TrystinTrimble

Hey Everyone! I am making this post to warn other providers about a fake client who contacted me. He opened by asking me to price a three hour outcall to him, which I did. Then he wanted to send me a deposit and wanted me to receive it only by Zelle, which I did not have. But he was insistent on it being only by Zelle so I ended up setting up a Zelle. Then he said he sent the deposit but he really had sent a fake Zelle email to my email address to "verify my identity." The email address is "Zellepaymentshelp@gmail.com" so I then googled the provided number from the email and sure enough it is linked to a phishing scam where they are then able to gain info needed to break into your accounts once you call the number to verify your identity. I didn't get that far so didn't get scammed but I know it has to have worked in the past so I am just letting y'all know what happened to me and to watch out for it. A real email from Zelle will have an address like "customerservice@zelle.com" and not a Gmail. Also if you are to receive a deposit through any means it should post immediately on its own without requiring you to call a strange number. Just keep your eyes open and be careful. I am glad I got suspicious before anything bad happened to me.

Oh yeah, I'm with ya on that one...

I definitely prefer not to be addressed as one lol

Okay I'm ready to share now...I'm gonna go with... When a guy who I have just been messaged by for the first time ever, sends me a shirtless photo I didn't ask for with face showing, then messages me saying "ok babe now it's your turn!" ---like,no. It's not. Quit being manipulative lol... Most of all though...is when a hobbyist or honestly, ANYONE. texts me and it says "Hey do you wanna CUM over?" It just makes my eye twitch. For a career hoe, I sure have no love for the word Cum. Just spell it right please 😬

Necessity being the mother of all inventions...I'm seeing an opportunity to invent...elbow condoms.

Whoa! Now there's an answer LOL

What's that lil thing that provider/hobbyist could do that just gets on y'all's nerves?! I'll post my answer in a minute when I decide what mine is LOL

I read this at first and thought to myself... "Yeah right. I'm all about that yen, money on my mind baby!" You know, like one of those rap guys' girlfriends.😆 Realistically, if I self defined around money, I'd have my self esteem down in the shitter--cause I've honestly been light in the wallet for most of my life and I cannot have my self worth tied in with my net worth without being constantly in self doubt. Money comes and goes, but I've got finery running through my veins baby! 🍾 As Prof would say, I'm the shit bitch, can I get a witness!?!?

I am in my 23rd year as a provider (where has the time gone!?) and feel truly qualified to opine on this burning question. I cannot speak for everyone and I am aware that for some people, this path has been their prison and something they were forced into, straight up. I feel for them immensely, because I can't imagine being forced by some monster to do this and then not even getting PAID as an additional kick in the teeth...that situation sounds truly awful! I wouldn't wish forced sexual slavery upon even my worst enemy and it's infuriating to know that somewhere in the world, some woman or even minor is suffering from it as we speak. This world has its fair share of evil and parasitic people doesn't it? For ME...I have had a better experience than a lot of people who took this path. A lot of my good outcomes were only good because of sheer LUCK. Plenty of it is likely from good decisions I made when I had multiple options to in choose from. My bad experiences have been some VERY hard lessons for me and I TRY to learn from any poor decisions I have ever made here. What I do know is that if not for my time spent as a provider, I would have had such a limited existence and my world would be WAY smaller for me. I was not born into any privilege that would have had me hit the ground running and I grew up in pretty much constant poverty, with dysfunction all around me. Opportunities to break out of both of those things were pretty uncommon and any brains I had were usually held against me or overshadowed by all the best stuff being well out of reach. In rural Texas being born with the wrong last name is enough to turn cowboy boots into concrete shoes, but I burned with a desire to rise above it somehow and swore I would never stop trying to do better and level up. At 18, I knew that what I had go in my for me the most was that I was born sexy and was a woman. Plenty of my influences had let me not forget that what I brought to the table started with curves and ended with my ability to graciously be objectified and looked at for what I could do to make a man feel stimulated as well as good about himself. I knew I had more than that but I also knew that no one cared how well little old me could do anything except look pretty and get naked. I decided early on to capitalize on that societally imposed reduction of my value and NEVER be sorry for doing so! I'm more or less better off for it as of my early 40's. I have traveled quite a good bit and done so mostly by myself. I finished my schooling with maybe $2000.00 in student loan debt (just textbooks for a couple semesters). It was paid off within 4 months after that. Moving my venue from Craigslist/Chatlines to Eccie/P411/Private word of mouth was LIFE-CHANGING for me. Ten years ago and halfway through my journey (so far) as a provider I picked up and moved from Texas to Colorado to live permanently, having never visited here before and having like 2 acquaintances here and zero else. No job interview lined up. No Fiance. No experience with harsh winters. No concrete reason, even. Without this provider life, I don't think doing all that would have been possible or conceivable to me. I came from a family that didn't appreciate me and never really encouraged me to do anything risky or lofty. What I have NOW can all go away in a day if the chips fall where they shouldn't and I know I will be ok anyway because wherever I am on the map, this CAREER of mine will be as well. My street smarts and my resourcefulness, along with the male gaze and urges, cannot be taken way from me by any one person or unlucky event. Empowering to me? Not exactly. All that empowerment comes from inside me and nearly all my limitations come from the same place in me. But being a provider has definitely helped to afford me the level of freedom I currently enjoy and it also allowed me to provide my then-ailing mom with a worry free retirement up until her death for nine years. Now it makes me able to provide for my daughter and still have lots of time to give her my undivided attention and truly be present. It has a million times over, been my ticket out of the rooms I didn't choose to be born already locked inside of. It's too bad that not everyone who does this gets to benefit the way I have, because when it all goes the way it should, it gives a woman the things it takes to go further in life and often faster. When it's used by bad people to control vulnerable people, it earns the stigma it carries and leaves those exploited people traumatized and ashamed of who they are . I wish all women who do this could benefit as much as have. I am humbled repeatedly by the realization that I am blessed.

Your fears could be valid. Right before I went to post a listing, I realized that autocorrect had changed the word "INCALLS!" to "INCEST!", in the title, without me even asking it to! It would appear the uprising has begun! 🙀😝😬

Lately, what a time waster has become to me, is when someone messages me at length about the logistics of a meeting they appear to definitely want...only to then try to make me sell myself to them all over again by requiring even more photos and wanting me to agree to all kinds of explicit stuff before they will finalize our excursion. I don't mins being asked my rates cause they're not posted, but do not ask me to convince you to book with me or say my photos are insufficient. If one feels my photos are not sufficient I would prefer to not be contacted to begin with. I am open to reasonable questions. Unreasonable ones are a pet peeve and lately I just quit answering any questions that I already have answered in my sales pitch or profile.

Johnny, fckin AGREED! Now im not at all the type to believe that simply being older than a person I'm interacting with makes me entitled to immediate and unquestionable deference; but I get sick of finding myself in a position where I'm having to defend my viewpoints because the chick that is literally HALF my age that is talking down to me like I'm entirely too stupid to function without her to guidance; won't stop trying to push her opinions onto me like they're facts. The shelter director was middle-aged like me, but the girl working the front reception there was exactly that type that you just mentioned, and now I know where she got it from if that woman's her boss 😄 I'll go ahead and admit, it's extra infuriating getting a snap judgment from a stranger when that stranger could literally be my daughter. Part of what made this situation sucks so much was that the woman basically passing judgment on me with no point of reference, did it in front of a room full of people and those people were all that young type that you just described. It's really not for the best that she just taught 10 people that she's a leader of, the worst way to deal with a person as a professional. For a person who has a leadership role, everything she said to me was all the worst things for them to be taught as correct, not to mention very humiliating for me.

Oh yeah, I'm willing to give her all the time that she needs. The main thing that I was unhappy about in this situation was the dishonesty on the part of the director for the shelter and not being genuine about allowing me to adopt the second one. I also thought it was awfully crappy of her to try to have the first one taken away from me when I told the public about how she treated me. I love animals and would never mistreat one. She just wanted to punish me for letting people know that she is a liar if they happen to read the reviews for the place before they go or adopt. But I told no lies in my review and she earned it fair and square!

This topic I'm about to bring up is not hobby related. I love hearing y'all's perspectives on things and that's why I'm posting it here. The story I'm about to relay is something that is currently happening to me and all firsthand. All organizations involved will be left unnamed just in case of blowback. So here goes: So, I recently decided I was ready to seek out a new pet after having lost my last one two years ago to death. I wound up in a nonprofit shelter that operates in this state, a smaller one. After a couple weeks of visiting I found two animals I was interested in, and after having my application approved, started the adoption process. One animal was ready to be taken and I was told the second one would be ready inside of a week and I was promised both animals as no one had placed the other one on hold yet. With the understanding that I was going to adopt both of them, I went ahead and adopted the first one and took it home with me. Once I got the first one home, I got them settled in with their needed supplies and let them free in the house to explore their new surroundings. Once I was a few days in, I was starting to see problems with the the first one that were unexpected. Long story short, I don't think the story I was given about the animals history with people is true and aside from their eating and bathroom habits being normal and acceptable the animal was behaving as if it had zero acclimation to people and was/is extremely fearful of my partner and I. Disappointing, but not the end of the world I guess. They did bite me full on and drew blood on my hand simply from being offered a treat. They also are hiding as if their life depends on not being found or seen. Anytime I do seek them out just to make sure they are okay, they are immediately tearing off to a new place to hide. At this point I did not intend to bring them back to the shelter because I do respect an animals individual feelings and needs and they aren't being destructive or aggressive other than that one bite I received when I approached them. So I decided to give it time and stayed in contact with the shelter to get the other animal adopted as well. The second one and I had connected instantly and I was looking forward to having them join our home too.... However, the shelter director began changing her story to me, and now all of a sudden she was telling me that the second animal was no longer going to be adopted to a home with any other animals. Since the first one seems to be basically feral, I indicated to them that these things were going on and as such, why not have me bring the first one back so I could proceed with the second one since I had really had my heart set on the second one primarily and had adopted the first because I was also promised the second? At this point she got real snippy with me and said returning the first one would make me ineligible to adopt any other animal, period. I guess that would seem appropriate in most cases. But since I had been told the first animal was acclimated to people and that wasn't true, I didn't feel that I was wrong for requesting that arrangement. I even had offered to pay a new adoption fee so that the first one could be adopted out for someone less fortunate if they wanted him, or it could count as just an extra donation to them. Still not good for her though and I got her to say flat out that the real deal was that she had no intention of letting ME have THAT animal and that she had the power to say whatever she wanted to me and owed me no follow through. At that point I expressed my disappointment and said I didn't appreciate being manipulated and lied to and told her I wouldn't have taken the first one if I knew it would hinder me getting the second one and that I feel tricked about the first one. She said she didn't care and then said I should bring back and forfeit the first one if I didn't really want it, to which I replied that I would go ahead and keep them since it's not their fault the shelter director is a liar and they aren't causing problems anyway so I'll give them all the time they need to be my pet and get comfortable. But, omw out I did make it known to her that I was offended by the dishonesty and that she had intentionally misrepresented the one I did take home knowing full well she was gonna renege on in the second because she knew what I wanted to hear that day. But whatever. I left and left a negative review on the shelter about my experience with this woman and warned others not to believe what they were told without evidence or getting it in writing. We have freedom of speech in this country and reviews are what keeps a company accountable to the public and keeps their behavior in check. The review I wrote is 100% the truth but not a good look for the director herself. I was certain that she would read it and that she would probably not like our conflict being made public, but the review was definitely well earned. Well, you guys know what this person has done in the wake of that review? She has made a formal complaint to animal protection alleging my abuse of the animal I DID take home! They showed up at my home today and left a callback note. When I called back they informed me of the allegation of abuse and they were told the animal is in imminent danger under my care and not being treated humanely and they WILL be returning tomorrow to enter my home for an inspection and to examine the animal for injury or neglect. I'm not worried about that visit because I am not abusing the animal and it is actually eating better than the people in my home do! But. Obviously I am pretty pissed about the fact that this awful woman who runs that place not only lied to me several ways. But is now trying to get my animal taken away from me and trying to have my name placed on an animal abuser list! This is a clear instance of a vindictive person retaliating against someone who exercised their freedom of speech to review their organization after being wronged and being subject to bad business. I am confident on my end and will be giving the officer full access to my home and my pet to clear my name. But this is a new low I have seen. This individual has clearly not been stood up to for awhile and isn't qualified to judge me or any other person given that she has done nothing but lie to me since we met. What should have been a great experience is now a pretty negative one and has soured my feelings about shelters. I would imagine I won't be using a shelter at all in the future and may have to appeal my name being added to a list just because this lady is vindictive. People are really out there sometimes! Has anyone else had a similar experience when they adopted an animal, or left a negative review on a place? I can't be the only one that something like this has happened to to some extent. Just thought I would get some other perspectives on it...

I wasnt actually charged however I was threatened with an escorting charge if I filed the report, and strongly discouraged from completing the report. I would say report at your discretion, but it didn't go swimmingly for me.