Posted October 3, 2019 back story will become obvious... but... have you ever experienced something (a way the provider performs an activity for example) in your time with a provider that was so damn good that in a moment of weakness with your real world gal that you mention her trying it? the 'where did that come from' convo was kind of funny and without divulging the truth i buried the request in the 'happened to see it one of those emails' i should never opened from a single guy friend, now since deleted, and lost, and have no clue how to find it, but it looked like it would be 'fun' to 'try' disguises... whew... anything like this happen to you all? and do share so i can learn from you too. just another case for legalizing the hobby so the worlds can jive and not collide. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 4, 2019 Those things happen to us all. I don't want to get too clinical about this, but there are many times each day when the unconscious mind pops into the forefront, unfiltered by conscious controlling processes, and we say or do things that are out of character, or we reveal parts of ourselves that, in the context of our own self interest, would be better kept to ourself. However, the unconscious mind has a reputation of being a trickster, and those secret thoughts that we'd most like to keep under our hats, are often most likely to pop out at inappropriate times. The Trickster in me is one of the reasons I've given up active "hobbying". (Another is that I'm getting too damn old to care.) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 4, 2019 To the OP....How is legalization gonna help you tell your gf things you experienced with a SW. Unless of course you weren't dating your gf or married to your wife at the time you saw this SW. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 6, 2019 Lol, yess I sometimes find it hard to not say, "oh guess what happened today with a client etc.... Then I have to remind myself that what I do is not considered normal every day conversation, especially considering no one knows what I do................. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 7, 2019 On 10/4/2019 at 2:51 PM, rhood said: To the OP....How is legalization gonna help you tell your gf things you experienced with a SW. Unless of course you weren't dating your gf or married to your wife at the time you saw this SW. shoulda clarified - on and off relationship (by design - we are both in big territory sales with some overlap and have agreed to 'see each other' when we can find that week in the same city) - well it involved another 'on' while we were 'off' and when we got back on about 2 months later - well.... it's life - upside is she was open to it - so chalk one up for the cool universe... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 10, 2019 On 10/6/2019 at 3:18 PM, Crystyna said: I have to remind myself that what I do is not considered normal every day conversation Its considered normal here 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 10, 2019 On 10/3/2019 at 2:04 PM, hornyoldtoad said: the 'where did that come from' convo was kind of funny and without divulging the truth i buried the request in the 'happened to see it one of those emails' i should never opened from a single guy friend, now since deleted, and lost, and have no clue how to find it, but it looked like it would be 'fun' to 'try' disguises... You two don't watch porn together ?? That and the old "read it in the Penthouse Forum." worked well,back in the day. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 10, 2019 i hear ya! penthouse forum - wow - i remember sneakign out to the gas station to buy those before they wrapped any of those in plastic - those were great stories for the horny young mind!!! sometimes in this hobby you just have to come clean and admit something about yourself that is just odd... mine (or one of them): I have never watched porn with a gal i was dating or married to... 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
