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Hobby phone. I use Google Voice and it works, but just barely (I only use their web app to avoid it completely invading my phone). I only hobby a few times a year, so I can tolerate its quirks. If I could get out more often, I'd definitely invest in a hobby phone.

I wasn't trying try to bring the drama and your response surely didn't read as peaceful to me, but a lot of subtext can get lost when responding only in writing. Peace back to you.

If you really want to know about my precious bodily fluids, I prefer MSOG, but don't always pursue it. I didn't even see Hunter's response. Funny that I echoed her. Sorry my response triggered you so much. You should stop typing and go find some company...

Think about it this way. If this was your profession, would it really matter to you? It wouldn't to me. E.g. if you run a hardware would you care whether the customer buys two hammers or a hammer and a screwdriver? No, you wouldn't. As long as you're both getting what you need, it doesn't matter. Each customer has different needs. As long as my customers are happy, I figure I'm doing my job properly. This works in pretty much any line of work. Just be happy this service is available to you and have a great time. Most women are turned on more by mental stimulation than by physical acts. If you really care about what your provider wants, then have a genuine conversation with her instead of focusing on the number of "pops" you are going to have. You might be surprised with the results.

Apparently nobody knows what you're talking about. Personally, I don't believe that changing the way you eat for a week will "cleanse" your body. We have organs evolved over millions of years that take care of that and there's no clinical evidence that shows that any of these detox cleanses work. However, there's a lot to be said for mind over matter and the placebo effect. If it makes you feel good and doesn't do any harm, why now give it a try? I even tried one based on healthy smoothies. I made it two days before I went back to my normal diet. Personally, I prefer a healthy diet and regular exercise. Still, here are a couple suggestions: This one is mostly just a healthy diet, but they call it a cleanse: https://www.health.com/health/gallery/0,,20570282,00.html If you google "detox smoothie" you'll find a huge assortment of recipes for easy smoothies. You can also buy pre-made products if you don't want to blend them yourself. Good luck! Let us know how it turns out.

Slim pickings in Rochester. There used to be some pretty consistent BP listings, but now there's virtually nothing in that area. I occasionally see a listing on Eros (or maybe Eccie?) for Rochester, but it's pretty rare. I'll shoot you an IM if I see anything. There are some providers in the southern TC metro area. They're probably your best bet. Good luck

I recently had a first-time experience. I met a provider and she said "now that we're meeting in person, I'm 'Johna'." I introduced myself using my real name (which happens to be super generic, so I don't have a problem giving it out). TBH, it made no difference to me but it seemed to make her more comfortable. After that, the night progressed as expected. To each his/her own, I guess.

Welcome back. We're not bad once you get to know us.

I understand your skepticism and it seems reasonable at first, but keep in mind these providers must take on far more risk than you do. For us, it's just once every week, month, or year depending on our habits, budgets, etc. but they must take the same risk for every client they meet. If providing references feels too risky, this might not be the right "hobby" for you. Consequently, I've been using P411 much more in the last few months. I've found that many P411 members will give OKs on P411, but won't provide references beyond that. Now when I request time with a provider who is not a P411 member, I'm stuck in the same situation as the new guys with no references to speak of. There's one who I would really love to meet, but I probably won't pass her screening because of this little issue. It's inconvenient for me, but I can't blame providers for wanting to ensure their own safety. I just have to live with it until I have a good mix of P411 and non-P411 refs. Good luck out there.

I thin Megan is the only one who really answered your question about feeling guilty. Logically speaking, doing incall is just as "wrong" as doing outcall. It all really comes to how it affects you. Risks and consequences aside, do you feel as guilty doing an incall at the provider's place as you would doing an outcall to your home? If not then your best bet is an incall. Why cause yourself angst when you don't need to? As a bonus, you will be mitigating some risks of getting caught. Also, if this stuff makes you feel guilty, you might want to look into another "hobby." Good luck and stay safe.

Looks pretty cool. I already have a (more complicated) solution, but this looks like it could be handy.

I had to Google it, so here it is for those of you who don't want to take that step. It's really amazing that we have the same complaints they had 2500 years ago. The children now love luxury; they have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for elders and love chatter in place of exercise. Children are now tyrants, not the servants of their households. They no longer rise when elders enter the room. They contradict their parents, chatter before company, gobble up dainties at the table, cross their legs, and tyrannize their teachers.

Nope. I watched the show Humans. When they rebel, the jerks will be torn to shreds.

It seems every generation thinks the new group is not as good as they were. I was called lazy and entitled. Millennials are called lazy and entitled. So will the next bunch. I remember watching the show All in the Family in which Archie Bunker complained about the new generation on nearly every episode. It's a trend that seems destined to continue forever. Sometimes I catch myself having similar thoughts because, darnit, Gen X rocks! Then I remember I raised a few millennials and their generation is filled with some of the kindest and most thoughtful people I've ever met.

Change it. I'm stealing that pic, BTW. I'll insert it into my post whenever I defend someone.

Osso Buco. My mouth is watering just thinking about it.

This behavior is why I've seen posts on other boards complaining that TOB is a clique filled with bullies. It would be easy enough to fix if the mods would follow the same rules they set for the rest of us. For the most part, this is a really good little community, but this board has a tendency to pile on when attacking or defending other members and the mods support the behavior. Don't get me wrong. I've IM'd them a few times and they seem like good, reasonable folks. There are just some conversations they can't seem to keep their fingers out of.

Gawd! Don't get me started on the zipper merge!! It's so simple and it works. What really pisses me off are those assholes who think they are helping by blocking the incoming lane so nobody can merge properly. C'mon. Thanks for giving me this thread to vent, Lacy.

If you know your stuff, then don't worry about it. I don't know where you are in the process but if you can seek out a mentor, do it. If you've made it this far then chances are you are are right where you should be. A relationship with a professional can give you that confidence you might be missing. Good luck.

I got in for a while, then was blocked again. Must have been a mistake. That's OK. I'd rather not support them anyway.

Just the tip grazing mine. mmmmmmm.

Welcome to the fold. You can search postings and I think you can search the forums for the locations you're looking for. Good luck and stay safe.

I didn't see it at first. Once you see it, you can't unsee it.

Thanks for all the great intel. Looks like the light rail will be my salvation on this trip.