What's Your Perspective?

[Calisurfgirl]

Before deciding upon the title of this topic, I had to take several deep meditative breathes in  through the nose and slowly exhaling, exiting the mouth. Repeating this several times until I grounded myself so I can respectfully inquire another providers perspective or that of the hobbyist. 

Question 1: As hobbyists when reaching out to, engaging and exchanging pleasantries, to expect the provider to accommodate the hobbyist because he is compartmentalize or generating unrealistic stereotypes? (Example Below)

I will provide an analogy we can all understand to an extent or degree. If you are planning a trip to denver and are looking at accommodations on priceline and/or some other site that generates listing for lodging in the area. You see the Hyatt Regency in DTC with ⭐️⭐️⭐️, then the Motel 6 in lakewood with ⭐️ 1/2 stars, or lastly the Four Seasons Ritz-Carlton with ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 1/2 is it fair to believe that yes they all provide lodging but is it fair to ask the Ritz-Carlton to accept the Motel 6 denomination.  

Question 2: Does the hobbyist believe that since he is recognized as the term used here and some other similar sites as "HOBBYIST" that we as providers see this as a hobby and not a means to take care of a plethora of everyday responsibilities like yourself? That the provider is filing a schedule C as an independent contractor or other related title used to describe a brand or business? (EXAMPLE BELOW) 

If I made an appointment at a trendy hair salon, after researching salons in the area if looked at criteria like who provided the best service that I particularly required , excellent reviews and generated amazing results providing a superb experience at the time of my intinal contact to the completion of appointment. But I as a patron understand that they are limited on time to see a person like additional employment/engagements outside of the salon but as a patron if I book an appointment and then unsuccessfully am unable to go for what ever reason. Do you know what happens? Ask your wife or girlfriend. They charge your for thr service because it is time the preserved for me a a patron and I failed to make it. That's business and they as a business have that right to do so. Because of the listed reasons I wanted them to provide services to my hair. 

This is why most require deposits because it is not a hobby to the provider. That is why a provider is not a hobbyist. The use and actual definition of either word honesty should not have to be rendered a requirement within TOB backpage, Tryst sites like that i could understand but not here of all places. Right!

 

 

 

[Livingstonhare]

Not sure that’s the whole story, Stevie. Maybe she just needs somebody to talk to. Or more specifically someone who will listen to her. I know the feeling. I’ve lived me whole life long, and nobody ever understood a single thing I said.

[sparkey600]

On 8/12/2022 at 0:54 AM, Calisurfgirl said:

Before deciding upon the title of this topic, I had to take several deep meditative breathes in  through the nose and slowly exhaling, exiting the mouth. Repeating this several times until I grounded myself so I can respectfully inquire another providers perspective or that of the hobbyist. 

Question 1: As hobbyists when reaching out to, engaging and exchanging pleasantries, to expect the provider to accommodate the hobbyist because he is compartmentalize or generating unrealistic stereotypes? (Example Below)

I will provide an analogy we can all understand to an extent or degree. If you are planning a trip to denver and are looking at accommodations on priceline and/or some other site that generates listing for lodging in the area. You see the Hyatt Regency in DTC with ⭐️⭐️⭐️, then the Motel 6 in lakewood with ⭐️ 1/2 stars, or lastly the Four Seasons Ritz-Carlton with ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 1/2 is it fair to believe that yes they all provide lodging but is it fair to ask the Ritz-Carlton to accept the Motel 6 denomination.  

Question 2: Does the hobbyist believe that since he is recognized as the term used here and some other similar sites as "HOBBYIST" that we as providers see this as a hobby and not a means to take care of a plethora of everyday responsibilities like yourself? That the provider is filing a schedule C as an independent contractor or other related title used to describe a brand or business? (EXAMPLE BELOW) 

If I made an appointment at a trendy hair salon, after researching salons in the area if looked at criteria like who provided the best service that I particularly required , excellent reviews and generated amazing results providing a superb experience at the time of my intinal contact to the completion of appointment. But I as a patron understand that they are limited on time to see a person like additional employment/engagements outside of the salon but as a patron if I book an appointment and then unsuccessfully am unable to go for what ever reason. Do you know what happens? Ask your wife or girlfriend. They charge your for thr service because it is time the preserved for me a a patron and I failed to make it. That's business and they as a business have that right to do so. Because of the listed reasons I wanted them to provide services to my hair. 

This is why most require deposits because it is not a hobby to the provider. That is why a provider is not a hobbyist. The use and actual definition of either word honesty should not have to be rendered a requirement within TOB backpage, Tryst sites like that i could understand but not here of all places. Right!

 

 

 

I don't think this thread is making you any new friends if that was your thinking.....I think everyone might be wondering what the Hell you are getting at?

[Madison Taylor]

I do understand that she is talking about donations in the first example, and that we as providers don't need to lower our donation because someone chooses to see us and thinks he should only have to donate a certain amount because other girls do. And the 2nd part is when clients don't show and the reason behind deposits as it's a growing issue everywhere in this industry because unfortunately there is a new era of stupidity suddenly and many who do not respect our time or see this as a means to provide for most of us. Many look at it as an extracurricular activity so when they cancel or don't show they do not realize the huge impact it has on our lives.  If I was to get something out of her post... that is what I would get from it but maybe I'm wrong ... my Spidey senses tell me I'm pretty close to what she is explaining,. Just a hunch. 😜🙄😬

[Madison Taylor]

And looking at the title I think she is trying to see what one would get from her post it's kinda clever if you think about it. Sometimes we need to think outside the box,. Ever heard that saying ? 

Edited September 4, 2022 by Madison Taylor
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[Mr.Pink]

27 minutes ago, Madison Taylor said:

And looking at the title I think she is trying to see what one would get from her post it's kinda clever if you think about it. Sometimes we need to think outside the box,. Ever heard that saying ? 

The OP is on the cerebral side, way on the cerebral side.. Sometimes is good not to overthink things. 

If you want a deposit, state that in your ad, it's your business. 

[Hunter VanDyke]

23 minutes ago, Mr.Pink said:

The OP is on the cerebral side, way on the cerebral side.. Sometimes is good not to overthink things. 

If you want a deposit, state that in your ad, it's your business. 

TOB, this site where you are posting on now, will delete our ads if we post about money.   Maybe you should be more on the cerebral side and overthink a little bit before you comment. 

[Madison Taylor]

I saw another thread for this post later on didn't mean to get anyone worked up. It seems it was all covered on the other thread . My fault 

[Kali Sensual Reiki]

If we as Companions/Providers mention money or “Specials” and or other words that trigger their attention and the ad  is caught? Down it goes and the Companion/Provider may possibly lose her ability to post ads on TOB and no refund! It is TOB’s  rules and TOB is privately owned and they do as they choose with their own set of guidelines and rules as they please. 
 An interesting perspective is this, on another platform I am not allowed to post “Kali Sensual Reiki” I must post “Kali S Reiki”, yet I am allowed to post my rates.  I have since decided to keep everything posted on my website for people to look and learn about me from. If I am asked about such questions? I make reference to my website and ask them to please read or reread again. Funny, how perspective clients are confused between escort platforms websites and personal websites.,

Hats off to the new ladies on here for learning a  new protocol and becoming familiar with changes.