So, two things

[sunshinelovely]

two things I want to discuss.

first topic: does anybody here use private delights? well.. I got banned from PD forum permanently because of some drama. they banned me saying I was causing dissent within the community. It's a long story but I got outed by some of the girls on there calling me a snitch saying I set a girl up then another girl said I sound more like an informant. A summed up story of why this is happening: I met a girl off humaniplex. She let me live with her while I was pregnant n working. She would throw orgy parties sometimes. Well the cops showed up at this party saying they had a noise complaint from one of the neighbors. My roommate was expecting me to lie to the cops but I'm an open book n a genuinely honest person n I ended up admitting that I was a sex worker n what I was doing at the party. I told le that I wasn't trying to out anybody out the party but just told a female cop the truth. I told her I wasn't comfortable staying at this apartment anymore since they got involved so they ended up getting me a room for the night until they could transfer me to a shelter. yes it was a trafficking shelter. they considered me trafficked because I was working to pay rent at that apartment. I know how all of this sounds but this is weighing on my mind. I didn't feel comfortable staying at that apartment with that girl n all her friends cause I knew I was probably the only one who told the truth n you know how people are towards le can be very hostile. So I'm getting bad ratings on humaniplex n even though my ad is still up on PD like I said they permanently banned me from the forum. All of this is weighing on my mind cause I feel like my presence on this board might be a problem if anybody eventually heard my story. So I'm just being upfront about it. Maybe I didn't know my rights as a sex worker. Maybe I didn't make the best move. I'll own up to that but I never set anybody up. Nobody even went to jail on the day I left. The only thing that happened was I left with le to go somewhere else. End of story. 

next topic..

... about STDs. question was a lil bit nosey, opened up about it.. I wrote about me having a life long disease that I'm medicated for. So I have hpv but I am on treatment for it that I take medication for everyday which prevents me from passing it to somebody if I were to get intimate. I explained this to hobby hobbit n basically he told me that its irresponsible n wrong of me to be in the game if I have that. I know that there are women or men out there who have hpv n don't tell anybody yet I get criticized for speaking on it. Just like I got criticized for speaking up on PD forum about my side of the story of what happened. 

So basically I wanted to discuss these two topics because I want to know other's thoughts on this. Are y'all going to call me a snitch n ruin my reputation as a provider?  Was I in the wrong? Do y'all think it's erroneous for me to be sex worker if I get treated for HPV?  Is my presence on the boards doomed? 

i want everybody's thoughts on this because if my reputation is just run to the ground from being honest then I don't see any reason to stick around anymore even though the escort boards are the only place I feel I belong...

also, this happened in California. the girl who let me stay with her did get evicted but as far as I know this happened later on down the road because she texted me to tell me that n ended it with a " PEACE SNITCH BITCH "  maybe it's my fault but definitely wasn't my intention..

I've noticed that the girls on PD who basically run the boards are very hateful n negative n full of demonic energy so I feel like it was kind of a blessing in disguise to be banned from that board. I just don't want the same thing to happen on here but I'm sure a lot of you aren't going to be cool with me after reading this unfortunately I'm too honest of a person. It's in my DNA.

Regardless what anybody thinks I will be respectful n not cause any dismay in the community so that I can stay on the forum. The only way I'm leaving is if I were to get banned. I've been a companion for 10 years n I've been thankful to be apart of the sex worker community. I hope some of y'all can relate n understand where I'm coming from n if not oh well. Much Love.

Guys I meant HSV not HPV. My bad. For anybody concerned I'm no longer working. Just on the boards for fun. 

please be kind and leave useful feedback. thank u.

[Hobby Hobbit -Banned]

7 hours ago, sunshinelovely said:

Guys I meant HSV not HPV. My bad. For anybody concerned I'm no longer working. Just on the boards for fun. 

Then take your ad down!

20 hours ago, sunshinelovely said:

two things I want to discuss.

first topic: does anybody here use private delights? well.. I got banned from PD forum permanently because of some drama. they banned me saying I was causing dissent within the community. It's a long story but I got outed by some of the girls on there calling me a snitch saying I set a girl up then another girl said I sound more like an informant. A summed up story of why this is happening: I met a girl off humaniplex. She let me live with her while I was pregnant n working. She would throw orgy parties sometimes. Well the cops showed up at this party saying they had a noise complaint from one of the neighbors. My roommate was expecting me to lie to the cops but I'm an open book n a genuinely honest person n I ended up admitting that I was a sex worker n what I was doing at the party. I told le that I wasn't trying to out anybody out the party but just told a female cop the truth. I told her I wasn't comfortable staying at this apartment anymore since they got involved so they ended up getting me a room for the night until they could transfer me to a shelter. yes it was a trafficking shelter. they considered me trafficked because I was working to pay rent at that apartment. I know how all of this sounds but this is weighing on my mind. I didn't feel comfortable staying at that apartment with that girl n all her friends cause I knew I was probably the only one who told the truth n you know how people are towards le can be very hostile. So I'm getting bad ratings on humaniplex n even though my ad is still up on PD like I said they permanently banned me from the forum. All of this is weighing on my mind cause I feel like my presence on this board might be a problem if anybody eventually heard my story. So I'm just being upfront about it. Maybe I didn't know my rights as a sex worker. Maybe I didn't make the best move. I'll own up to that but I never set anybody up. Nobody even went to jail on the day I left. The only thing that happened was I left with le to go somewhere else. End of story.

please be kind and leave useful feedback. thank u. 

 

And I can only imagine what your "honest admission" did for those in your presence! FUCK, you're dangerous.

[sunshinelovely]

I'm not sure how to take my ad down... I'll try to figure it out though. And I'm not a threat.. I can't control the way others perceive me. I'm actually disabled.. so no need to be disrespectful. I got the two medical terms confused... that was my bad. I don't have to work anymore thankfully. I just wanted others opinions and thoughts and I like to interact on the board even if I'm not in the scene anymore. Unless somebody can be understanding n wants to see me then I'd be open to it but I understand I'm gonna get criticized for speaking my mind. 

 

I don't want to be involved in a community with such hatred or be around anyone who even uses the word snitch. The hostility towards LE is pathetic. And I'm not a liar you just play it off like your nice but are actually just disrespectful.

it was not my intention to bring drama to the board with this thread I created. If it gets deleted I understand. I was honestly just curious on others thoughts n feelings on the subjects. My bad.

[Audrey Astor]

Sunshine… I mean no disrespect. You are shooting yourself in the foot. It may be a good idea to stay off the keyboard. Sometimes it’s better to read and view history of a board before typing away. This does sound like a bunch of drama.🙁.

[sunshinelovely]

no disrespect to you either. For one I'm not staying off the keyboard because I have freedom of speech to write as long as it goes within the boards guidelines. Just because others think I shouldn't of brought this to the board I don't see what's wrong with being open about it. If it's just drama then no need to participate in the thread. Obviously I didn't get any feedback and I understand these things are not the most comfortable things to talk about. Nobody probably wants to openly talk about it which is perfectly okay. I said what I wanted to say n I'm not gonna be ashamed about for publicly talking about it. I wanted people to know. I have to talk about these things before someone books an appointment with me or I might be asked about it in a private setting anyways so what difference does it make. I know that people talk. So  it honestly narrows down a lot of folks wanting to interact with me which is fine because I'm not for everyone. 

Edited October 3, 2022 by sunshinelovely

[sunshinelovely]

i want to say something n then I'm done with this topic n will not post on it anymore. I just want to get my post across before I move on from this thread. The criticism was expected. I'm pretty much an open book n open to talk on a lot of different topics blatantly . I felt like speaking my mind on two topics that had crossed my mind and came to the escort boards to discuss it even though I knew the boards can be full of negativity by its members. Maybe I should of just kept my mouth closed but oh well I did flag my own post cause I thought that I had stirred up some unwanted negativity when that wasn't my intention. I had no intention other then venting on what I thought was a safe place to express myself as an escort. No I'm not working n don't plan on it for a while but if I did go back to work it's nobody's business but mine. I will gladly inform anybody who wanted to see me of anything I think they should know. I don't deserve to be ridiculed for speaking on something openly when I KNOW there's girls in the scene with the same circumstance. I just get criticized for bringing it up. And banning me from the board for venting / speaking my mind would be biased even though I know some people would love for that to happen I've been respectful on this subject regardless of any of the negativity. I got banned on a previous board because I wasn't very nice about it but I learned my lesson. I do what I'm supposed to do to keep the community safe by informing, wearing protection n screening but you get into this knowing that there will always be some risk in this kind of work. I don't need to be looked down on for expressing myself n speaking on things nobody wants to talk about. I'm blessed to be apart of a community I can feel a sense of belonging to but after speaking on these things I feel unwanted in the community n it's hurtful because I've been in the scene for ten years n it's been a big part of my life. I'm just thankful to be here although I know others are not gonna like me in the community but that doesn't mean you have any more right to be here then I do. 

Edited October 4, 2022 by sunshinelovely

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

Sending reiki to you, @Sunshine Lovely

I am sorry for your bad Health and drama from others.  This world we are in is highly judgemental and very cruel at times! 

 Now that I have said that to you, and yes, you. have every right  to ignore our words of warning. Just understand the.forum is a place to gather information. It is not the place to rant about your personal and private life issues. @Audrey Astor is giving.you some incredible well intended advise. I know I, for one would hate to see you.go down that rabbit hole. I really enjoy what you have to say and I want to see you build your business too. We all make blunders! Just know if you need to vent, please do so privately with someone you trust and has your back. ❤️ Being an open book for those who care about you. These people are just now learning about you. Good impressions sometimes look a whole lot better with discernment. Know who you are sharing with first. Best wishes to you @Sunshine Lovely

❤️

 

Edited October 4, 2022 by Kali Sensual Reiki

[sunshinelovely]

4 hours ago, Audrey Astor said:

Sunshine… I mean no disrespect. You are shooting yourself in the foot. It may be a good idea to stay off the keyboard. Sometimes it’s better to read and view history of a board before typing away. This does sound like a bunch of drama.🙁.

 

21 minutes ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

Sending reiki to you, @Sunshine Lovely

I am sorry for your bad Health and drama from others.  This world we are in is highly judgemental and very cruel at times! 

 Now that I have said that to you, and yes, you. have every right  to ignore our words of warning. Just understand the.forum is a place to gather information. It is not the place to rant about your personal and private life issues. @Audrey Astor is giving.you some incredible well intended advise. I know I, for one would hate to see you.go down that rabbit hole. I really enjoy what you have to say and I want to see you build your business too. We all make blunders! Just know if you need to vent, please do so privately with someone you trust and has your back. ❤️ Being an open book for those who care about you. These people are just now learning about you. Good impressions sometimes look a whole lot better with discernment. Know who you are sharing with first. Best wishes to you @Sunshine Lovely

❤️

 

I know I said I wasn't going to post on this thread but I just wanted to say thank you to the vets n your advice n words are appreciated.