GolfersTan

There are 2 body rub reviews in the database for Anja. Pretty distinct name to not be the same provider, even though the reviews are a bit out of date.

I think one reference should be sufficient. If you're able to confirm that the lone reference is indeed a provider that has seen the client, what more do you need to know? Asking for my real name and place of employment is an absolute deal breaker. I've encountered providers who mandate that because they see the client at their home. That's understandable, but that's not for me. In the end, I think everyone has taken a leap of faith at some point. Clients have seen providers with no reviews, and providers have seen clients without checking references or even asking for them. It makes the world go round, otherwise you'd run out of both clients and providers.

If I'm on a time crunch, I usually ask the provider to guess in minutes how far they are from my location during our initial communication. Understandable if they don't want to give too much detail in the ad. I've found that the definition of DTC on the ad boards is anywhere from Lone Tree to the Hampden/I-25 area.