Posted September 30, 2013 A thread from a couple days ago caught my attention. One of the complaints from do-gooders when a new club tries to open is that they're fronts for prostitution. I've spent a lot of time in strip clubs over the years. I've never had a dancer proposition me, and god knows I'd say yes to a bunch of them if I had the chance. It's always seemed to me that the safest place for a married woman to send her man was a strip club cause they were most assuredly going home alone. I figured if I had initials like NFL or NBA attached, or showed up in a Bentley, I'd be good to go, but I don't have either of those. So what am I missing here? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2013 A thread from a couple days ago caught my attention. One of the complaints from do-gooders when a new club tries to open is that they're fronts for prostitution. I've spent a lot of time in strip clubs over the years. I've never had a dancer proposition me, and god knows I'd say yes to a bunch of them if I had the chance. It's always seemed to me that the safest place for a married woman to send her man was a strip club cause they were most assuredly going home alone. I figured if I had initials like NFL or NBA attached, or showed up in a Bentley, I'd be good to go, but I don't have either of those. So what am I missing here? Absolutely nothing by my experience. You can show up at any strip joint in the state, with Benjamins literally falling out of all pockets, and you will not get laid. Period. You'll get a lot of offers for lap dances.....but your balls will be a deep shade of blue when you leave. If I were a married woman worried about my husband cheating.....a strip joint is the first place I'd send him. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2013 I've visited a LOT of strip clubs over the years and around the country. I would say the odds of "take out" are less than 0.01%. I really haven't visited the SC scene much since the Internet has made finding escorts so much easier. Back in the day, I would occasionally be successful in propositioning a stripper for after hours activities, but often it just led to me staying later than I expected, spending more than I planned, only to be stood up at the end of the evening. There were a few occasions where the headliner (weekly act) would hook on the side, day time or before show appointments. In Hong Kong it was a different story. You just bought the gals contract for the evening from the madam. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2013 [Missed the edit window] I think there are two factors: 1) Because of the Temperance League expects strippers to sell sex, LE keeps a very careful eye. But more importantly, the clubs (who have a significant capital investment to lose) keep an eye on the gals for fear of getting shut down by LE. The clubs have enough trouble keeping Mrs. Grundy from regulating them out of business w/o the hassles of pandering & brothel charges, too. 2) The difference between stripper & escort attitudes. We've seen this play out here on the board on a few occasions. When strip clubs were still burlesque, i.e. a stripper dancing on stage w/o customer interaction, they were more honest. The talent was paid by the house, who soaked the customers for admission and drinks. But with tipping and lap dances, stripping has become all about the con, about separating you from Benjamin w/o actually doing anything for you. They offer eye candy and not much else. Unlike honest escorts (even street walkers) who exchange service for payment. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2013 IN the Philly area there were several places where stuff happened inside the club. I never went to one because that does not sound relaxing to me, but they existed and were reviewed all the time on the net. I don't go to strip clubs because I don't like looking at women I can't have who are attempting to tease me. I'm a can do and want to do kinda guy! Anyway, I had one stripper approach me years ago. She began telling me that she gives the best bj out of anyone and that all the rest of the women in the club were angry lesbians. I found that story more interesting than the bj part (I could have used one), and kinda missed out that she wanted to provide extra services. We ended up in a long convo about the psychology of strippers. I'm kind of an intellectual moron sometimes. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2013 IN the Philly area there were several places where stuff happened inside the club. I never went to one because that does not sound relaxing to me, but they existed and were reviewed all the time on the net. ... There was a club in Chicago (40-45 years ago) with rooms in the basement. Gals stripped on stage, you asked the wait staff, and you got led behind a concealed door. I've seen similar operations more recently in Mexico. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2013 There was a club in Chicago (40-45 years ago) with rooms in the basement. Gals stripped on stage, you asked the wait staff, and you got led behind a concealed door. I've seen similar operations more recently in Mexico. Correct. There's lots of that stuff on the east coast. All of that seems too dangerous to me and not relaxing, but it's exactly what some people are looking for. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2013 (edited) Back in the 1980's I used to go to a dive strip club on Santa Fe drive where the strippers were one-step away from hooking. Occasionally, there were some jems that worked there. It took a lot of tips and many visits before I got in with one stripper who agreed to hooking up with me outside the club. She was a Julia Stiles lookalike (yummy). Once in, she would let me know who was turning tricks and she'd vouch for me with them. Good times. ;) Never tried other strip clubs tho. Edited September 30, 2013 by Nightrain copyright enfrigement 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2013 Correct. There's lots of that stuff on the east coast. All of that seems too dangerous to me and not relaxing, but it's exactly what some people are looking for. Not any more dangerous than visiting an AMP here in Denver. The privacy aspects are about the same as an NV brothel. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2013 It took a lot of tips and many visits before I got in with one stripper who agreed to hooking up with me outside the club. She was a Julia Stiles lookalike (yummy). Once in, she would let me know who was turning tricks and she'd vouch for me with them. Good times. ;) Never tried other strip clubs tho. How ironic, now she's an escort : http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=julia+stiles+blue&oq=julia+stiles+blue&gs_l=youtube.12...0.0.0.21828.0.0.0.0.0.0.0.0..0.0...0.0...1ac..11.youtube. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2013 There use to be a strip club called Boogie Down that has this reputation but I never experienced anything to lead me to believe there was any truth to the rumors. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2013 (edited) There use to be a strip club called Boogie Down that has this reputation but I never experienced anything to lead me to believe there was any truth to the rumors. First had experience, the rumors were true. My favorite was Stormy. She was the one with the spider web tattooed on her ass. Edited September 30, 2013 by inkspot Additional reference to spiders. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2013 How many times a year does the Denver Post or Chanel 9 News do a story on the latest prostitution sting in some local club though? Sorry for the monkey wrench. I agree with everyone else's experience, but have to think that I just haven't broken the code yet. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 30, 2013 Not any more dangerous than visiting an AMP here in Denver. The privacy aspects are about the same as an NV brothel. Agreed. The other day I read about a guy, not around here, who goes into AMPs and regular ones and attacks the women working there, or getting massages. Between freaks like that wandering around and LE, no thanks. Until I get my own Iron Man armor, I'll still to private locations. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2013 How many times a year does the Denver Post or Chanel 9 News do a story on the latest prostitution sting in some local club though? Sorry for the monkey wrench. I agree with everyone else's experience, but have to think that I just haven't broken the code yet. Huh? I have NEVER seen any published info on a prostitution sting at a strip club, that I recall. Feel free to post a link if I'm wrong. I recall seeing stories about LE raiding clubs, and busting girls for letting guys touch them. Yes, lap dances are technically not legal, same with tipping the hip. I've hooked up with a few strippers, but the cost was 5 times, or more, than an escort. It was always me who initiated, and it was not worth it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2013 Enough said...... http://redroom.com/member/precious-williams/blog/an-education-ivy-league-hookers (Celine, a 20 year-old Economics undergraduate at New York University (NYU) has never had a pimp and she never walks the streets (she takes cabs everywhere instead) – but she is a fully-fledged hooker. In between lectures at NYU she gets paid $300 an hour for sex with strangers who are old enough to be her father.) Celine’s attitude is not unique. A new breed of university students in America are going on the game in order to live out their college years in style. These students-for-hire don’t have drug habits or money issues (they all come from comfortable middle-class homes) and they are not yearning to be rescued 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2013 I don't know why my experiences are different than most of those who replied to the OP, but I've had luck over the years with several strippers from some of the clubs around Denver. And I don't own a Bentley, nor do I have Benjamins hanging out of my pockets--but I was a regular in a couple of the clubs, and I guess the girls just trusted that I was a good guy. That being said, I haven't been in a strip club in several years, having found out about this board. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2013 I've hooked up with a few strippers, but the cost was 5 times, or more, than an escort. It was always me who initiated, and it was not worth it. +1 Before I found the hobby I was a regular at strip clubs. It was very rare, much more expensive and not worth it. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2013 Huh? I have NEVER seen any published info on a prostitution sting at a strip club, that I recall. Feel free to post a link if I'm wrong. Denver's top strip clubs as a cover ... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2013 Wow! I'm gonna fix my pickup to look like a Ferarri, and change my name to "Pudding Pops." Then maybe I can score at strip clubs! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2013 I got laid by two strippers, and was propositioned by another to be her sugar daddy. I also got lots of phone numbers. The strippers were from the old Mile High Saloon, I was literally in love with each of them, and the sugar baby was from Shotguns. She still works there, as a matter of fact. We'd sit in the corner while I fingered her all night. Haven't been around those places much since I stopped drinking 6 years ago. I was liking the booze more than the girls after a while! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2013 Wow! I'm gonna fix my pickup to look like a Ferarri, and change my name to "Pudding Pops." Then maybe I can score at strip clubs! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2013 Does that come with a katana? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2013 Here in Denver I have: 1. Performed oral sex on a handful of strippers in clubs 2. Had full-on intercourse with a stripper, in the club 3. Been propositioned by a stripper to come see her at her incall after she got off from work. That latter incident made me ask "WTF is an incall?" do a little research, stumble upon TOB, and the rest, as they say, is history. As exciting as all that was, let me tell you, I received much, much more mileage during my first escort appointment, than I ever found in 25 years of trolling strip clubs. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2013 How ironic, now she's an escort : http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=julia+stiles+blue&oq=julia+stiles+blue&gs_l=youtube.12...0.0.0.21828.0.0.0.0.0.0.0.0..0.0...0.0...1ac..11.youtube. Yep, thing is I knew my "Julia" long before the real Julia achieved her fame. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2013 I got laid by two strippers, and was propositioned by another to be her sugar daddy. I also got lots of phone numbers. The strippers were from the old Mile High Saloon, I was literally in love with each of them, and the sugar baby was from Shotguns. She still works there, as a matter of fact. We'd sit in the corner while I fingered her all night. Haven't been around those places much since I stopped drinking 6 years ago. I was liking the booze more than the girls after a while! I finally get it. Always wondered why guys would "buy a dancer off the list", pay a bunch of money to sit and talk. Should have known they weren't just talking. I'm not usually that dim. Really. I'm not. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2013 This is from a guy that spent a lot of years as a DJ working in strip clubs A lot of people think that it is easer to get the drive through window chick at the fast food place your going to hit after the strip club then the girl you just saw naked. NOT TRUE!!!! In this entry I will let you in on the secrets of getting that dream stripper you always wanted. This is not an instant thing, I DO NOT promote using any kind of date rape drug or drugs of any kind. That’s cheating!!! Besides, the dancers can’t leave the club without a male staff escort so how the hell would you get them out of the club? Don’t try it, you’ll just end up getting arrested, or getting the crap kicked out of you. Other things to avoid, this is very important and I know these things because I worked in a strip club for over 10 years and have heard all the complaints from the dancers about the customers. #1-DON’T BE A CHEAPSCATE. If you want to spend any time with the girls, you will have to spend money!!!! Not a lot at first and truthfully some dancers you won’t need to spend any but this is not for those guys that have “the look” is it. Buy her at least one drink and make sure to tip her on stage. If the dancer feels she will make money with you or you will at least get her drunk, you already have a better chance then all the other guys in the club. #2-DO NOT CRY ON HER SHOULDER. This is her job, she should be the one complaining about shit to YOU, not the other way around. The more you listen the better chance you have of getting to know her. Trust me, the more drinks she has in her the more she will bitch, so refer back to #1 #3-TOUCHING YOU GOOD, TOUCHING HER BAD. When she feels comfortable with you she will start touching you. Not grabbing your dick or some shit like that, but arms, legs ect… This is not an invite for you to start grabbing her tits, but if she tries to hold your hand go for it. Your that much closer. #4-DON’T EXPECT IT TO HAPPEN ON THE FIRST VISIT. Remember, she is there to make money. It may take a few trips to the club before she really opens up to you and decides that she would rather hang out and get drunk with you than deal with the other customers. At this point, you may be only committed to buying her drinks rather that have to tip her, if so you have done a good job!!! #5-DON’T BE A STALKER. While I say that it will take a few trips to the club, I don’t mean everyday. At this point your not the cool guy she looks forward to seeing, but the creepy guy who has no life who she would rather avoid. You would not be the first stalker and definitely not the last. And finally #6 DON’T GO TOO FAR OVER YOUR HEAD. Let’s be honest, if you shoot for the stars your just going to miss or ending up spending a butt load of money and a dancer that is way out of you league. Simple formula, if you’re a 5 on a scale from one to ten go for a 5,6 or 7. If you’re a 2 or 3, well… find the club in your town where strippers go to die (or the scankist club in town) and try there. But no more than 2 notches is pretty fail proof. Stay away from the most expensive club in town. These women are total bitches and are there looking for the millionaire sugar daddy’s, so unless your one of them, stay away. Your trying to get laid not married. Ok so now you know what not to do so here is what you should do. These are some pretty easy tasks and after you read this you will think to yourself well DUH……. #1- GET A JOB AT A STRIP CLUB. This is the easiest way to nail a stripper, period!!!!!!! DJ’s and Bartenders have the best chance because they interact with the girls the most but, bouncers and bar staff will get the trickle down effect. If you work there long enough, you have a chance of getting a lot more than one, trust me on this!!!! OK, no time for that then….. #2- BE YOURSELF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Most strippers don’t care if you’re a superhero or make ten million dollars a year (if you do then what the hell are you doing in a strip club). Outside of the club these are very normal girls for the most part, yes you have your drug infested dancers but they really are few and far between. They do laundry, go to the grocery store and pay bills just like the rest of us. They usually don’t lead any kind of extraordinary lives so you don’t have to either. #3- DON’T LIE!!!!!!!!!!! Listen, if your going to end taking her home some night, don’t make up stuff about yourself, she will easily find out soon enough that you full of shit! #4- MAKE HER LAUGH A LOT. Most strippers I know, as stated before, live very normal lives. If she can come to work, hang out with you and laugh her ass off and get drunk all at the same time, you might as well already be fucking her right there and then. #5- DAY SHIFT-KIDS NIGHT SHIFT-NO KIDS. Keep this in mind for when you decided to try this. If you can deal with the single mom day shift is for you. If not, go at night. #6- AVOID WEEKENDS. The less people in the club the better chance you have, simple math. #7- BREAKFAST IS GOOD!!!!!! If all is going well then you will inevitability be asked if you would like to go to breakfast after the club closes. It will usually be with more dancers from the club. This is your time to shine. If you can make sure none of the other dancer think you weird or creepy and you make everyone at the table fell comfortable around you most likely your in!!! Congrats!!!! But, if all you get at the end of the meal is a hug and an “I’ll see you next time,” you have been firmly planted in the FRIENDS ZONE. Move on, really I’m not kidding, don’t even try. You’re her friend, either deal with it or spend a lot more money trying to convince her otherwise. MOVE ON!!!!!! #8- LEAVE YOUR EMOTIONS AT THE DOOR. Your trying to get laid. Trust me, getting emotionally involved is a BAD idea. Don’t be a dick, but don’t get to close, enough said. And finally!!! #9- 3 MONTHS TOPS - Ok, so you end up dating or fucking a stripper, which you will if you follow my rules. Three months is about as long as you will hold on to her because that’s about all the attention span she has. If you part ways, DO NOT immediately go back to the same club and try to get another one. The rumors about you are nasty!!!!! Stay away from that one for awhile. This will work 98% of the time if you are calm cool and collected. Don’t rush and it will happen….. a lot. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2013 Ashlar, so much good info! And so true. I always wanted to own a strip club. My wife wasn't keen on the idea, but I teased her for years about it. She's a good sport. It's gotta be a tough job, don't you think, owning one and dealing with the girls and assholes who come in? If anyone wants to read a good book about strip clubs and strippers, try Still Life with Brass Pole. I got it on Amazon Kindle for a couple of bucks. I never bought a girl off the list. I just spent a fortune paying for lap dances. I remember one night at the Penthouse club where I had three girls dancing for me upstairs, in the nude room, all at once. We all had a blast, and I got about a dozen free passes from the manager! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2013 Good tips Ashlar, but the #1 tip: GO TO THE RIGHT CLUB. Some clubs are going to be very strict and clean, some less so, but if getting your tip wet is the goal, then your odds are much better if you go to a club where this thing happens more often. There are review sites on the internet where you can find clues. Your approach also needs to be different if you're looking to seduce a woman or just bang one. Seduction can happen anywhere, at a strip club or supermarket, if you have the skills and the talents, and I think that's mainly what your post is describing. Banging just requires finding the hookers masquerading as strippers. For me, an escort is a 100% better option even with the horrible times I've had on Backpage recently. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2013 Banging just requires finding the hookers masquerading as strippers. For me, an escort is a 100% better option even with the horrible times I've had on Backpage recently.AnD stay away from the strippers masquerading as hookers.... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
