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Hi I just saw a fantastic provider and the session was all I could hope for. I used the information on her website that gave a specific amount for her time. well I was checking out the EB and saw that her rate on EB was lower...the same for P411...make no mistake I don't want my money back (she was that good) but is this common and if you see different amounts offered should you ask for clarification or does this fall under the category of not discussing prices?

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Yeah, it would be non-classy to call and ask for $$ back.

In the future, if you see different rates in different venues (something that is VERY common), tell her about the venue where you saw the lowest price. Example, if low price was EB:

"Hi, I saw your ad on escort boards. I'd like to make an appointment."

That way, she knows you will be expecting to pay that rate without making any comments about money.

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Hi I just saw a fantastic provider and the session was all I could hope for. I used the information on her website that gave a specific amount for her time. well I was checking out the EB and saw that her rate on EB was lower...the same for P411...make no mistake I don't want my money back (she was that good) but is this common and if you see different amounts offered should you ask for clarification or does this fall under the category of not discussing prices?

It's difficult enough to find someone who is truly "fantastic" and gave you a session that was "all I could hope for". Consider yourself very fortunate. As far as bringing the rate discrepancy between website, EB & P411 to her attention, if you're honest about it, I'm sure the two of you can come to an agreement for your next visit.

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Hi I just saw a fantastic provider and the session was all I could hope for. I used the information on her website that gave a specific amount for her time. well I was checking out the EB and saw that her rate on EB was lower...the same for P411...make no mistake I don't want my money back (she was that good) but is this common and if you see different amounts offered should you ask for clarification or does this fall under the category of not discussing prices?

Clarification Question: Are you saying her rate listed on P411 was lower than other venues? Some Ladies offer a discount to P411 members. Usually it helps if you send the appt request thorough P411. But if this isn't the case then I'll just shut up.

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I guess I wasn't very clear...it happens when I try to convey something through the written word. (I suck at writing) anyway her rate was lower both on EB and P411 (without a discount) then on her website. Like I said I'm not trying to get any money back I just want to know if in the future with her or other providers I should bring but discrepancies in rates from different sites.

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This has happened to me too. I just try to honor system it. Pay the price advertised at the time I really chose to schedule. Try mentioning the ad when you book. So something like "saw you on EB, let's have a date" so when you pay the EB price she's aware of what you're doing.

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When I'm setting up the appointment, I typically ask something like: "Just to avoid any confusion, what is the rate for an hour?" She gives me a number and I go with what she says. Bickering seems like it would be counterproductive. I've never had a problem asking and it makes me feel more comfortable.

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Hi I just saw a fantastic provider and the session was all I could hope for. I used the information on her website that gave a specific amount for her time.
To me, this is a two-part question. First, you went with the rate on her website believing this was her rate, possibly only rate offered. On this hand you did the right thing to pay the rate you saw.
well I was checking out the EB and saw that her rate on EB was lower...the same for P411...make no mistake I don't want my money back (she was that good) but is this common and if you see different amounts offered should you ask for clarification or does this fall under the category of not discussing prices?
The other part of the question is above. YES, it is common for ladies to use different pricing modules to see where her advertising traffic is coming from. Off the top of my head, I've never seen a lady's web rate lower than other venues she advertises. It may be the same, but don't recall it being lower. She may run a special on her website and will allude to it usually from her EB/P411/BP etc. ad.

This is where you have to do your homework and let the lady know you are responding to the ad (hopefully discounted one) when you schedule.

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.. YES, it is common for ladies to use different pricing modules to see where her advertising traffic is coming from. Off the top of my head, I've never seen a lady's web rate lower than other venues she advertises. It may be the same, but don't recall it being lower. She may run a special on her website ...

... or in daily advertising. I agree with all of the above.

Best practice: mention the ad source when booking the appointment, and confirming the current rate 'for an hour of her time'.

It also used to be common for ladies to use different name in various advertising venues to determine where their money is working hardest. This is less common today with cyber sleuths placing a negative value on several ladies leading back to the same phone#.

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When I'm setting up the appointment, I typically ask something like: "Just to avoid any confusion, what is the rate for an hour?" She gives me a number and I go with what she says. Bickering seems like it would be counterproductive. I've never had a problem asking and it makes me feel more comfortable.

That's what I do when there's rate confusion, however I make it a leading question. "Just double-checking ... I saw on BP your donation is XXX, right?" You obviously name the lowest advertised price.

If you make it an open-ended question you'll probably get the highest advertised price!

I do not see this as haggling, which a gentleman never does.

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yeah but the one screwing made the other worth it...lol...no complaints still smiling about that encounter

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Many times it's about deals, but also providers have old ads or rates. I saw a visiting provider that had one rate plastered everywhere but it was $100 more because she was visiting. I asked and it turned out well because I wouldn't have wanted to upset her and miss her the next time - definitely worth it!

Just look at it as a tip - she probably will and will make it good the next time too. But I almost always ask even if I've seen her a few times. There might be a special or she might have raised her rates, best to just make everyone happy (even if it costs a bit more its worth it, a few bucks is nothing to upset someone over).

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