like he wants to play on the low end of the rate scale which is where you tend to run into more of the scams and too-good-to-be-trues. Reviews can be helpful, but not a cure-all. More than one lady with great reviews has said "fuck it" and kept a deposit or run down to her car to "put the money in her purse" never to be seen again.