Have I been blacklisted without cause?1?

[Trott22]

Here is the short version: I'm relatively new to the hobby, first visit was in August.  I have seen providers from TOB, PD, Eros and Twitter.  Until a few weeks ago, I had no issues setting up an appointment using screening docs or references.  Now, I seem to have been placed on some mysterious black list as I can't get providers to book me.  What do I do?

Longer version: I booked an appointment with a provider (I'll call her #2) that represented herself as someone who posts here (I'll call her #1), as well as on Eros and Tryst.  #1 is a traveling provider and is in Denver every four to six weeks or so.  The phone number I texted for #2 was not the number listed on #1's profile here, and while I thought that was odd, I didn't give it much thought.  I requested #2 confirm she was the person using the handle of #1 here on TOB and she said, yes, that's me.  She also sent me pictures of herself that with a google search landed me at the personal webpage for #1.  At this point, I was satisfied that I had properly booked an appointment with #1 and was looking forward to it.  

Upon arriving at the incall, it was clear I had booked with someone other than #1.  After the session, I contacted #1 by text on her number listed on TOB.  I explained that someone was representing herself as #1 and thought she should know.  I sent her the information #2 sent me, we exchanged several text messages where she told me that #2 was not her, no crap!  I had a scheduling change the following day and a window opened up that I could schedule with #1.  I asked if she was available, shared my references from TOB then she went dark.  She had been texting with iMessage, the messages were only being sent as texts and she stopped responding.  I was ready to move on and learn from the debacle, but now it seems to have become a much larger issue for me.  What should I do?  Does this mysterious blacklist exist or am I have I just been coincidently unlucky over the last two weeks?  If it does exist, how do I remedy the issue?

Thanks!  

[sb1212]

Yes, providers share back channel information about clients. Call it a "Black List" if you wish. There is no  "appeal" process.  My only (uneducated) suggestion is that you write a review of the provider you saw and include the suspected deception.  Keep it much more simple than your post in this thread. 

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

very odd behavior and yes chances are you won’t get an honest answer either. The world of escort is unregulated. You might try and ask one of the established ladies that you saw who you  you have a connection with to check into maters?  She might know what happened?! Either way I wish you well! 

[scottiep33]

This has happened to me before. A provider that used to be on TOB who I scheduled an appointment with black listed me after I left her incall which she had me waiting outside for 30 mins after our scheduled appointment time.  I noticed right after that I couldn't even get a response from providers I previously booked with on TOB. Since then I've just provided everything upfront to the providers I've wished to see such as references, date and time desired, and pics of me so that she knew I was foreal. Using that method has set me apart from the average request,  and I've had no problems booking since.  Trust the process bro, sometimes karma has a way of clearing out the bullshit for you. The ladies I've met since has been exactly what I've wanted. 

Whatever blacklist girls on TOB are using needs to be updated because I consider myself a great guy, and take pride in a mutually beneficial environment. However it's been a long time since I've booked any providers off TOB due to bogus blacklist post. In hindsight being blacklisted has open the door for me to meet some amazing providers. If you keep reaching out to providers with respect and being a gentleman you will see results. 

[Hobby Hobbit -Banned]

My wild guess is you saw her home girl and she is playing crazy but, come on bro! Did you enjoy #2, and why? Be descriptive, please?

With no honor among thieves, the blacklist tool is like a wives club in a Pokemon hunt, ain't it? Picture, Skitty, Skitty! Da fuq?! Fuck around and starve if you want to!

The real answer being texting apps, the problem perpetuates with so many providers insisting we give up real world info when, what are the chances Honey Blossoms is her government name? I had one back channeling forum info, in my DM asking for my handle she already knew to what, blacklist me, for no reason?  Yeah, OK. I'm Rick James, sugar. May he RIP.