sanity check on provider

[2tall5280]

I'm completely new to this hobby and am looking for my first meeting in Fort Collins. Kashmir is a provider in this area and seems legitimate. Not a lot of reviews (she isn't a fan of them) but is on p411 and date-check. Her reviewers have reviewed quite a few people that also seem legitimate.[snip]

What is contradictory - which goes for all provider's web pages - is when services are listed but in her etiquette she says to not discuss specific acts/acronyms/etc.

Can anyone ease my paranoia?

Thanks.

Edited August 6, 2015 by Kaduk
specifics....

[Guest]

What is contradictory - which goes for all provider's web pages - is when services are listed but in her etiquette she says to not discuss specific acts/acronyms/etc. Can anyone ease my paranoia? Thanks.

It is never a good idea to discuss services or rates. Its real simple, she is telling you what she offers so you don't have to ask.

[inkspot]

Reviews are an indication of what to expect at an appointment. Nothing is guaranteed but they give you a general idea. Once you are there and the fun begins, I am sure you will have lots to talk about. I have found most providers will listen to special request if they have seen you previously. You bring up a good point. You shouldn't talk about services but you want to know what you are paying for so you rely on reviews. If there are no reviews then you either hope for the best or wait for someone else to do the review. Sometimes you TOFT and walk out thinking "What the hell did I just do?"

[rhood]

She is legit.

[Guest]

........Sometimes you TOFT and walk out thinking "What the hell did I just do?"

But it is unlikely you will have this experience with Kashmir. She is a well respected, reputable provider.

Line of reasoning behind all this cloak and dagger stuff:

If you contact a lady, and she's undercover, and she records you on the phone asking how much for an hour, does she do her BJs with or withour a condom, does she take it up the azzz, and so on; well, my friend, you're guilty of solicitation, with evidence to prove it. Likewise if you ask those things up front in person.

The same danger exists for the lady. Proof of prostitution.

Now, if either the lady or the man turns out to be a member of LE, once you meet, someone is getting silver bracelets and going downtown. That's a given. BUT, if no evidence exists of a negotiation of sex for money, AND YOU KEEP YOUR FUCKING MOUTH SHUT, there's a reasonable chance you might beat the rap in court.

So. As a client, your job is to study the lady. I like to kiss. And I prefer BBBJ. Not all providers enjoy these activities. So, I study the websites and reviews. Are there indications the lady engages in these activities? Great!

Oh look here, she says her rates are 300 for an hour of her time. Oh, and she has some specific instructions on how to deliver the envelope!

Call her. What you discuss: Where. When. Thats it. You can be polite. Ask about the weather or how she is. But keep in mind this is business. She may ask for references or personal info. Give ONLY WHAT YOU ARE COMFORTABLE GIVING A STRANGER. This varies from person to person. If either one of you feel hinky about the meeting during this discussion, the meeting won't happen. And THATS OK. You are NOT A BASTARD if you don't want to provide some of the info shes asking for. SHE IS NOT A BITCH if she won't see you. But note, during the above discussion, neither one of you broke the law.

Less than an hour before you meet, shower. Use that bar of soap. Use it again. Did you wash your ass? Do it AGAIN. Nothing tells a pretty lady "I'm a stinking bastard" faster than leaving skidmarks on her sheets.

Did she mention specific instructions for delivering the donation? Follow them to the letter. If not, at her incall, find some conspicuous flat surface and drop the envelope right there in front of her. Don't discuss it. Trust me, she'll check it out before too long. In fact, this may be a good time to go wash your hands. When the lady comes to see me, I have this bad habit of leaving hundreds of dollars sitting out in the open on my bathroom counter. Again, no mention.

Now, if you've done your research, followed her directions, donated the right amount, are squeaky clean, and act like a gentleman, well hang on to your hat. You're about to get your bones jumped. And all those things you read about will probably happen without you even asking.

Hope this helps.

[pitbull]

The above is, essentially, all you need to know. Put this in the official how-to manual planned for release later this Fall.

[BigBaldBlk]

I'm completely new to this hobby and am looking for my first meeting in Fort Collins. Kashmir is a provider in this area and seems legitimate. Not a lot of reviews (she isn't a fan of them) but is on p411 and date-check. Her reviewers have reviewed quite a few people that also seem legitimate.[snip]

What is contradictory - which goes for all provider's web pages - is when services are listed but in her etiquette she says to not discuss specific acts/acronyms/etc.

Can anyone ease my paranoia?

Thanks.

She recently asked for all of her info to be removed from here, but with reviews all in 2015, you should be able to draw your own conclusions if she's legit or not.

As far as acronyms & specifics providers list in their website or ad pages, it's really hit or miss until you get BCD! What she may do with one gent is something she may not with another. Good luck and go with the flow!

[Guest]

But it is unlikely you will have this experience with Kashmir. She is a well respected, reputable provider.

Line of reasoning behind all this cloak and dagger stuff:

If you contact a lady, and she's undercover, and she records you on the phone asking how much for an hour, does she do her BJs with or withour a condom, does she take it up the azzz, and so on; well, my friend, you're guilty of solicitation, with evidence to prove it. Likewise if you ask those things up front in person.

The same danger exists for the lady. Proof of prostitution.

Now, if either the lady or the man turns out to be a member of LE, once you meet, someone is getting silver bracelets and going downtown. That's a given. BUT, if no evidence exists of a negotiation of sex for money, AND YOU KEEP YOUR FUCKING MOUTH SHUT, there's a reasonable chance you might beat the rap in court.

So. As a client, your job is to study the lady. I like to kiss. And I prefer BBBJ. Not all providers enjoy these activities. So, I study the websites and reviews. Are there indications the lady engages in these activities? Great!

Oh look here, she says her rates are 300 for an hour of her time. Oh, and she has some specific instructions on how to deliver the envelope!

Call her. What you discuss: Where. When. Thats it. You can be polite. Ask about the weather or how she is. But keep in mind this is business. She may ask for references or personal info. Give ONLY WHAT YOU ARE COMFORTABLE GIVING A STRANGER. This varies from person to person. If either one of you feel hinky about the meeting during this discussion, the meeting won't happen. And THATS OK. You are NOT A BASTARD if you don't want to provide some of the info shes asking for. SHE IS NOT A BITCH if she won't see you. But note, during the above discussion, neither one of you broke the law.

Less than an hour before you meet, shower. Use that bar of soap. Use it again. Did you wash your ass? Do it AGAIN. Nothing tells a pretty lady "I'm a stinking bastard" faster than leaving skidmarks on her sheets.

Did she mention specific instructions for delivering the donation? Follow them to the letter. If not, at her incall, find some conspicuous flat surface and drop the envelope right there in front of her. Don't discuss it. Trust me, she'll check it out before too long. In fact, this may be a good time to go wash your hands. When the lady comes to see me, I have this bad habit of leaving hundreds of dollars sitting out in the open on my bathroom counter. Again, no mention.

Now, if you've done your research, followed her directions, donated the right amount, are squeaky clean, and act like a gentleman, well hang on to your hat. You're about to get your bones jumped. And all those things you read about will probably happen without you even asking.

Hope this helps.

You just made my day!!

Kashmir is a sweetie! I have yet to meet her in person but through our multiple exchanges she comes off very level headed and sincere. I think she may have blown Fork's socks off in a bit of *role reversal*.

[Barbi Dahl]

I have had the honor of being able to chat with Kashmir in the past...She is a very kind and sincere person who places great value on friendship....She also values her privacy, just as most of us do....I am certain you will be very pleased in your meeting just respect her and manner in which she handles her business, just as is necessary with any other lady you might meet in this forum...

Best of luck with your experiences in the hobby and if you take the information provided by others here as well as doing your homework you should enjoy an overall pleasurable experience in the hobby....

Have a wonderful day....

[2tall5280]

Thank you for all of the responses, I'm feeling more confident in my researching...

Crazy shit that goes through my head: What if this site was really just a bunch of cops swapping lies and creating fake escort pages to trap horny people like me who just want to have fun with a beautiful woman.