Redtide515

That's a good point. But definitely not scheduling with her again, since I really don't want to waste my time driving an hour down to Denver and get flaked on for the 3rd time.

I just asked her outright today and she says she was sick, and if i would like to, get this... reschedule (LOL!) So that means the verification went through, but she just didn't feel like giving me a heads-up that she cannot do yesterday. Does this by definition an NCNS?

This is what I figured, maybe there was some massive misunderstanding between us and lack of clear communication (on her part), so things kinda went down the shady route by pure chance. I'm still hoping that since she is a well established user she won't use my DL for anything shady, but also maybe she would knows that she will be protected (as admin just gave me a heads up that I'm basically screwed) so she will get away with it. But definitely lesson learned, I'm never going to give out anything with my real name in it even just for basic verification. If they won't take TOB refs then so be it.

No unfortunately everything was there :/. I never had to give DL before which was already strange since I have references and reviews. I did submit an NCNS but admin refused it on the basis of nothing was confirmed, eventhough she confirmed the appointment not once, but twice. I understand she is a well established user but like seriously? Maybe she has a reason but why didn't she articulate it instead of just giving me complete radio silence? If two appointments don't work then let me know ifgaf... but not even giving me a reason why AFTER having my DL information just screams identity theft to me. And what's shitty is that this site does whatever it can to protect the providers, but if the clients get screwed too bad so sad. Lesson learned for sure, I'm not ever giving out anything with my name on it.

This happened today and I don't want to call anyone out, but I contacted this provider (who is well reviewed on TOB and elsewhere) since yesterday and we agreed on a session this morning, and she asked for me to sent her a TOB message to verify, which I did. This morning at appointment time was radio silence. Then she contacted me again a few hours later and asked if it's today is still OK. I says yes to a later time, and she asked me to verify by sharing references, at which point I sent her another TOB message. Then for some reason she said that she would prefer my DL, which is strange for me given that I have already sent two TOB messages as well as sharing references. But I also thought that since she is well established, and maybe it's just not convenience for her to log in to TOB. So I sent her my DL, and since that point communication has been extremely sparse. And then it's appointment time and it's radio silence again. Honest, how stupid was me to trust his person (who I thought was trustworthy) with my DL? What's the risk of being blackmailed or something like that? Anyone experienced this before?

Me: *Going through the motion and got the confirmation from a lady I've seen before, seeing her location in her post near me.* She: OK babe text me an hour before and ill send location. Me: *Texted an hour before* She: *Sends me an address 2 hours away during rush hours* Come on, ladies! There's a difference between driving from a long week of work to fun and driving from a long week of work 2 hours to fight Denver traffic! So don't give me shit for canceling !