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The GoFundMe link is kosher, and I have personally talked to Cali so this is legit. We will keep everyone updated on the page, and yes, Cali will have access to the funds to take care of her needs. She is far from out of the woods-this will be a long recovery, and she is grateful for all the thoughts and support.
Xoxo,
Samantha Sheppard
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NCNS has been happening for as long as I have known about this industry, and well, that has been a few decades.
It ebbs and flows like this business which speaking of business...when wages, cost of living, food, gas, etc. go up we have to adjust our cost to meet our needs. Lowering doesn't help, in fact, I did that at one point and it cost me financially which I have never recovered from. Never again!
As we keep saying time and time again, this business is a luxury, not a necessity, and you are paying for a luxurious service- one that very few providers can do successfully.
Also, us providers are finding ways to diversify so we are not as inclined to lower rates. I myself am doing that right now as I don't want to work harder, I want to work smarter. Of course there will be the few ladies that don't have a choice and will be in circumstances that will require them to be a lesser rate than the majority of us, but it doesn't last too long. They learn how to persevere and get through the rough times.
Clients just need to get used to the fact that the girls are going to raise their rates, and this is going to be the new norm. There are various ways to make money in the sex industry and the girls are learning to utilize that. OF opened up doors to a whole 'nother level of business for the ladies, and it is catching on quick.
My advice to clients is save up for the provider you want to see, and make sure it's someone you want to have an amazing experience with.
Xoxo,
Samantha Sheppard
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Yes, these are scammers. They will set up an appointment, write back that they're there, and when you give them directions you get nothing. All this week I have had a bunch of these scammers trying to contact and set up. This is why I want real world information because then you can check and see if the phone number is legit. They will also have generic emails. This is why I ask for real name so I can confirm that this person is actually real.
Clients get all wigged out about giving real world information, but they don't realize we get b******* like this all the time, and nothing is more nerve-wracking than giving them your location and then nothing wondering what's going on.
If you need help with understanding how to screen, just reach out. Hope your week gets better.
Xoxo,
Samantha Sheppard
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On my screening form, I ask for real world info and a pic of your driver license next to your face. One, this insures that it is you that is contacting me. Also, I check that you aren't blacklisted or have anything concerning on your record as I don't want to see anyone with a violent history. I screen hard, and there are other ladies that do the same. This is to help lessen the chance of getting someone who could possibly harm me and it also provides security for you and me that I am doing my job professionally, and take seriously who I see.
Other ladies screen differently, and sadly, if they feel uncomfortable...they may not respond which is, unfortunately, not cool. They should give you a reason, but the provider didn't and you just have to decide if you are going to chalk it up to it just didn't work out, move on to another, or you write a review detailing the issue in case this could be a recurring thing.
Either way, you have to do what is best for you. I would say that in the future, make sure to do some homework on the provider...read her website, reviews, Twitter. Get a feel of the person so you have an idea of what to expect, and how they run their business.
Goos luck!
Xoxo,
Samantha Sheppard
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There is a food truck that parks in front of the DMV on Peoria that makes a mean street taco. Also, a few hidden gems on Montview make some pretty good authentic Mexican food. Not sure if mixing Mexican food with fun would be wise unless you are up to adding some spice to it. 😉😁
Xoxo,
Samantha Sheppard
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On 10/4/2018 at 1:33 PM, Juskiddng said:I dont have any experience with Eros but was wondering if the "eros verified" provider means anything? Does that add a level of credibility or is it useless?
It just means that the pics you sent along with the ID you sent show that you are the same person so those photos aren't fake. It still doesn't tell you if she will be legit as in not scam you when you walk in the door, but at least you know that you will be seeing who is in the photo.
Xoxo,
Samantha Sheppard
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1 hour ago, Savoir Faire said:Ms Sultry I usually don't even reply to people on here because LOL they read my statement then reply with ASSUMPTIONS they have gotten from their own thinking. No offense but you mention a burner phone, I don't use a burner phone, so I am going to skip over all of this BURNER PHONE info, you should be explaining all of that to the guys who use them and the ones that have A LOT TO LOSE................ And one more thing, it is VERY possible that we have met LOL, you just didn't know it was The Savior............................Have a wonderful day..................
Back in the day, my screening was much difference so if have seen me...I wouldn't be surprised. That is why I went to full screening because a serial rapist was seeing me with a fake alias then raping others. When I found out he had a rap sheet, and was completely unaware of it, and then he was trying to push boundaries with me...I woke up. Now I ask, and if I can't connect the dots with the info among other things that I won't mention due to safety, they don't walk in my door. I don't care if you are popular on an adult board, or a celebrity, loaded, or the guy next door...I just want to know who is walking in my door and if I will be safe.
Now, this topic got started about burner phones, and maybe you don't care about that, but the poster who started it does. Let's try to help out the fella with that.
Xoxo,
Samantha Sheppard
23 hours ago, Savoir Faire said:Yes, Yes, Yes I would see a PROVIDER with no website, no reviews, not verified on TOB, p411 or Tryst. I have seen so many PROVIDERS that fit this category and not a ONE have I had a problem with. I am not your normal CLIENT either, so I do what I call "PAVING the Way" for the WARY/LEARY TOB GENTS and the PROVIDERS by reviewing which brings them business and also makes the GENTS book with confidence....................... I would like to CAUTION PROVIDERS that think just because a GENT does not want to share his information with someone, does not mean he is a bad guy or going to create an UNSAFE atmosphere. Some just don't want to share their information because they have way more to lose than YOU do....................................
The reality is we both have something to lose, but us providers ask for screening because nine times out of 10 the guys that don't screen play games, waste our time, don't show up, or do hurt us. Every client that has screened with me and paid deposit have been fabulous clients. The ones that didn't follow those protocols to the letter have been an issue in some way or another. It tells me that obviously the system works and since I have been doing that my business has been so much better and I have been a lot happier. Yes, there are providers out there that don't require those things, but the likelihood of them having clients that act up are greater.
This is being said by someone who has been in this business almost 20 years and has seen a lot of changes in that time. I have done every type of screening or method that has been out there, and I can tell you this one so far has been the best.
You are welcome to see providers in the manner in how you feel comfortable, but the likelihood of you and I meeting up is pretty slim.
Anybody can get a burner phone to use, but it takes some work to get a real phone number under your name. We only ask for it to ensure you are who you say you are...we want to know that who is walking in our door isn't going to be a problem. If you want to use a burner phone after initial screening that is okay.
Xoxo,
Samantha Sheppard
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20 hours ago, Savoir Faire said:Yes, Yes, Yes I would see a PROVIDER with no website, no reviews, not verified on TOB, p411 or Tryst. I have seen so many PROVIDERS that fit this category and not a ONE have I had a problem with. I am not your normal CLIENT either, so I do what I call "PAVING the Way" for the WARY/LEARY TOB GENTS and the PROVIDERS by reviewing which brings them business and also makes the GENTS book with confidence....................... I would like to CAUTION PROVIDERS that think just because a GENT does not want to share his information with someone, does not mean he is a bad guy or going to create an UNSAFE atmosphere. Some just don't want to share their information because they have way more to lose than YOU do....................................
The reality is we both have something to lose, but us providers ask for screening because nine times out of 10 the guys that don't screen play games, waste our time, don't show up, or do hurt us. Every client that has screened with me and paid deposit have been fabulous clients. The ones that didn't follow those protocols to the letter have been an issue in some way or another. It tells me that obviously the system works and since I have been doing that my business has been so much better and I have been a lot happier. Yes, there are providers out there that don't require those things, but the likelihood of them having clients that act up are greater.
This is being said by someone who has been in this business almost 20 years and has seen a lot of changes in that time. I have done every type of screening or method that has been out there, and I can tell you this one so far has been the best.
You are welcome to see providers in the manner in how you feel comfortable, but the likelihood of you and I meeting up is pretty slim.
Anybody can get a burner phone to use, but it takes some work to get a real phone number under your name. We only ask for it to ensure you are who you say you are...we want to know that who is walking in our door isn't going to be a problem. If you want to use a burner phone after initial screening that is okay.
Xoxo,
Samantha Sheppard
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I personally don't have a preference, but I am never offended when a client requests a cover for bj. Just as my boundaries are respected, yours are too and encouraged as the time is about us being comfortable so we can have an enjoyable experience.
If clients/providers are worried about the safety of DATY...there are dams that can be used for just that thing, or better yet, whip out the good ole' saran wrap and use a piece of that for coverage (believe me, it works much better than the other one). If a provider just says no, just respect that that is her boundary and find other ways to have fun.
Honestly, it all comes down to everyone feeling safe, comfortable, and being happy.
Xoxo,
Samantha Sheppard aka Sultry Kitten
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9 hours ago, Hobby Hobbit said:those stoopid
produce/meat/poop type plastic bags
This one is easy...just swipe your finger(s) onto some water and just rub the fingers together over the part that opens. They open real easy that way.
I did Instacart during COVID, and when you have to get bags of produce for the customers...you learn these kind of tricks to do the job faster. Watch them shop...they know the tricks and are pros at what they do.
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Samantha Sheppard
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1 hour ago, Raine-7379 said:Turn it upside down and gently bang it in the counter. Bam seal broken.
That is how I break them. LOL!
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9 hours ago, oldguy47 said:A trick I was taught after arthritis was setting in - If the problem is the vacuum seal makes it just too hard to open you can try taking the can punch side of a combo can/bottle opener, put the pointy end under the lid, push handle toward the jar. You'll hear when air rushes in breaking the seal. Twist off should be easy then.
Yeah, my arthritis makes it difficult too so either someone has to open them for me, or I use this device that wraps onto the lid of the jar then I just push to the left to open. I will have to try your method and see how that works.
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Samantha Sheppard
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This is my new favorite song for Christmas!
Otherwise, my all time favorite is
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Samantha Sheppard
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Lids on jars...I just can't get them darn things open!
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Samantha Sheppard
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On 11/25/2022 at 2:35 PM, Hobby Hobbit said:With no idea what "minimally invasive" means to you, and where leading you on on a wild goose chase is unacceptable - full stop, screening for RW information (employment, social media, a selfie...) is simply too problematic for those of us determined to stay under the radar AKA suspicious and skittish, especially when there are very reputable ladies that don't require it. I mean, just search for prostitution sting for all the reasons why that is then, AKA the cherry on top, add my mug on your phone. Umm, no thanks! A force of nature, the path of least resistance is what it is which, though admittedly more work upfront, sometimes means resorting to the use of "less reputable" sites.
Then you won't be seeing any of the reputable ladies on this site, or in the world for that matter. We do this for our safety, and we will no longer gamble on seeing someone just because they say they are a "nice guy" or have to be "discreet".
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Samantha Sheppard
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On 8/12/2022 at 4:25 PM, Phishingcoast said:Hi I am new to the TOB. I am planning a trip to Denver and this platform is unique. I live in SoCal and go through the more traditional sites, Denver has a vibrant community here. My thoughts on the questions posted above 1. I find it interesting that “donations” are not listed on posts. My assumption is that while one is browsing they have a budget that does not meet expectations so they feel the need to haggle.
This is due to FOSTA/SESTA bring passed which affects all adult sites. I would read up on the laws to better understand how things work in this industry...it will help you to better understand why we run things the way we do.☺️
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Samantha Sheppard aka Sultry Kitten
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Sure you can have just those services...our rates are for "time and companionship". Make sure you peruse all of the provider's info to make sure you know her rules, rates, etc.
Xoxo,
Samantha Sheppard aka Sultry Kitten
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Yep, I remember well. Octavia was my first! Kia Waters(Penthouse Playmate) got me the cover and centerfold of a few porn magazines which got me some more memories of fun times at the AVN conventions, Halloween Party(don't think any of us will forget that) Vivacious Kimberly and her big heart, all the fun at the meet n greets at a certain Irish Pub, hours of teasing on the chat board, and the revolving door of scandals, trolls, debates that have happened on this board. What a memory lane!
Xoxo,
Samantha Sheppard aka Sultry Kitten
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Here is the deets on adult sites.
TOB- legit, but a huge number of providers and you have to go through numerous pages to peruse the girl of your interest. All providers are verified, and any new providers have to be approved by another provider to be able to advertise on here. The best for Colorado and a few surrounding states.
TRYST- legit, great for local, national, and international touring for providers. You do have to be verified as well, but when it comes to service that is up to the clientele interested(ie. YMMV). Google, and do your homework before biting the bullet. This site is my favorite as it very user friendly and especially for providers. Drawback is they have scammer's emails that go out to your email...don't respond, just trash them.
EROS-legit, tends to be more for the high end providers and the business clientele. Also, more popular in larger cities. For providers, an absolute nightmare to get ads up, and it is expensive to advertise. Clients, it can more common to have scammers. Definitely do your homework.
P411-legit, great for providers and clients to use as it allows you to get to know both sides before getting to meet(you can decide based on preference if that person is a fit). You can also okay someone which helps as a screening avenue. Drawback is not all providers or clients are legit/safe so you still have to do other searching to make sure you everything is okay. For the most part, a good site to use.
Private Delights-legit, it is easy to advertise on and easy for clients to find providers as well. Drawback is they have scammers reaching out to both providers and clients so don't answer anything in an email from this site. This has been becoming a trend with most adult boards. Also, they now charge a high fee for providers to advertise in some cities.
Slixa- legit, it is easy to put up an ad and it works well in just a few cities. Drawback is it is expensive to advertise on, and most providers will tell you that it isn't worth advertising on there due to the lack of response from clients. It isn't popular with the providers to use.
TER-legit, it is international so you can use this platform to advertise almost anywhere. Drawback, they are not provider friendly, clients are told to be graphic in reviews which is a turn off. Providers can only advertise once a week, and we barely get our way as to what we want on our profile that are connected to the reviews written about us. Even I have asked many times to have inaccurate info changed with no changes which affects the clients responding to the info they see. This one is also go do your homework...the info isn't accurate.
SkipTheGames, EroticMonkey, AdultLook, and other small boards- sort of legit, while there are legit providers, these boards have very little verification except proving you are of age, and are a total gamble. Also, they can tend to put up a profile of you without permission or you have a profile and you can't get access to it. They are all a little weird to navigate, and it is definitely more of a risky place to get a service provider. Do your homework diligently... there are definitely dimaond in the roughs, but make sure to know what to expect before biting the bullet.
Not sure if I missed any, but if I did...I apologize. There are many sites out there to peruse.
Xoxo,
Samantha Sheppard aka "Sultry Kitten"
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Check out sites like tryst, P411, and Private delights. Providers advertise there for that area.
Xoxo,
Samantha Sheppard aka Sultry Kitten
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On 7/12/2022 at 4:49 PM, veteranhobbyist said:This may not be politically correct but that's why I prefer to see girls from legal to about 21/22. Let's say a lady has been in the biz for 10 or 20 years, seeing 200 new customers per year. That's about 2000-4000 guys! Now, you see the lady + her 2000-4000 guys! Any wonder why there is a outbreak.
Dude, your reasoning is stupid!!! Yes, I said it! I haven't gotten an STD ever, and I have been testing and screwing for over 20 years!
The times I was more likely to get an STD was when I was 18-25 because I went BB with all my boyfriend's. Stupidest thing I ever did! I was lucky, but I had a few scares then from cheaters. This business taught me how to be safe, and how to be aware of STD plus knowing how to have safe sex(yes the way you have sex and care for your body is a big contributor.) I know more and.am safer now then when I was younger. Teens and young adults rarely know these things which is why STD's are higher in that age range.
Go educate yourself!
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Samantha Sheppard
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Also, in case anyone didn't know. There is a new STD called trichomoniasis. Nasty bugger, but treatable. I only know because when I did my regular testing, they asked me if I wanted to test for that, and I had no clue what they were talking about. Luckily, all is good, but even I, a professional, can still learn something new.
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Samantha Sheppard
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I am not a client, but I know of a client that sees me that went and got a second job just so he could spend that extra money on me. His original job would not be enough to play, and he wanted to see me that bad so he decided to work more. I make sure he earns every dollar of it too! 😉
I know of clients that sneak lunch money, their "allowance", set aside a %, etc to make sure they can have some fun. Yes, some make enough they can splurge regularly, but a good portion have to be creative to see us. It is all in how you prioritize how important time with us is to you.
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Samantha Sheppard
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Then write a review on who ripped you off. Us ladies that do require deposits, and take great pride in providing stellar service don't condone this kind of action as it makes our job harder.
Something to take from this...do your homework. Google the ladies you are interested in, peruse reviews, look for social media interactions etc. about them...make sure they are legit, and professional. This will be key in making you comfortable and willing to provide the money necessary for the experience you are looking for. No one wants to hear of these kinds of situations happening, but sadly they do. Just because a gal looks hot and gets you going doesn't mean she will be good. The guys that read, and take their time to choose tend to get richly rewarded. Not every provider is the same.
Good luck in your future ventures.
Xoxo,
Samantha Sheppard
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Cali Rose *
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It is okay. I just wanted to make sure it was clarified so there was no confusion. Thanks G!
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Samantha Sheppard