Posted November 21, 2014 I've been around TOB for a few years, occasional hobbyist, occasional poster, longtime lurker, and it seems that my hobbying would be quite a bit easier with a P411 membership to ease the verification process. However, it's freaking me out just a little bit to provide my employer info, etc. So I'm hoping y'all can fill me in: is the service trustworthy? How much risk is involved with singing up for P411? 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 21, 2014 If you want zero risk do not frequent escorts in countries where it is illegal. That said, if you are going to see many ladies over a period of time would you feel more comfortable: 1. Giving personal info to multiple strangers 2. Giving minimal info to a service such as P411 3. Frequently seeing ladies who will see virtually any guy who calls with no screening - dont even care about their safety so why care about yours? P411 is FAR from perfect but pretty damn handy especially if you travel a lot. It is a whole lot better than BP roulette in terms of safety, but ALWAYS try to independently verify the ladies you want to see - even P411 ones OUTSIDE of P411. As far as screening, from their website: If we can verify that you are a long time member (in good standing) of a community that may be another way we can verify you. Sounds like you may have options. Talk to them. As always just my opinion, others will disagree. Be safe and enjoy. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 21, 2014 I've been around TOB for a few years, occasional hobbyist, occasional poster, longtime lurker, and it seems that my hobbying would be quite a bit easier with a P411 membership to ease the verification process. However, it's freaking me out just a little bit to provide my employer info, etc. So I'm hoping y'all can fill me in: is the service trustworthy? Gina herself will tell you it's not the end-all-be-all for screening, but it's a pretty easy resource for ladies to verify you as part of their screening and for you to see how legit she may be. Many ladies offer discounts to P411 members and the service will pay for itself if you see said ladies. How much risk is involved with singing up for P411?If you have a few providers as references, then there isn't that much risk involved. You just really need to decide how much you are going to play. If you play a lot or travel, than the risk (imo) is low. If you aren't going to have providers provide references for you and/or not going to play much, than the risk may be great for you. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 21, 2014 As a long standing member of this community when P411 was founded, my screening was minimal. But I still had to have two(2) ASP members vouch for me. Over the years I have found P411 to be a great asset, especially when travelling. It eases the screening process on both sides of the equation - the ladies seem more reliable (when compared to BP or Eros) & my list of OKays provides my references. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 21, 2014 The risk involved with P411 is probably about the same as posting here. Someone who is very good at hacking can get into either system, and find information to track you down (IP address, ISP account, etc). The likelyhood of that is pretty low, but it could happen. I feel very comfortable with P411, even when I was hiding this activity from my former S/O. Either take the small (IMO) risk, or don't. There's no guaranty. Sorry! 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 21, 2014 I would never provide my employer info. Not worth the risk. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted November 21, 2014 As a long standing member of this community when P411 was founded, my screening was minimal. But I still had to have two(2) ASP members vouch for me. Over the years I have found P411 to be a great asset, especially when travelling. It eases the screening process on both sides of the equation - the ladies seem more reliable (when compared to BP or Eros) & my list of OKays provides my references. I completely agree with BitBanger's comments, especially since I'm a frequent flier. Unfortunately, the times are changing. P411 may become more of a date-checker site and less of a shopper's paradise. Why do I say that? A provider friend forwarded to me a long note that she received from P411. To be brief, it says: "Over the next two or three weeks, we will be working on removing all references to sexual activities from the site. Please go over your P411 pages and ads, and remove any/all acronyms or words that are known references a sexual activity." So things like: TF, UTF, FS, DATY, FBSM, GFE, DFK, and LFK are now forbidden! These are allowed: BDSM, massage, body rub, incall, outcall and rates. Go figure. So you may want to pay for P411 now but soon you may feel ripped off. 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
