TheWhisperer

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    30 minutes ago, Todoesprivado said:

    This one!! . I’ve provided a reference for a potential new provider last year. It got to a point where she did get a profile created but because she couldn’t secure another providers reference her profile was taken down. Our loss, really 

    This makes No sense. Please PM us for clarification.

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  3. Posted

    6 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

    Reviews, yes! However, on my write up on this above comment,  it was for  a reference request that I got on my page and the guy never responded back to my pm. As of today, I still have not heard back from this individual,. And I refuse to blindly give a refrence without knowing who this is?
    Nothing to do with a review. 

    Not Reviews... Reviewers requesting a Reference;)

    Correct, do not blindly provide a reference. If the Reviewer doesn't respond, deny it. As a courtesy the reviewer should reach out after requesting a Reference via PM, text, email etc..

    Have a great day Kali

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  4. Posted

    21 hours ago, Kali Sensual Reiki said:

    No the TOB system lacks passing on such  information. . Defiantly  Not quite as thorough as P411. It wo,uld sure help me out if there was that question “How would this Companion remember you best?”  As you should very well know it would help if the client would make a point of contacting me first. That way I can confirm I know who you are.Just common courtesy. I deleted the request for a reference because I never received a reply from my pm. I did give it a couple days. And of course he always has it right to request it again, from me. I hope he follows my protocol which common sense. 

     

     

    That is incorrect, there is a field where reviewers can add details to refresh a providers memory when requesting a Reference.

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  5. Posted

    On 8/4/2023 at 1:31 PM, monroepierce said:

    But… just to clarify- you ask that they get a reference from an established provider. And that’s one thing. But, if the new provider gets banned, the provider they get the referral from also gets banned. I know this all too well because I’m a nice person who has referred three providers at this point. Two have been mostly non posting on the site thus far, but the third causes me endless stress! We stopped being friends over a year ago and since then she’s gotten several NCNS reviews, and just recently a rip-off review. She was a decent person and legit provider when I referred her, but I don’t feel it’s fair for me to be held accountable for someone else’s actions!!! People change and just because she’s not been a good provider as of late, doesn’t change the fact that my integrity is and always has been of upmost importance to me. Why should I be punished for trying to help a fellow provider and at the time friend, while also trying to help introduce some strange into the tob community for the gentleman? 

    @monroepierce you are more then welcome to reach out and discuss your issue via pm.

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  6. Posted

    REFERENCES

    When requesting a Reference a Reviewer should also reach out via phone, text and let the provider know they've requested one.

    If a Provider is unsure who the person is that's requesting a Reference Kali is right, send a PM. However, sometimes they may not log back in for a few days. Unfortunately, the PM notifications may be turned off on their end, ending up in their spam or blocked by their email provider or it's not sent out due to a bug in the system:( please be patient:)

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  15. Posted

    This is under the HELP link

    PICTURE WON'T LOAD:
    Does the blue line load, but then no image appears? If so, the image is to large. A quick fix, send that image to yourself in a text message, save that and then upload that image.

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  16. Posted

    13 hours ago, Maclovin said:

    I always review. It is often my way of saying "thanks".

    I have two in the queue that have been "pending" for maybe a week. Could it be that providers sometimes don't approve them? I have no idea what the process looks like once we submit.

     

    "Reviews can take up to 8 days to be approved"

    This is stated right above the Submit button. Have a good day

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  17. Posted

    What is a TOB Reference:
    TOB References are similar to P411 OK's. These are ladies that are also members of TOB and have provided a reference for a TOB male Member, just like a P411 OK.

     

    There are no notes on the Reference at this time.

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    We apologize for the pop up and late reply. The language on the page was offensive. Unfortunately when researched we discovered an error occurring that prompted the link to direct to the wrong landing page. The offensive language has been removed. However, some users are still experiencing the previously cached page. We should have a solution for this in the next 24 hours.

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  19. Posted

    FEES

    You shouldn't be paying more then 2% to purchase bitcoin and 2% to send. If you are please reach out to us.

    If when you're sending bitcoin as payment the fees are in excess of 2% WAIT and send when the demand is lower. Do not pay exorbitant fees.

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  23. Posted

    Either user can delete the reference. You are able to resubmit it, HOWEVER, after X times the system is set to flag and block a reviewer that does that for spam protection.

    We understand the need to want to update a current reference. At this time an update option is not in the works.

    A manual work around would be to pm thewhisperer and include the provider so we can ensure its not a spam situation. Failure to do this first will get your references blocked.

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