Posted January 17, 2015 When I was a john, I would see a hookers but looking to find one that I hoped would be a regular. I only found 2 regulars in all the years. The second was found rather quickly after the first left the state. I don't feel that variety is for me but the comfort of a regular is best. I was not married so cheating was never an issue. My 2 regulars are still good friends and the last I see or talk to every day for the last 6 years and I haven't seen her professionally for over 3 years. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 18, 2015 I guess I missed the part where anyone mentioned cheating, or that seeing more than one "business woman" was cheating. I am one that prefers to repeat because I enjoy myself more when I feel like I kinda know the lady and her unique traits, abilities and inclinations. But I like to repeat with more than one and the word "cheat" never enters the picture. I know, a common assumption is that all johns are married, but it is a bad assumption. The only time I have screwed an escort while married was when I was married to one - except technically she was retired so not sure that counts! Oh yea, I understand all that and I wish I could say I did as good during my years as a husband but I can't. No, more than any thing my post was poking fun at the title of the poll choice. ...Happy hobbying... ...Crazy Horse... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 18, 2015 Interesting...in a hobby where cheating on wives and SOs is common place the results for the Loyalty is Royalty kind of surprised me. I understand the variety is the spice of life thinking and over the years I've had a number of ATFs that I saw almost exclusively but I'm having trouble wrapping my head around this concept of, I'm not going to cheat on the woman I'm cheating on my wife with. ...Happy Hobbying... ...Crazy Horse... Who suggested there was this degree of loyalty? I have my favorites (pleural) and don't plan on seeing any one escort exclusively. I do recall reading that certain hobbyists are hesitant to write reviews for fear their primary lady friends will see they've been unfaithful. Weird!! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 18, 2015 Yes, the good ones do seem to know how to make you feel special. True story to let you ladies know what simple man-sluts a lot of us are. One provider I've only seen a few times recently sent me a short email: "I've been thinking a lot about your cock, lately." That was it. Wow! A lady who thinks about something I think about every day! Seriously, I wouldn't be surprised if she sent the same email to most of her repeat clients. But it was a simple, suggestive, message out of the blue that struck me at just the right time. I made an appointment with her within a week. I have always thought that an act like that would scream, "I'm desperate, give me some business". And, I have always gone under the assumption that we should not contact clients, but rather wait for them to contact us. Of course there are times when we are thinking about "your cock or your tongue". As I mentioned in a previous posts, some of y'all are SUPER TALENTED. Hmmmm... given some of your posts, maybe I will act on these thoughts as well. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 18, 2015 (edited) I have always thought that an act like that would scream, "I'm desperate, give me some business". And, I have always gone under the assumption that we should not contact clients, but rather wait for them to contact us. Of course there are times when we are thinking about "your cock or your tongue". As I mentioned in a previous posts, some of y'all are SUPER TALENTED. Hmmmm... given some of your posts, maybe I will act on these thoughts as well. You're close. We had a couple of fun sessions. I think she read me correctly, in letting me know (whether desperate or not) that she wanted MY business. I'm not saying I'm the world's greatest lover, or that she's expressing undying love. But, it indicated to me that, as a client, perhaps I'm not as nasty as some. The personal note set her apart from the hundred or so ladies on EB and P411, many of them on my "to do" list, who clearly want SOME business. You see the difference? Now, some provisos. She knows I prefer communication by PM or email, and that I have no problem communicating that way. I think the ladies who master this kind of communication probably get more repeat clients. Edited January 18, 2015 by Laplace finished thought 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 18, 2015 I have always thought that an act like that would scream, "I'm desperate, give me some business". And, I have always gone under the assumption that we should not contact clients, but rather wait for them to contact us. It's flattering to get those e-mails/texts but I think you'd need to be selective about the recipients. Even the occasional e-mail about specials is OK by me - just good business. I know the poll isn't "scientific" but I'd bet the general trend is true. I'm kind of surprised at the amount of repeat behavior but I guess I'm in the minority class. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 19, 2015 Point taken - I guess a poll of providers about their client profiles will also paint a different picture. On the other hand, can we really assume we know what a "BP client" likes? Google "behavior client prostitutes" (use "search tools" to filter more recent results) for some interesting reading. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 25, 2015 I have to admit to be of two minds about this. (And not the little head vs the big head...though maybe it is?) There are three or four providers who comprise about 75 percent of my overall appointments. That group has changed over time for various reasons out of my control -- ladies leaving town or getting out of the business. The other 25 percent are visits to ladies on my "bucket list" and new providers (or at least new to me.) There is a lot to be said for establishing a connection with a provider and having that become more robust and fun over time. I very much like the three or four aforementioned ladies and they are the kind of people I could see being platonic friends outside of the "business." (That that would never happen.) But, I also like the "Who's behind Door #1?" aspect, too. Having been a complete hermit in college and grad school, then thoroughly monogamous -- always seeming to be in a long term relationship -- through my adult dating life, this detour (or permanent path, who knows?) has been an amazing experience. That said, I'm pretty buttoned-up when it comes to who I visit on that exploratory list, but I'm sort of always hoping that one of the will become someone with whom I (and she) would like to repeat. The 99% assumption from the sexting thread has me wondering. There are a lot of variables around repeat visits so this poll can't cover it all. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted January 25, 2015 Although I have often thought it to be odd in a hobby, I prefer a consistent companion. While I respect the various adventures of many of you, I tend to see the same woman. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
