This is an old thread but I’ll add something anyway since it's a topic that should stay fresh in everyone's minds. In San Antonio, back in 2016, I was at a Japanese restaurant with my professional 40-year old hot female coworker (at the time we were 'dating') and I saw a super hot early 20s provider/stripper that I hooked up with just months before and she was with this guy. We glanced at each other and not only did we completely ignore each other, but she seemed comfortable, probably assuming that I knew what to do, which i did.
So discretion is a rarely spoken, expected, and universal rule. And as in the story of the man who saw a known provider while out to dinner with his family, that was me too. I kept glancing over to her because as it was so hot to be in the same room with those two women in particular. At that point, it's pure carnal instinct to be seriously turned on in a unique moment like that. My female coworker actually would have been quite cool with it because I believe she had been a provider in Texas, New Mexico, and California when she was in her 20s. I love this hobby.