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Read this weeks issue of Westword. Cover story is about a local preacher who regularly targets women in his congregation. He's on his 3rd church. He's banging 3 or 4 women at a time, leading them on, breaking it off, getting back together cause they're the one true one. Some are single, some married, from the pix all really good looking.

Him I get. Horny skirt chasing dirtbag. Seen them my whole life.

What I don't get is the women. All seem to rush in to be used. Some jeopardize marriages. I treat the escorts I meet here with far more respect. And those are at least honest relationships.

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The Lord screws in mysterious ways.

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You know, I used to ask myself the same question.

Jumping from one bad relationship to the next. Not thinking, the issues were with me but rather my partner. My biggest issue, was the fact that I wasn't happy but rather seeking someone to make me happy. Once the whole, "magic" wore off, I would, "fall out of love" and move on to the next one. So if one of these ladies could have been in my old habits. Open and willing to be hurt emotional just to know you are alive.

Another big issue, money. Money is power. Most every woman has a desired to be pampered and treated like a queen; and have the money to go with the title. Being a preacher there is some money there. In some cases, more than others. So there is a chance that some of these women thought they were going to be queen of the church ground, please, don't ask. Only to find themselves pushed aside for someone else.

Another thing, which would be VERY sleazeball-ish of this guy would be to say, "God wants this to happen".... There are people who would believe this....

Good find :)

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Every religious person I met managed to disappoint me . I met the last one just a year ago and I thought this one prove me wrong until few days ago....I am amazed !

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"Once you figure out woman make no sense then they make complete sence."-some douch bag.

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"Once you figure out woman make no sense then they make complete sence."-some douch bag.

I love it , sorry xx chromosomes , just yesterday a woman almost begged me to see her on the phone , then she did not show the fuck up.....not even a phone call to cancel.

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Interesting thing about the money. Said at one church this guy made $10K a month. So much for getting your riches in heaven.

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Every religious person I met managed to disappoint me . I met the last one just a year ago and I thought this one prove me wrong until few days ago....I am amazed !

Religion does not equal morality, that is for sure. Religion was the primary justification for slavery for a LONG time. List goes on.

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There seem to be a lot of women out there who are desperately searching for a guy who will treat them as badly as possible. I don't understand it either.

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Maybe the good preacher is selling indulgences. :rolleyes:

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Men and women are not so different....Men will rush in over and over with women who treat them like dirt, women will rush in with men who treat them like dirt. Oddly, show a man a woman who will take care of his children, cook his meals and take care of him sexually.....and it is NOT ENOUGH! Show a man who will take care of his children, mow the lawn, and take care of his woman....and it is not enough! There will always be women lavishing attention on the rude a$$hole, and there will always be men lavishing attention on the bi^tch who uses.....It would seem that MOST people like to be used, and it is a MINORITY who want an equal relationship.

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Men and women are not so different....Men will rush in over and over with women who treat them like dirt, women will rush in with men who treat them like dirt. Oddly, show a man a woman who will take care of his children, cook his meals and take care of him sexually.....and it is NOT ENOUGH! Show a man who will take care of his children, mow the lawn, and take care of his woman....and it is not enough! There will always be women lavishing attention on the rude a$$hole, and there will always be men lavishing attention on the bi^tch who uses.....It would seem that MOST people like to be used, and it is a MINORITY who want an equal relationship.

i don't know if people exactly like to be used, but maybe feel in some way they deserve it and will put up with all sorts of ridiculous crap from the object of their affection. there are definite similarities between the sexes about this.

and while it's still a mystery to me why and how it happens so often - yet alone that it happens at all - the pattern seems to be about the same. user is either gorgeous/charismatic/skilled-endowed or any combination. usee falls madly in love before really knowing the person, so is vulnerable to whatever user's game is. usees typically have the money or whatever and user gets it out of them. usee's low self-esteem usually plays into it as well so they feel trapped, embarrassed, etc. a white knight gallops up to attempt a rescue, but sometimes the victim still goes back for more and the cycle begins again.

also - when does being used become being abused

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Read this weeks issue of Westword. Cover story is about a local preacher who regularly targets women in his congregation. He's on his 3rd church. He's banging 3 or 4 women at a time, leading them on, breaking it off, getting back together cause they're the one true one. Some are single, some married, from the pix all really good looking.

Him I get. Horny skirt chasing dirtbag. Seen them my whole life.

What I don't get is the women. All seem to rush in to be used. Some jeopardize marriages. I treat the escorts I meet here with far more respect. And those are at least honest relationships.

It seems like he's the progeny of Renaissance Popes. Good for him!

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