Posted June 9, 2021 I see many providers offer mild bdsm. Curious me would like to know what activities are included under that title. Tie and tease? Spanking? How often are these activities requested? Hmmm... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 10, 2021 I think it's exactly what you said. Tie up and tease, with some spanking. BDSM can get pretty rough and I'm not sure how many providers would feel comfortable inflicting that kind of pain on people. I once had a guy ask me if I would cage him up and leave him for a few days. I was like fuck that I'm not going to risk a kidnapping and possible manslaughter charge!! I'm sure those that do provide BDSM on the rougher side probably require some type of waiver to be signed. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 11, 2021 The one BDSM session I experienced (have to try everything at least once😀) involved a dom & switch couple. I played switch with the switch while the dom supervised. Limits agreed and safewords exchanges before ANY action. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 11, 2021 I would not be interested in the traditional femdom thing with leather, humiliation, gags and the like. I am intrigued by the possibility of being restrained, helpless and lovingly teased to insanity and an eventual huge release. Maybe just loosely bound with an enticing provider. blindfold optional. Quite titillating methinks. Pain free. Is this something I could realistically expect of some provider? Ever hopeful. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 12, 2021 like Animal roleplay, Breast torture Cock and ball torture, Erotic electrostimulation.Mild bdsm behavior is more acceptable to beginners because it is not as painful 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted June 12, 2021 8 hours ago, ameosy said: like Animal roleplay, Breast torture Cock and ball torture, Erotic electrostimulation.Mild bdsm behavior is more acceptable to beginners because it is not as painful Thanks for the clarification. I was thinking some kind of "light" or "safe" GFE had snuck into the BDSM world. And that would totally suck for you guys..... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 31, 2021 Toward one side there's "mild" BDSM , which incorporates exercises like tickling, utilizing a blindfold, binds your accomplice to the bedposts with silk scarves, slapping their back energetically, and setting verbal expectations, for example, "Call me Sir" or "Call me Madam." No aggravation. No power. Simply lively and pleasurable. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 31, 2021 A truthful, fairly detailed discussion is an absolute before any kind of BDSM. Expectations must be clearly stated and then agreed upon by both parties. There should never be suprises. The effects of any toys used should be explained and understood by both players. Restraints that allow quick release or easy, no struggle escape are a must. Only open hand light spanking. Once a blush begins to appear back off. Constantly talking to one another insurers both players are in tune wit one another. Be careful with her/him. Her/ his safety must always be at the core of your play. Another ABSOLUTE; the instant it stops be fun all activities must cease. I could go on but this is a good start. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 1, 2021 SAFE WORD!!! Or other STOP signals (dropped hankie) are a must for any legitimate BDSM. BDSM-Lite? Mild restraint, light paddling (open hand), blindfolds, tickling, teasing/edging, authoritative commands, verbal abuse, etc. All discussed and approved before the session begins. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 1, 2021 On 6/11/2021 at 6:28 AM, Bit Banger said: The one BDSM session I experienced (have to try everything at least once😀) involved a dom & switch couple. I played switch with the switch while the dom supervised. Limits agreed and safewords exchanges before ANY action. My safe word is Shazam! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 1, 2021 I got slapped in the face once and I was told it was mild bdsm… I loved it ! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 2, 2021 6 hours ago, Todoesprivado said: I got slapped in the face once and I was told it was mild bdsm… I loved it ! Not funny. Unfortunately Porn has defined the perception, expectations of any level of BDSM. Beginner, Mild , Experienced, Extreme are so misconstrued by porn and wanna be DOMs and abusers. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 3, 2021 On 9/1/2021 at 6:29 PM, oldertruckguy-9225 said: Not funny. Unfortunately Porn has defined the perception, expectations of any level of BDSM. Beginner, Mild , Experienced, Extreme are so misconstrued by porn and wanna be DOMs and abusers. Never intended for it to be funny. Just wanted to share. Even though it was not planned and not discussed beforehand, I really enjoyed it, and I’m glad that it happened as I’ll most likely never decide to try it. If you have to discuss every single rule beforehand kind of loses its charm, no? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 5, 2021 On 9/2/2021 at 10:53 PM, Todoesprivado said: … If you have to discuss every single rule beforehand kind of loses its charm, no? And if you don’t discuss limits beforehand, BDSM can get dangerous. Play safe! 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
