Posted September 28, 2015 Yah, I've pretty much given up dating, mainly because I hate myself when I lie. Aside from the cover story reserved for people who can't get out of my life, such as my neighbors and siblings, and casual acquaintances who don't need to be shocked, I am kind of radical about telling my truth. So, why not tell my truth to the man I'm dating? Because then he expects to get sessions for free. I've tried to pull this thing apart from every angle and it keeps coming down to that. There is a big big difference between a date and a session but he is not going to understand it. This is the fruit of years and many attempts. I'd love to be wrong but I'm not. Blessings on every lady whose experience is different from mine. Tell me how you do it. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted September 28, 2015 Ladies, you are all so wonderful! Thank you so much for sharing your personal experiences and your heartfelt advice. I will take advice from each and every post. Gratitude to you all is an understatement. 😘 0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 1, 2015 I have a career that has no regular hours, requires an inordinate amount of "off hours" time from me and generally takes up most of my life. No balance so I don't have a hard time explaining away my "meetings" or periods of time that I'm unavailable. However, I've only had one exclusive relationship in a handful of years, and during that (short) time, I don't know that I could've explained seeing people as Sascha. Probably could've but it would've been tough at times. Generally, though, if we haven't had a conversation during which we discuss exclusivity, I just date as I date. Paid or not. No one needs to be the wiser. Unless I'm approaching a relationship looking toward marriage, I'm lying. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 2, 2015 honesty is the best policy! However i say im an exotic dancer it pretty much let him know im in the adult industry like it or not! and not beating around the bush about it. If a guy like u for u it wouldnt matter what u do....not saying they will accept anything but saying most men will surpass your shortcomings cause they are REALLY into U! Nowadays u have high rank people marrying strippers so with it televised i dont think its a great deal! all depends on who u are with and trust me hes out there! keep a positive mind when dating it will be all kinds of jerk offs n judgmental guys but i think if ur honest u weed thru them faster to get to your prince charming. it takes a strong person to be with any adult service girl and your honesty will pay off in the end... 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted October 12, 2015 Before i got a civvie job 1yr+ ago (escorting is less than part-time for me now) I always said "Customer Service" which is technically not a lie lol. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
