Posted August 8, 2014 Ok so... I figured there was no better place to share!! This week I went on a date (a real date) with somebody I met, he took me to an event where he was meeting a group of friends. Ok cool I was all for it but as soon as I meet the group I realized I have seen 2 (couldn't just be one) for services in the past. Can I say AWKWARD!!! I felt it from the other parties too :-/ If we liked one another do I keep moving forward and never bring it up or what?!? YES, I did share to this individual that I have escorted in the past (FYI) Shit I never had a plan for this kind of situation!! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 11, 2014 If we liked one another do I keep moving forward and never bring it up or what?!? YES, I did share to this individual that I have escorted in the past (FYI) I say you're good for a few dates without providing any more details, but before it gets too serious, you should think about revealing the truth IF the other two are close friends, and especially if they are not married. I think the circumstances of his relationship with the other two may be the determining factor. Old college bro buddies - you better drop the facts sooner because they'll let him know one night after a few drinks. Married to his sister, he'll never say a word. If the other two are married or in serious relationships, they are probably more worried about you talking, and would never say anything. If not, ya never know what might come out over shots of tequila some night. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 11, 2014 I realized I have seen 2 (couldn't just be one) for services in the past. Can I say AWKWARD!!! I felt it from the other parties too :-/ Shit I never had a plan for this kind of situation!! That is it I may win the lotto 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 11, 2014 Most guys don't want any body to know they pay for sex so they might not say anything 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 11, 2014 im sorry i have no advice but i have to say, very little makes me laugh on this board but this post cracked me up. sorry that its probably not funny to you but that sounds like my luck. thanks for the laugh. ill get in touch if i think of something. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 11, 2014 If you told him that you were an escort in the past. That is all that needs to be said at this point, I think. You do not need to rat out his friends/past clients. I am always up front with men I date, but I don't need to discuss details unless they ask me about the job. And for me, I would only discuss the job with someone I really truely care about, if I felt I wanted to be open and fair. But you wouldn't go telling which clients you have seen to a date. That would not be discrete. If you like the guy, then date him, but kissing and telling should be out. IMO. God luck! Hope you find love or whatever makes you happy! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 11, 2014 Answering your question with a question: Would a doctor or lawyer tell her SO that she is seeing (or has seen) his buds professionally? Same concept IMO. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 11, 2014 Most guys don't want any body to know they pay for sex so they might not say anything Agreed, very likely that they will not say a word. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 11, 2014 Miss Pink - I'm a little confused what the question or worry is? When you say that you told the BF you escorted in the past, do you mean that he doesn't know you are currently working and you're worried about him finding out through his buddies? Or are you wondering if you should out the buddies to the BF? Or both? Or am I completely missing the point (which has been known to happen!)? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 12, 2014 If you told him that you were an escort in the past. That is all that needs to be said at this point, I think. You do not need to rat out his friends/past clients. I am always up front with men I date, but I don't need to discuss details unless they ask me about the job. And for me, I would only discuss the job with someone I really truely care about, if I felt I wanted to be open and fair. But you wouldn't go telling which clients you have seen to a date. That would not be discrete. If you like the guy, then date him, but kissing and telling should be out. IMO. God luck! Hope you find love or whatever makes you happy! ^^ this ^^ 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 12, 2014 You told him you escorted, Ms. Pink, so if he can handle that bomb shell, and most men could not, he can handle that his friends partook. Gosh, I wish I had discovered you before you retired, you little bohemian. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 14, 2014 Y'all are right... I think I'll just keep moving forward and let it be what it is... Shit nothin I can do about it!! Live will always put us through awkward situations :-) 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted August 20, 2014 If you told him that you were an escort in the past. That is all that needs to be said at this point, I think. You do not need to rat out his friends/past clients. I am always up front with men I date, but I don't need to discuss details unless they ask me about the job. And for me, I would only discuss the job with someone I really truely care about, if I felt I wanted to be open and fair. But you wouldn't go telling which clients you have seen to a date. That would not be discrete. If you like the guy, then date him, but kissing and telling should be out. IMO. God luck! Hope you find love or whatever makes you happy! ^^ this ^^ Seconded. Also, if you have the chance to talk to either of the guy's friends privately, you could ask them whether they care if the friend knows. If they don't care, and if the guy asks you about it, then it seems less difficult to navigate. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
