TrystinTrimble

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  1. Simultaneously funny and disturbing

    I would see that as being in poor taste. BUT...on the other hand I've had like 3-4 clients over the years who REQUESTED I do this or something similar mid sesh. They basically got off on being backburnered or an afterthought. I guess it's maybe a milder version of wanting to be cuckolded. As far as kinks go, it's one I didn't mind doing. Once I spent a whole hour getting daty while blowing $ shopping online, with his CC. It took some getting used to, and felt weird at first...but hey I can't say I didn't like it. It really does take all kinds of people to keep everything in motion I guess.
  2. Anyone else having this happen?

    For encounters involving multi hours or traveling beyond the metro area I do require deposit usually. But there's no way I can take them when I work in town, do mostly outs on short notice, to guys who can barely manage a greeting or to read any of my ad... let alone the minimal amount of leg work it would take to pay a deposit. These m************ think I'm some hot local single sitting by my phone wearing a tight fuzzy sweater waiting to connect with em. I am hot. I am local. I am single. But at no time Am i all three of the above at once. I'm being overestimated...
  3. Anyone else having this happen?

    You guys are the best! Used to be if I made a post like this there was a culture of victim blaming. We've come a long way haven't we?
  4. Anyone else having this happen?

    In two days. FIVE NCNS back to back...is this weekend going this way for any other ladies? I've been sitting in this room with my thumb up my (expletive deleted) for a bit now. What's the damn deal? I mean...it's not even No-Show November yet! 😁
  5. It is SILLY how stuck-up cheap hotels are!

    My guess is that they do it to discourage riff raff (people who cant afford more than a day and people who are down to their last match) from staying there. Id imagine they assume that those types don't have the kind of cash that can be tied up for several days.
  6. It is SILLY how stuck-up cheap hotels are!

    So, I rented a room that was approx 50 per night for a couple days. Ya know, cause money was tight this week. I get there. And they want to hold 200 "for incidentals!" I'm talking a fairly run down place with weird smells and a couple of dubious people trying to befriend all their neighbors. They didn't sell ANYTHING or have a sundry. Carpet was threadbare. There was literally nothing left to ruin in this place. Pool was all but boarded up! I checked out today (they were up my butt at 11 am SHARP), and they tell me that it'll be returned to me in 5 to 7 business days. As if! Rented a new one for like 120 a day, and it's way nicer...has a pool and hottub which are clean. Very pretty and clean carpet. Smells wonderful. Has a happy hour that nice business travelers will attend and mingle. No cameras pointed at every single room door. Has a little store to buy stuff you forgot or grab a White Claw (no thanks). Their hold was like...15% of the amount the shitty place yanked from my account. Seriously like 30 or 40, that's it. And I can check out at NOON. Id much rather spend the money on the better room than have the shitty place holding that much to insure against the possibility I will somehow make the place shittier than it already is. Duh! 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁 Here, y'all...have a free toothy grin!
  7. IMPORTANCE OF TOB REVIEWS

    Oh I know it can't be easy to read about that shit. But we talked, I think it's all good now
  8. IMPORTANCE OF TOB REVIEWS

    I remember the time when I very much depended upon receiving reviews to bring about a steady flow of biz. I wish I could still get them without being petrified of them being read by my SO and ruminated upon to the point of detriment. It's best at this point to just not provide any new gossip to mull over.
  9. Bad Provider vs Bad Client

    Bad Client: ignores boundaries, rushes me to move my ass immediately, is drunk or too high at go time, orders me to squirt and gets pissy when I (shocker) can't, is too rough and thinks that I'm defective for not caring for it, texts me constantly without rebooking, asks me if they can be the first of the day every time, doesn't believe me if I compliment them, gets caught by the wife and throws me under the bus, stares into my soul the whole time, tries to trade substances for service, really I could go on all day. Bad Providers: cold call their regulars without any kind of concern for discretion, untrustworthy when in other peoples environments/cash and dash type games, show up intoxicated, don't screen and don't protect client information, bad hygeine, pull clients into their serious drama, talk about their money problems in their ads, take too many calls or texts in session, use illegal substances in front of a client especially one who doesn't partake, make a client feel unsafe with her behavior or implying a threat of violence unprovoked, double booking clients, is a grouchy bitch most of the time...
  10. Ladies! I had a person reach out to me last night, and upon doing some digging, I'm very glad to have done so. PM me for a memo and pass on to other ladies privately. Always trust your gut! It's there for a reason!
  11. Dating while in the business...

    I have a serious SO...but man it took years and years to find this one and dating is never problem free for me. I had to be loud and adamant about a couple things: first, that we both have a voice and a safe space to feel how we do; and second, that there was no tolerance for treating one another with disrespect. Respect is required at all times and I've had to fight for it a couple times. It can be done but you have to really want it. I cannot imagine starting over yet again.
  12. FishnDude

    Oh No! I had not seen him in a long time, but he used to see me regularly and I am really saddened to hear this news:( All in All, not at all a bad guy. He helped me out once when I was in a serious jam and treated me kindly. Rip Dear...
  13. An Actual Connection?!?

    Not gonna lie, I LOVE when I'm with a "business partner" and this happens. It can actually be kinda depressing when I go a long time without that wow factor so I find it welcome. However, the very few times I tried to keep it going I found myself hurt in the end--so I try to just be thankful for it when it does happen and leave it where it is. I can never truly know what someone's intentions are and that means I am not really safe to try to pursue anything further.
  14. This is something f-ed up...and why?

    It looks like they did make an arrest? Three teens, all named in article, looking at a charge of first degree murder. I'm glad they got these people so quickly!
  15. Unbelievably Senseless random act of violence, one young woman killed for no reason. Completely innocent and crossed paths with some sack of shit The knowledge that someone out there has done this shit to someone ever; is so sad and scary. I really, REALLY--hope that the person responsible for this is caught and held accountable for this antisocial crap. I don't know HOW but they just have to catch him. There are some callous and cruel people out there and afaik, this one is on the loose still.