Vassago

Most of the posters here are from Colorado. I realize that this is a General Forum. I tried to keep in mind that my views are coming from a position of having lived in this state for quite a while. Assuming the OP is telling the truth, and his 'friend' legitimately received an illegitimate blacklisting, allow me to assuage some of your fears. 1. National blacklist sites are virtually worthless. The girls who pay for them, are really only paying for peace of mind. Whether any veritable information is disclosed on those sites regarding the integrity of clients, is highly debatable. Why? For the reasons already listed above by several other posters. You can always change your name, phone number and ripple your identity to start over again at any time. The girls in this industry do it all the time, so finger pointing with egg on your face just makes one look foolish. 2. See out of state providers: I know that the likelihood that I will wind up on a blacklist from a visiting provider for unjust or over-exaggerated reasons is slim to none. Why? I don't beat women. I don't steal from them and I don't waste their time. Most out of town girls couldn't give 2 turtle shits about the local drama. Think about. The girls fabricating lies on blacklist sites have no real means of striking back at clients when they feel they have been slighted, imaginary or otherwise. They put men on there to shame them and get revenge. Visiting girls come into town to make money, not argue with the locals. I have asked several out of state girls what they think about my local community in general, whether they have seen this board, and if so, whether they contribute to it. All of them (of the visiting girls I've seen, about a half dozen or so) said they do not contribute because there is too much drama. Some said they had never even heard of this board. Others said they found the most hilarious things they've ever read here, but don't write any contributions because of the drama. Take that for what it's worth. 3. Give it some time. There’s a good chance the provider who blacklisted you will either drop out of the profession by then or do something, write something, or say something that will get her blacklisted by the local hobbyists anyway. The kinds of women who maliciously try to defame someone unjustly through lies over the internet are usually the ones that eventually get their foot in their mouth sooner rather than later. Given the fact that you are concerned about being blacklisted at all indicates to me that you are more than likely living in a small city/town? If not, then why worry at all? Way too many fish in the sea. Way too many ways to get lost in the crowd. I have been hobbying for well over a decade. I am almost certain I am listed on some blacklist somewhere for little more than writing a bad review. The odds of me eventually running into a BSC provider get fatter by the year, especially if you are an honest reviewer in your community. Will I lose any sleep over it? Nope. Does that mean I am going to have to stop getting entangled with local women? Maybe, but it hasn't really stopped me yet. Am I going to keep having steamy passionate sex with all kinds of women from all over the world? I'd bet on it. Also bare in mind the views listed here constitute a tiny portion of the overall hobbying community. You wouldn't have 90 percent of the posts from Colorado if it were otherwise. Point? Worry less. Get on with your business.

Sure man, but it being the 21st century and all , maybe just the the Ben Carson look?

I don't think I labeled him anything but a Captain. Oh Captain, try not to trip on your sword on the way up to the podium.

Can you elucidate a little further? Because if I understand you correctly, this actually happens quite often. I didn't even know that was a policy of P411. Very good to know. Example: One provider blatantly admitted to me that she upsells the clients who contact her from her backpage ad. I saw her ad, looked her profile up on 411 and noticed her rate was twice as high as what she advertised on the BP ad. I told her I was a membr of P411. Found her profile and was curious about why she had a much higher rate on P411. Her response was "Backpage guys are cheap. They are looking for a cheap fuck. So when they get here if they want more I tell them it will cost (XXX) ". She then went on to say she was more than that, not just a cheap fuck. I assure you I'm worth it. Bla Bla Bla. Needless to say I told her I was busy gluing miniature furniture together. Perhaps another time.

White Knight? They're called Captain Cevahoe's. There's no need to go dragging the Templars into this mess. I don't think anyone here is without compassion. I think they are just stating the obvious. Sociopaths will do nothing to change their behavior. They're just crazy. Ranting about why crazy is crazy is like fighting with a grapefruit. At the end of the day nobody cares about Brandy's safety more than Brandy. I don't see anyone here among the Cevahoes offering to volunteer as door guard or to really do anything practical. If anything people like keyser are actually doing the most good by suggesting she take measures to protect herself. Because no one else will do it, and crazy is not going to go away.

most women i know who do cross fit tend to bulk up in the shoulders, neck, and arms. Particularly in the triceps. They do have washboard abs and arent quite as masculine as a full blown body builder. If thats the look you are going for maybe find a provider who is into cross fit. Too masculine for my tastes but there are men who enjoy this look. Which means there has to be providers out there that have this type of physique.