MyraGold

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    Hmmm idk if people really put that in ads to make the law stay away OR if it’s bc a lot of le try to be clients in their personal time. In my opinion, it’s the latter. Not everyone wants to be that close with le, but some do and encourage it. They might start thinking we all want to see them, so the disclaimer exists. There’s two ends of the spectrum.

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    People who are used to having very little are usually the most generous when it really comes down to it, I’ve noticed. Someone told me if you have a dollar, you have more than most people in the world. That really stuck with me. I always try to give when I can, and even sometimes when I really shouldn’t. I believe karma has my back though. When I really need help, it usually does come through for me in the end. You just gotta pay it forward!

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    I wish I knew more about this bc having to book two days just to accommodate one booking has never made much sense to me and when I try to explain it to potential clients, they don’t wanna send an extra fee- even if they wanna see me before/after normal check-in and out times. So I usually just don’t bother and lose that potential booking. Or risk losing money over it!! Usually that’s bc it’s last minute so I don’t even have time to make sure it’s fruitful with pre-booking. 

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    26 minutes ago, Hobby Hobbit said:

    Notice you are the only one of four providers with a negative contribution to this thread. It's as if you are the topic of this post? Even if not, thanks for raising the flag.

    99problems.com

    Wow you think you know a lot! Lol. Hmm maybe I’ve had my time wasted by  million people who can’t follow simple instructions and can relate. I guess you might not get it since you spend all day everyday on here, but some of us are too busy! Just to give you perspective since you need a thorough explanation (:

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    Maybe find a provider who fits your needs instead of pestering someone to do what they don’t want to do. Why is this so hard to understand? 

    Good luck though since you think you’re superior with your “actual job” 

    Maybe you should find a better one that gives you an actual lunch break or something. Or like go after or before? Maybe you should get an “actual life” and stop being a crybaby and making an ordeal out of someone not wanting to see you bc you don’t follow their rules. 

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    Unfortunately fetlife is no longer the place to even mention services. But you can still make a profile to meet like-minded people and promote your website/socials! You can also join groups by interests, and be in the know about events going on. 
     

    If you’re fascinated and want to learn the basics, my suggestion is to learn all about safety and follow some dom/dommes who’ve been in the kink community for a while. You could also try to find someone who is interested in mentoring, or possibly wants a partner to dominate submissives with. I don’t know if you switch at all, but if you do, being the sub for a domme can also teach you a lot about how a sub should feel during play. 
     

    For safety, I would suggest doing some research on YouTube or ordering some books about dungeon safety. Or just search the activity you’re interested in + safety to find articles/videos written by dom/dommes! Aftercare is important as well so definitely check in with your sub and nurture them after playing if they are interested. 

    As for advertising- I’d suggest having a separate tab on your site explaining your BDSM services and experience. Maybe an introductory special would entice some of your regulars to spice it up and explore! I also know of dommes having success on Eros. I believe they have a category especially for BDSM.

    But most of all- just make sure you’re having fun and everyone is having a good and safe time! Feel free to reach out if you’d like 🖤 

    I hope you have so much fun exploring BDSM!!

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    Gender inclusive term

    On 9/20/2022 at 4:43 PM, TyroneBRydemall said:

    Where are these $10 OF pages? I've only seen 25 bux and up per month from any girl.

     

    Oh there are TONS of models with cheaper pages. Usually it’s people who have a lot of subscribers but it just depends on the person. Some people price it low to get more subscribers and whatnot. But the initial $10 doesn’t always mean you get all the content for $10. There’s pay-to-view options, sexting packages, mailed gifts, etc. Free pages usually have uncensored stuff for a fee as well. If you look on their social media you can usually get an idea of how a model utilizes these options. Some models may have a higher subscription price, but no “paywalls” after that. It truly just depends on the person and what is comfortable to them. 
     

    But yeah I still don’t really see why a provider plugging their other business would bother anyone. I mean if you paid good money to advertise, wouldn’t you be doing yourself a disservice by not linking all your options? I get not everyone pays for content, but some clients/fans are delighted to support me/their favorite providers and models in any way, and seeing content they wouldn’t see elsewhere has usually had a positive impact! 
     

    Damn I should really figure out how to add a signature plugging my page lol.

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    1 hour ago, Bit Banger said:

    The year I went to Sturgis, it was 2 weeks BEFORE the rally.  I don’t do well in crowds😕

    Our scooter rally in the Ozarks has 80 participants this year. That’s going to be crowded.   We try to have no more than 10 bikes in any group.

    Ahh, this brings back memories of bike rallies in the Ozarks. They would take over haha. I don’t know if I’ll ever be brave enough to get a bike but I come from a family of bikers! And that makes me cool by association. 😎

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    36 minutes ago, Skg said:

    As as a kid we caught the monarch caterpillars and watched them make their chrysalis and transform into something beautiful, I still feel a bit guilty for catching them. 

    We did that in elementary school! They’re endangered or at least close so a lot of people do raise them. But nature is best! Last year I just made sure the wild milkweed pods distributed through my yard and saved a little for seed storing. This year my patch is about 4x bigger! It’s showy milkweed too, so it’s purple- my favorite! And it smells divine 💗 

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