Marilyn Desire

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    8 hours ago, HeavenlyBellaCO said:

     I’m really enjoying it and was wondering if there’s a place I can go to online to submit these little enticing stories besides Twitter? And ideas? Thank you for your input

    Hello there! I have a blog on my website that has a lot of followers. I am always getting feedback on it. If you are interested I could add a separate page to host your stories for you on my website. Of course all credit would go to you, although I am not compensated for my blog, I just do it because I enjoy writing. If it's something you think you would like to do lmk and I will get in touch with my website developer. xoxo

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  3. Posted

    I figured since this is a thing now I would introduce myself. Many of you already know who I am but for those who don't I am Marilyn. I am located in the lovely Colorado Springs. Unfortunately I do not ever travel outside of this city for tours, but I do enjoy when people take the time to come to my neck of the woods. 

    I try to stay up to date with the forums, but honestly I hate drama so if there is a lot of that I tend to stay away, unless it is something that I just can't keep quiet about, which happens from time to time. I do enjoy writing and have a blog where I write about things going on in my life, a lot of people seem to really resonate with it! 

    If  I can give any advice to people on this board, it would be to be kind to those around you. You have no idea what the person on the other end of your keyboard is going through, and for all you know, your words can make a huge impact on someone's life weather it is positive or negative. Trust me I have first hand experience. My nephew was bullied online which contributed to his permanent decision to end his life. So PLEASE think before you speak! 

    XOXO Marilyn

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  4. Posted

    11 hours ago, tide32 said:

     That's right!! :angry: Let's give Stevie one of these and have him pump up a truck tire and see how long he lasts. ;) :P LOL 

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    11 hours ago, tide32 said:

     That's right!! :angry: Let's give Stevie one of these and have him pump up a truck tire and see how long he lasts. ;) :P LOL 

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    You're the best! Hehehe

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  5. Posted

    29 minutes ago, stevie-2249 said:

    cant expect the client to last 10 min and it be done, and try to find use of the other 50 min! 

    Of course no one expects that. That is why there is typically a lot more involved than just hit it and quit it. If a client takes the entire session to meet there goal then hey that happens, but we providers are not robots and should not be expected to cause ourselves physical harm in order for a client to achieve a 2nd goal, or even a first one for that matter. That is the point I am trying to make here. I don't know many clients that would enjoy causing a provider physical harm just so they can orgasm. Now if you are the type of person who enjoys that then by all means go find a masochist. I am just saying msog is not something I enjoy AND IT IS COMPLETELY OK FOR ME TO HAVE THAT PREFERENCE. If msog is a MUST for someone then they can choose not to see me and I can choose not to offer that to them and we will both be ok. Thank you for your input and feedback on the matter. 

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    2 hours ago, stevie-2249 said:

    Oh damn, well at least your honest and people now know how you feel about it, if you ask me for what is being paid a 2nd shot should at least be tempted if client wishes, no ifs and and butts about it, at no extra cost!

    I feel it is always best to be honest and open about what I like and what I don't. The reason I feel that it should be an extra cost (minimal cost) is because again in my experience it is often difficult for someone to achieve a 2nd shot and the amount of extra "work" it takes is quite physically hard, exhausting and draining on someone. Imagine jerking it nonstop for 30 minutes to try and achieve the goal. Wouldn't your arm fall off? Or imagine being pounded from someone over and over for a long period of time in order for them to achieve their 2nd goal. It is ABSOLOUTLEY physically hard on the body. I'm sorry if you don't see it that way but you are not the one getting pounded non stop or jerking someone until your arm falls off, so until you have experienced it from our side, you don't really understand what goes into offering a 2nd shot. 

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  7. Posted

    In my experience it is ALWAYS the client who brings it up, and this would be considered an extra service. I don't feel like providers will bring it up because honestly it doesn't really benefit them to give you msog and typically gentleman have a difficult time with it. So what ends up happening is the provider ends up "working" extra hard to get the client to the additional shot in the amount of time that is left in the session. it becomes rushed and uncomfortable. Unless you are a guy who has no issues with it and can do it many times easily, it's just not even worth trying...

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  8. Posted

    7 hours ago, johnnybgood said:

    My guess you'd lose many members from the client side unwilling to do that hard identity check thus lowering the pool of clients for the ladies.  

    I don't think most providers would be too concerned about lowering the pool of clients if they felt their safety was being considered, but you never know! There was a time that clients coming from TOB were cream of the crop but that's not the case anymore...

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    It has come to my attention several times as of late that there are TOB members who are physically hurting, robbing and raping providers. Once word gets out about these members they go and create a new TOB account with a new username.

    Now here is the thing that disgusts me about that. Providers are required to verify their identity using a government issued ID and selfie in order to have an account. Gotta make sure we are of legal age and all.

    Clients however are not required to verify their identity to create an account. Therefore they can rape and rob as many people as they want and then just create a new account and username once their old one has a bad reputation.

    Why is it more important to verify providers for TOB accounts than it is to verify client accounts? Shouldn't the safety of providers and clients be the same? Where is the accountability for these pieces of shit members who treat providers so horribly?? There is NONE!

    So for all providers out there just because a client is a member of TOB DOES NOT mean they are a safe client.

    In fact most of the horror stories I have heard lately are all coming from TOB members.

    Admin it's time to weed out the rapist and abusers from your database!

     

    Rant over

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  14. Posted

    10 hours ago, Caressa Duval said:

     

    I copied this directly from the Ashley Madison Pop Up this morning, " Save your money! Prostitution is unsafe, and illegal! An unrushed GFE with a horny housewife ... might be just what you need!"

    How many different ways can this be against us, and scaring off clients :( :(

    This is awful! I see the pop ups and they are annoying. I never click on them because Im to afraid to get a virus on my computer, but seriously it makes no sense for us to pay for advertising when there are pop ups scaring clients off! 

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  16. Posted

    23 minutes ago, Mustang87 said:

    While doing a little more research on my Cash App I learned that before you can add money to Cash App from a credit card you have to first like your Cash App to a bank account or debit card that is linked to a back.  Do you happen to know what happens when you link your App to your bank?  I'm guessing the bank would send a notice out that the account has been linked to Cash App.  Can anyone confirm that?  Thank you.

    Well you don't get notified that it has been linked at all through email or your bank if that's what your asking. It just tells you in the app. Additionally you can also use a credit card and not a bank. Recently I created a cash app account for my mom so I could easily send her money. She does not have a bank account so we skipped that part and just got her a cash app card instead. The cash app card was mailed to her and when I send her money to cash app it just goes to her cash app card and she can use it like a debit card with no bank. This was the easiest way for us. The only reason you need to link a bank, debit or credit card is if you either want to send money to someone using cashapp or deposit money into your bank account after you receive money through cashapp. I know that's a long explanation, but long story short I have never gotten a notification that I linked a bank or debit card on cash app.

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  17. Posted

    I had a guy make a 50% deposit for a 2 hour appt because he had canceled 6 of the last 8appts he had booked. He paid the deposit and guess what, canceled the 2 hour appt one hour before the session. That is why deposits!

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  18. Posted

    As Caressa mentioned TOB forums are public so anyone can see what members talk about. Additionally while reviews can be good they can also be not worth it. For example many guys will threaten bad reviews for no reason at all. For example you couldn't fit them in at the time they wanted, or you didn't offer something they wanted etc. The list goes on and on. For some providers it's just not with the hassle. Additionally TOB clientele has gone way down hill lately and the quality of gentleman is not what it used to be.

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  20. Posted

    1 hour ago, Caressa Duval said:

    @TattooedBombShell @Marilyn Desire  The first holiday is upon us. For this Mom it will be her first with an empty chair at the dinner table. An empty hole in her heart.  An empty that will remain forever.  Holidays will forever be painful reminders of what was lost. This is a week of giving!! Please remember this family.

    Marilyn has written a tribute blog to her nephew and her sister on her website, titled "Grief - November 8, 2021".  I just finished reading it🖤 Please take the time to go read about this sweet boy, and just how much he will forever be missed. This family needs our help in any way we can. 💔

     

    "I have heard it said that the greatest loss that a human being can experience is the loss of a child. This is true. It doesn’t just change you, it demolishes you. Is the pain less? No, just different. It is there forever, till the day you die."
    ~Gloria Vanderbilt

    Thank you so much for your kind words and support. You all are so amazing! 

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  21. Posted

    Thank you again to everyone who has been so supportive. Life is moving on whether we want it to or not. We appreciate your patience and understanding as we begin to resume our lives without our precious boy. We are here for you just as you have been there for us. Part of healing is trying to get back to where we were before we lost him, or at least try too. Grateful for all of you! ❤ ❤ 

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  22. Posted

    Reading all of these comments has given me so much peace. It is incredibly amazing to see all of the support you all have given to my sister and I whether it is donating to the Go Fund me or providing words of encouragement. I don't think I realized how supportive this community is of each other until now. It hurts to see my twin sister scream out in pain knowing I can't do anything for her except be a shoulder to cry on. I have been sharing all of your kind words with her and it brings her comfort. My nephew had autism and suffered from extreme anxiety and depression that ultimately led him to take his own life. The hardest part of all of this is all of the questions of WHY? We will never know why he chose to do this, all we can do now is hope and pray that he is finally at peace. Thank you all, and please keep us in your thoughts! Xoxoxo

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  23. Posted

    Thank you both so much for your help. This has been extremely difficult and one of the hardest losses I have ever had to face. The pain is unimaginable for me and absolutely unbearable for my twin sister. We are both still in shock. His services are being held on Thursday with the viewing today and tomorrow, so the next few days will be the hardest days of our life. Thank you everyone for your continued thoughts, prayers and support ❤

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  25. Posted

    Hey everyone I am looking for recommendations for a Boudoir photographer in Colorado Springs or Pueblo. Preferably someone who has experience with people on the curvy side who knows how to get good poses and angles. 

    Side note: If you are a TOB member who messages me to take my photos I will will require a portfolio with recent pictures and references. Please do not offer your services if you do not have these.

     

    Thank you, I appreciate your recommendations! 

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