• Content count

  • Joined

  • Last visited


About LuckyJack777

  • Rank
    Learning My Way

Profile Information

  • Gender
  1. Renewing References

    Thanks for the suggestion Audrey. Too bad that doesn't work. You made my point precisely, gr8owl. We could really use that feature. I hope to see it in the next update.
  2. Renewing References

    I'm curious, is there any way to renew you references on TOB if you have seen a provider more recently than the original reference shows?
  3. My Rant…

    That's too bad. Alas, it's all part of the experience. Sounds like you made the most of it though. I once was once cancelled with 15 minutes notice by someone I hadn't seen before. For a couple of minutes I sat annoyed in my car thinking why didn't I pay more attention to those two no-show reviews and wondering what am I going to do with the rest of my day. Then my phone buzzes with a text. I look down expecting to see some lengthy excuse but instead it is a message from one of my out of town favorites, " Hey, I just flew into town. Let me know if you want to get together ;)". Skeptically, I text back "Are you free in 30 minutes?" She replies "I sure am!" So, chuckling, I throw the car back into drive and head down a different road which, ultimately, led me to one of my all time favorite sessions. It must have been fate...
  4. Asking a provider to be a reference

    I don't think there really is any official protocol because everyone is different but Bella Marie's point about being respectful and courteous is the key. Make sure you treat her well when you meet her. After all, she is only going to provide a reference if she has a positive experience. You are not likely to offend by asking for a reference after seeing someone. This whole scene is built on reputation and references and if someone agreed to see you without a reference they will likely understand that you are looking to establish yourself. Some ladies might even offer to be a reference without be asked. On the other hand, some people are uncomfortable giving out references or are very cautious about it. So you should always ask before using someone as a reference. If they agree to be a reference, it's a good idea find out how they would like to be contacted so that you don't give out contact info that your reference does not want to share. Many providers won't just give out info about you to anyone who calls so it is also important to let them know who they should expect to contact them. You could certainly ask the next day with a polite text message, especially if it makes you feel a bit awkward. If you had a great time with your visit then it might be lots of fun to visit her a few times until you feel comfortable enough to ask. But most likely there is no harm in asking about being a reference at the end of a meeting. You will surely need more than one reference in the future so it might even be helpful to ask for advice on getting more. If you are lucky she might recommend you visit her friend. Then you will get to see a trustworthy provider, gain another reference and have another nice evening. Worst case, if she doesn't provide references then she will let you know. If so accept it and move on. Providing a nice review is a good gesture and she might appreciate it. Again, you should probably ask first as not everyone cares for reviews. It's not good form to write a review just to get a reference as reviews should be sincere and informative but if you had a good experience and want to share, that can go a long way to building a good reputation with her. In the end, she is going to be more inclined to give good and timely references to someone she likes.
  5. Who's going to the EXXXOTICA expo?

    Hahahah! Nice link Keyser... Let's see if you can pull off a good Rick-Roll next time.
  6. 411 on Sweetmyapie

    Welcome to the board Sweetmyapie!
  7. 411 on Sweetmyapie

    Well then, good luck Happy Camper!
  8. 411 on Sweetmyapie

    Sweetmyapie 504-345-1973 Colorado Escort Does anyone know Sweetmyapie? She just started up on the board.
  9. 411 on gabriellaxoxo

    gabriellaxoxo 619-253-1097 Colorado Escort Does anyone know about gabriellaXOXO? Not very many reviews. Just curious if anyone has met her before?
  10. Newbie

    Welcome to the Mile High city! Make yourself at home and stay a while...
  11. hey all!!

    Welcome! I hope you had a happy Halloween.
  12. Dinner Dates

    You crack me up. Awesome stories and good info. Thanks everyone!
  13. Is it creepy??? Part 2

    I have always found that people like to have their tattoos noticed and smile when I mention it. Usually they will tell me about its meaning. It's a chance to share something they are proud of. Just don't ask annoying questions like "Did it hurt to get that Tattoo done?" They will almost always have a snarky reply.
  14. FBSM for my wife and I

    I hope you find that list, Nikki. Do share...
  15. Dinner Dates

    I find the dinner date options intriguing from some providers. How many of you have done the dinner dates? Is it fun? Is it worth it? What do you consider a fair price? What types of places do you go to for dinner? How long do you spend at dinner? How much do you spend on dinner? Best providers for it? Anyone ever run into someone they know while out? Tell me your tales...