Hi, I am a longtime lurker and a first time poster here. But I saw your note on J and I have some info to share. I ended up being a big fan of hers, we clicked pretty well. The comments above are all accurate, but I think she has a strong YMMV streak. Anyway, she told me that she had to go 'back home' for a short time and is not sure when or if she will be back. Hope that helps.