GandalfTheGeek
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When I get a haircut these days I tell them “Ernest Hemingway for the beard; Jean Luc Picard for the head”
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First I’d say, define addiction. It can range from using a substance that alters your brain chemistry - think nicotine, alcohol and opioids - to obsessive behavior like gambling. I think that you can get overly obsessed with anything that gives you pleasure. You cross a line when you endanger yourself, your finances or your family. Going to Vegas and placing a few bets within your budget - no problem. Going to Vegas and betting your rent or mortgage payment- big problem that requires you to seek help. I use the same analogy with sexuality. I’ve met guys who lost jobs because they blew off too much time seeing providers; they went during the day to hide their hobby from a spouse, their boss warned them yet they still went. To my mind, they crossed into unhealthy obsession. On the other hand , if you stay within reasonable boundaries as you define them then have fun and don’t worry about the prudes.
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First I’d say, define addiction. It can range from using a substance that alters your brain chemistry - think nicotine, alcohol and opioids - to obsessive behavior like gambling. I think that you can get overly obsessed with anything that gives you pleasure. You cross a line when you endanger yourself, your finances or your family. Going to Vegas and placing a few bets within your budget - no problem. Going to Vegas and betting your rent or mortgage payment- big problem that requires you to seek help. I use the same analogy with sexuality. I’ve met guys who lost jobs because they blew off too much time seeing providers; they went during the day to hide their hobby from a spouse, their boss warned them yet they still went. To my mind, they crossed into unhealthy obsession. On the other hand , if you stay within reasonable boundaries as you define them then have fun and don’t worry about the prudes.
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Hi My girlfriend would like to try having another woman join us for an evening. This is her idea. She’s been watching some movies on pornhub and we went to the Mile High Men’s Club together and the idea really has her excited. I think she really enjoyed getting compliments from the women at the club and the touch of their skin when she got lap dances. Of course I want her first experience to be fantastic if only so she’ll want to repeat it. I was thinking outcall in my home so she’s comfortable in the setting with perhaps some champagne. Any tips or suggestions for making this a fantastic experience for her? Are there providers who enjoy being her first or like introducing a woman to a much wider world of pleasure? thanks
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New to Denver...suggestions for food in dtc?!
GandalfTheGeek replied to ShelbyCreams's topic in Colorado
Ya Ya’s is fantastic. It has great food, fantastic wines and cocktails but it is a bit expensive -
Better be for something I like
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Aren't flexible hours part of the attraction of the work? And on line calendars don't always sync so I would have assumed someone called you before I got a chance. You have a right to be pissed.
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Good definition LOL
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So this is a newbie question. I have noticed many providers advertise a GFE and PSE encounter, with PSE being more expensive. For those of you who've triedd both, is the difference worth the cost?
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Hello! What are you doing at this very moment
GandalfTheGeek replied to Mistress Christian Gentry's topic in • General-Discussions...
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What do you call the person who graduates last in their class? Doctor
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I understand why providers would want to be loners. What do you do if someone asks if you “have a friend”?
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That is pretty much what I’ve been thinking.
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Sorry no, that was not me. Is that a good thing or a bad thing? :-)
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Hi First I wanted to introduce myself as a new person to the group and a guy returning to the hobby after many years off. I have not booked anyone through Backpage at this point and was wondering what the experience has been with providers who advertise there. I get the feeling things can be rather hit or miss in terms of quality. Also, clients have their own safety concerns from law enforcement or getting ripped off. Anyone have any tips for which providers are good or bad, accurate pictures, etc? Thanks